Tell us about your attitude towards the elderly in society?

I have a more respectful attitude towards the elderly in society. I think everyone should respect the elderly.

Respecting the old and loving the young, I think this is the most basic attitude and way for all of us.

In fact, I only have a very respectful attitude towards the elderly in society, because after all, they are old people.

For some unreasonable, let them feel the sadness of society, of course, we must be filial to them.

When people are old, they have experienced the trials of society, their mentality is also tolerant, and many things have been seen through, and most of the old people are respectable and lovely.

I just don't think I'm optimistic about the old people in society, because an old man I met at the bus stop touched porcelain.

My attitude towards people in society is that you should take care of your body.

The old man now seems to be a bit unreasonable, relying on the old and selling the old, and moral kidnapping.

I think that many old people in society now exist and rely on the old to sell the old, which is very annoying.

Respect is the main thing, and prevention is the secondary. Most are kind.

Tolerant, tolerant attitude, as long as it doesn't touch my bottom line, I have no problem with principle.

Looking at the elderly in various lifestyles in society, they will think of the lifestyle of their children and their attitude towards the elderly.

1. Don't let middle-aged and elderly people feel lonely. Have time to spend more time with them, even when you are busy, you should often say ** greetings. Because what middle-aged and elderly people are most afraid of is that their children will put their loneliness aside.

2. Respect the middle-aged and elderly. We young people, middle-aged and elderly people will have different views on certain things or deal with certain events depending on the age we live in and the depth of our experience. If you respect him, you will give him good advice and will think things more comprehensively; On the other hand, if you respect him enough, some of your good opinions, I believe he can too.

Therefore, respect is the most basic principle of living in harmony with each other.

3. Always empathize. That is to say, you should always put yourself in their shoes and think more about them, so that psychologically you will feel that it is natural to do something for them, and you will feel more relaxed.

4. This is the last and most important point, that is, to treat it with care.

Features of the senior lifestyle:

Gradually withdraw from the activities of working and professional life. This is the most prominent and fundamental feature of the old age lifestyle. This characteristic becomes more pronounced at an advanced age.

This is accompanied by a loss or reduction in earned income, which leads to the need to rely on pensions, insurance, social assistance, or personal assets as a source of income security. The amount is generally lower than before, which will limit consumption to a certain extent. The consumption of the elderly is focused on the satisfaction of the basic needs of daily life.

The obvious reduction of social and political activities is correspondingly the decrease in social contact, the frequency of interpersonal interaction is significantly reduced, and in severe cases, it may even lead to detachment from society, so it is easy to have a sense of loneliness and loss.

There has been a marked change in the content of spiritual and cultural life activities. First, there has been a significant reduction in the number of activities engaged in learning and receiving education. The main purpose of learning for the elderly is to satisfy their interests and hobbies and to enhance social interaction.

Second, the decrease in occupational and socio-political activities and the increase in personal leisure time have led to a significant increase in people's various interests and hobbies.

Ideal old age:

There is no earthly hustle and bustle, no suspicion of deceit. On a quiet afternoon, the sun shyly hid behind the clouds. I walked alone through the misty mountains, as if I had stepped into a fairyland, standing in the shade of a tree with a grateful heart.

Treat nature's bounty. Look at the wildflowers that bloom quietly on the lawn under the trees, and marvel at their courage, even if they are born in the mountains that are rarely visited, they still do not forget to bloom their beauty. A crisp birdsong came, and a flock of unknown birds were jumping in the treetops, so free, so happy, so energetic.

When you see it, you feel that you are the bird, unrestrained and full of energy. I yearn for this kind of life. No worries, no lust.

There is a sense of tranquility. In the dusk when the sunset is lying on the lake, invite a close friend, walk hand in hand on the lake, look at the afterglow of the sunset, sigh that time flies, and can't help but reflect. Looking at the calm and picturesque lake through the afterglow, I was immediately relieved that no matter how the outside world changes, as long as I respond to all changes with the same, I will always live the life I want.

Maybe I'm not an eagle who can show the blue sky, so why not be a snail? I yearn for this kind of life. There are no worldly white eyes.

There are no pretense concerns. Some are sincere family affection. On a quiet and peaceful winter night, the hoarfrost falls lightly outside the house, and the cold lingers. The tea stove in the house was steaming. At the moment, my family and I are sitting around the tea table and drinking kung fu tea.

Pleasantly share the experiences and anecdotes of the day. The cosy and warm small hall is filled with the familiar laughter of the family. In this precious time of reuniting with loved ones, enjoy the warmth of this loved one.

This warmth is enough to dispel the chill of a winter night, and a flame is ignited in our hearts to warm the whole body. Everyone has their own life that their hearts want to live.

Maybe not quite the same.

If you are satisfied, your support is my biggest motivation.

Fully enjoy the good life that the society gives back to us, make up for some of our shortcomings, and find back the lost self. Our contribution is unconditional, and there are conditions for taking. Don't fantasize about how to treat the hungry in society, and don't fantasize about how your children and grandchildren will be filial.

There is no disappointment without hope. We should not pin our "happy old age" on our children, but should arrange our old age according to our own conditions and social realities with our own abilities. Be prepared to get through the difficulties.

Don't take family affection too seriously, don't create too much family affection. Don't be sentimental, thus increasing the burden of your feelings. If it's too emotional and human, it's just you who gets hurt.

We must not be too weak and give up, but learn to protect our own rights and interests. Don't be a hero, it's boring to find yourself, and don't easily agree to do anything for others. Don't do stressful and burdensome things, and don't set fixed tasks for yourself at a fixed time.

More is better than less, and it is necessary to give up little by little. It's very simple to take it easy, take care of your own business, don't worry about other people's business, don't worry about God's business. First of all, we must manage our own affairs well, and contribute less to the society and children.

If you insist on doing things that are beyond your own ability, you will not only make mistakes, but you will also cause trouble and even cause accidents. The elderly should not be too obsessed and invested in anything, otherwise they will eat the bitter fruit and no one will pity them. Manage your own colorful, comfortable and comfortable life in your old age.

The above is an attitude, a concept, a culture, and a wisdom!

You can only accept it slowly. What seems to be a kind of "work" is actually a kind of "love" for their children, and parents will always care for their children in different forms. As the saying goes: pity the hearts of parents in the world.

On the one hand, the old man's desire to control his children is too strong, and he always wants to dictate the married life of his son and daughter, and wants them to live according to their own ideas, and this will also cause the disgust of the daughter-in-law or son-in-law, and then there will be contradictions.

On the other hand, the concept of the elderly and the concept and living habits of young people are different, generally speaking, a very good old man must live with his children and husband and wife, living together all day long, because of the existence of differences, it is inevitable that there will be various contradictions, and after the contradictions, the old people will cry and complain that their children are always talking to their spouses, saying that they have raised a white, in fact, in the eyes of outsiders, this is a bit unreasonable.

For the elderly who do this, the children have grown up, have their own lives and choices, they have the ability and the right to deal with everything themselves, they should not interfere in their lives, to respect their choices, although this is difficult, after all, they have been in charge of their children for decades, they have been accustomed to the identity of parents, and feel that children should listen to their own words, but this is not right, to adjust from the concept, to do something they want to do, instead of staring at the children's body.

In the traditional cultural atmosphere, young people should take the initiative to understand the elders, although there is no need to be as close to absolute subordination as in the previous social period, but understanding and respect and appropriate obedience have their existence value and basis, and "filial piety" as the first of traditional virtues, which also contains the value orientation of both filial piety and obedience. Therefore, the younger generation should take the initiative to understand that the older generation is the proper meaning of the question.