The boyfriend s family is poor, and his parents are against it.

First of all, this approach is wrong.

Because I don't know the situation of the two of you, but saying that the family conditions are not good and refusing this is definitely not a reason, if your boyfriend is not self-motivated and does not have the spirit of struggle, what is the use of having more money in the family? It still depends on your boyfriend's ability, if he doesn't have the determination to fight for you and endure hardships for you, then divide, don't hesitate. So you still have a good talk with your boyfriend, talk calmly, it seems that the two of you are not too young, so this is also very important, and each other needs to be treated calmly, right?

Although I'm not in the same situation as you now, it's almost the same, my girlfriend's parents don't seem to agree, my family's conditions are okay, the middle and upper ones, but my own conditions are not good, I love my girlfriend very much, but I have to make some achievements, right?

No matter how rich the family is, no matter how much money there is, it is only temporary, and if you don't work hard, the focus is the same as 0, isn't it?

Aren't you writing this to get the approval of us onlookers? I hope we agree with your emotions, yes, but the real problem is in front of you, the material foundation determines the superstructure, I am a person who is resolutely against naked marriage, it doesn't matter if a man doesn't have a car, he can't do it without a house, he can't do it without a house, how can he give you a stable home.

You have been with him for a few years, and your parents have been with you for a few years, think about it yourself. It's just a matter of time.

Many things in life backfire, and it is most important for a woman to find someone who can live with you. When two people are together, if they can't even meet the basic material things, they won't be happy in the future.

I don't completely agree with that scumbag.

From what you said, I personally think it's better to separate, but I don't agree with some of what you said.

Most of the love without the blessing of the family is unhappy, and it is not good to let the other party betray their relatives because of love.

Breaking up because you can't withstand the pressure of your family means that you don't love him enough, and the pressure of your family is a fire that tests your love, but unfortunately this love didn't stand it, or it didn't last long.

It must be right, people can be perfect without feelings in their lives, although you are now deeply affectionate and have good feelings, but with the successive trivial troubles of life, they will slowly deteriorate, quarrels will slowly become more, and your temper and character will change invisibly. Or are you confident that the two of you are in love enough to withstand any pressure? Any realistic setbacks?

My relationship for more than 8 years and 200 days was defeated in this way.

So can we be friends? Then you go and ask him, maybe he thinks, 'It's divided.' Who is friends with you'. And why are you friends? Chatting and eating together?

Don't be like this, "what two hearts love each other", so "earth-shattering".

Tell me about your interactions, (I guess that's what happened: he will look at you intently and make you feel like you're the only one in the world.)

1. It's so beautiful, the feeling in a friend movie).

I hope you don't get carried away by love, you can ask yourself: is your relationship real, is it too 'pretending'? (It's very attractive).

My reply is that I want to talk to you about the relationship, your job, the income of the two families, regardless of it.

Affection. There are indeed things, such as: you have two hearts, two hearts are your attitude, how are your feelings?

For example: I really want to be admitted to XX University. The sincerity here is the 'attitude'. So how did I work hard: get up early and study late. This is my study.

To put it simply: your two hearts do not mean that your relationship is healthy and beautiful.

Does he have his own car and house, if he has ideals or can make you see hope, it's okay, do you think material and spiritual are important, don't let yourself regret it in the future.

Sometimes it's better to be realistic.

This really needs to be well communicated.

Slag is a god 24 +1, well said.

If a boy's family conditions are not good and his parents strongly oppose it, it is necessary to consider these three questions:

1. Whether he is self-motivated.

Sense of responsibility, whether you work hard enough.

2. Whether he has a good personality or not.

3. Will his family help you in the future, or will it be a burden to you?

After knowing these points, you can consider whether to stay together or give up to avoid the possibility of regret in the future.

Parents' thoughts.

All parents don't want their daughters to suffer in the future, so you must understand that you are not looking for a parent to satisfy.

It's that your parents have more experience than you, and they know how much hardship you will suffer in the future if you find someone with bad conditions.

For most young people who have not yet developed to the stage of firewood, rice, oil and salt, it is easy to imagine a beautiful and simple future.

At the same time, I will be overly optimistic about my own ability, and always feel that it doesn't matter if I am poor now, we can work together.

Of course, I don't object to this point of view, after all, I also came from a poor student who has just graduated, and I also firmly believe in a point of view: "Don't bully young people into poverty."

The best way is to wait to marry your boyfriend first, give him a few years, let him struggle, see a little achievement, and then marry each other, your parents will also be anxious, so that it will come naturally, you can get married, if you love you, are you afraid to wait a few years?

If you tell your parents that your boyfriend's family conditions are not good, but your boyfriend is capable, and you believe that your boyfriend will make the family conditions better and better through his own efforts, I don't think your parents will object to it anymore.

The boyfriend's family conditions are not good, as a parent, you should actually know more, that is, to give support, and then tell your parents that he is a very attentive person and a very hard-working person, and he will be good in the future.

My boyfriend's family is very poor, and my parents are against us getting married, which is a normal phenomenon, because all parents want their children to marry better and not suffer from it. But two people love each other, and they should impress their families with their sincerity and get everyone's blessings.

1. Strive to be accepted by your family For yourself, your parents are your important people, but in the face of love, you can't let yourself go, and when you identify a person, you don't want to give up easily. At this time, I will try my best to let my parents see our sincerity, and let my parents see that my boyfriend's goodness is not a side that will be there if you have money.

Second, the blessing of the family is very important, every relationship or marriage will make you feel very happy if you get the blessing of the family, and if you don't have the blessing of the family, you will feel very wronged and make yourself feel very uncomfortable. When you want to communicate with your parents, you are subject to sarcasm, such emotions will make you unacceptable, the palms and backs of your hands are meat, and this situation will make people feel very uncomfortable for a long time. For myself, only when I can get the love and blessing of my parents can I endure it, feel that my life is very happy, and I will have the courage to go on.

3. Marriage belongs to two peopleIf two people are each other's true love, but still can't get the support of their parents, I will also be decisively with my boyfriend at this time. It is not easy to meet someone who really likes me and likes me in my life, but I will prove it to my parents with my actual behavior and let them see the changes we have.

It is not a terrible thing for a person to be poor, as long as there is enough self-motivation and a sense of responsibility will change everything, many times parents are for their own good, but life is their own after all, so this time you need to make your own rational choice. Parents love their children, and as long as they are sincere enough, I believe they will be touched and blessed by them.

The best way is to impress your parents with your true feelings, if you really love each other, you must reveal your true feelings in front of your parents, so that they can be infected by your love, so as to give up their original ideas and support your union.

In fact, I think the solution is to make this boy capable and promising, in this way, in fact, as long as he has the ability to make his daughter happy, their parents will not object.

You should let your boyfriend go out to work, show your more attractive side, prove to your parents that it can give you a good life, and let your boyfriend get along with your parents often.