Interpersonal and communication skills, how to maintain friendships?

If you want to maintain a friendship, you first need a friend, and only if you are a real friend, there will be a friendship that needs to be maintained. Don't be "unrequited", you think that you are friends with him, and his attitude towards you does not look like what a friend does, so make sure that it is a friend before you can talk about friendship. Friendship is a kind of emotional problem, as a friend, each other is sure to have attraction, thoughts, behaviors, qualities of mutual recognition and even appreciation, friends if the distance is relatively close, often make an appointment to eat together, get together, chat, share their happiness, listen to some changes around each other, what is to help, this is called friends, according to your way of getting along, choose your way of maintaining friendship, this specific method, maybe you are the most understanding.

If the distance is relatively far, just take the time, find a time when both people are free, or have the opportunity to meet and chat, now the communication is so convenient, WeChat, or some "eat a chicken" together and so on, this is also considered to be two people to maintain friendship.

Interpersonal communication and the face of the different objects to choose different ways, in the face of ordinary interpersonal communication we need to be honest, broad-minded, honest and friendly, but these are also within their own moral bottom line and the scope of the law can be done, not because of interpersonal communication to blindly echo the other party's requirements, to have their own bottom line, suffering is a blessing, but don't suffer to be pitted; Show your own advantages, reflect your own cultural literacy, and in layman's terms, leave a good impression.

A large part of the communication and communication between us and our friends is based on talking, although the word is contrary to the ear, it does not mean that others like to listen. Some small-minded people don't thank you, but even hate you, so we treat different people differently to make them more accepting and enhance our friendship.

If you want to have a strong communication ability, you must first have a certain ability to understand, only if you can understand what the other party says, you can talk about communication, because there are often voice-overs when communicating, because there is no explicit but there is a more implicit expression, understand the needs of the other party's important parts, and communicate more with half the effort, learn to "listen" then the rest is "say", when speaking or questioning, you must understand what problems the other party has, whether you know how to solve these problems, Know how to solve the existing difficulties, before speaking, you already have a draft in mind, according to the logic of the question, try to be simple and clear in the process of speaking, and be simple and clear for the problem.

If your friend has something that makes you uncomfortable, we can communicate with your friend in an indirect and tactful way, and if he does something wrong, we can't let him go on like this, we can tell him that it is not right from a perspective that she can easily accept.

Personally, I think that the relationship between people is actually related to the personality of both parties. At present, most of the people I have come into contact with need to be in constant contact, that is, they rely on communication to maintain, but some of them are spiritual exchanges.

A big part of the reason we can be friends is that we are attracted to each other and appreciate each other, not for a certain purpose, so we need to be genuine.

When I was in school, I quarreled with my classmates because of the small matter of getting the wrong homework book, but later the two sides reconciled through praise. Therefore, there are often some small contradictions in the small things of school, but we must learn to communicate with each other in a friendly way, and communicate in a sincere way to achieve good results. 1.

Learn to understand others more When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who does not know much, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication of daily topics. 2.Properly maintain respect for others when we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, and when communicating with others, we should respect others and don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express more and express their opinions, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express them, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

3.When communicating with people on topics that everyone is interested in, everyone likes to communicate about topics they are interested in and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that they can make each other feel.

Your sincerity and feeling that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone wants to be more understood and respected by others, and exchanging more of each other's expertise and knowledge is precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other. 4.Learn to listen humbly and communicate with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only such a communicator.

Only then can we reflect our sincerity and humility and courtesy, so that we can harvest true friendship. 5.To learn to praise others praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, others express opinions if we can properly express praise, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect

I think that young people nowadays are more caring, and they are willing to live with pets, so that they can better love life and love our environment, which is a very good attitude towards life.

Therefore, we must also actively cultivate our own good attitude towards life, learn to communicate and get along with others in a friendly manner, and life will become better and better.

1. Respond in a timely manner when talking.

First of all, I have to know how to respond, if you don't say a lot of things with great interest, and you don't have any expression, it will make people feel very embarrassed or uninteresting, so that the light words can only end hastily, and it will not help your language communication, so you should respond to others in a timely manner when you talk to others.

2. Closed Hongtong attitude and respect each other.

The attitude when communicating is also very important, when communicating should be humble and friendly to communicate with the other party, and when talking to respect the other party, in the process of conversation to keep leaning forward, not leaning back, and can not lean on the chair, so that the whole person will appear lazy.

3. Be concise and to the point.

The expression of ideas and ideas should be concise and to the point, concise and effective description can better complete the communication of the work, which is the performance of the ability to work, and accurate expression can reduce the working time by more than half.

4. Learn humor.

Humor can bring oneself and others closer, and can also resolve many conflicts, when there is a misunderstanding of work communication, humor can change the awkward atmosphere, is a skill that must be mastered in the workplace.

5. Use praise more.

Only by praising others can you show your courage. Praising the merits of others will gain the respect of others, and at the same time, you will be more motivated to learn.