Give me an opinion, thank you, thank you for your opinion,

There is no need, it seems that the mother's family seems to be angry with you because of something, maybe it is not as simple as it seems, or the mother's family is an unreasonable person, if it is like this, it will only worsen the matter, the first problem is to solve the contradiction between you and your wife, I hope to be as loving as ever, don't destroy your hard-won love for the sake of others, change the status quo, you must start from yourself, or you should find a peacemaker to listen to the reality of the mother's family, what is the situation, Only by knowing each other and knowing oneself can one not be defeated. In fact, this kind of thing can appear in many families, every family has a difficult scripture, not false at all, the most important thing is to look at your attitude, as the saying goes, raise your hand and don't hit the smiling person, at this time you must calm down, don't be impulsive, how did you say it when you married someone's daughter, you have to do it. Hey, men can bend and stretch.

How to say it, I don't think there's anything right or wrong, everyone is wrong, because everyone has selfish intentions, but your mother-in-law's attitude is really almost How to say it, you have to endure this breath, then it's over, if you can't bear it, maybe it will become bigger, and it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, and it is not clear to say.

What is the purpose of you calling everyone? Do you want to make a fuss? Tell you, it's better not to do this!

This will only make the two sides estranged, and do not solve the problem, you should love your wife, you are a man, the husband should bow his head or lower, the mother-in-law is an elder after all, scolding you and saying you two sentences you will listen, now only you bow your head and admit your mistakes, even if the fault is not you! For this family, for the children! "Find your family and make it clear" It's not advisable!

It's kids' doing! Your wife is passive now! You can go to your father-in-law to help and be a pleasing son-in-law!

Alas, you really don't know how to say anything about this situation, and frankly, the first time he has this situation, you should have told him to remember the lesson and not repeat it.

There is a saying that "there is one and there are two, and there are two and there are three", I heard you say that he has not appeared in such a situation once or twice, you have made trouble because of this matter, and he has promised it, but then he has committed it again, indicating that he has formed a kind of luck is psychology, or a habit, always feel that you will accept his mistakes and will not leave him, and even he thinks that you love him very much, and he can be willful in your love, which is a very bad momentum (I don't know if what I said is right).

It is advisable to take certain steps to curb this momentum: for example, be open and honest with him, tell him what you think of him now and your concerns about the future, and say that you will never be able to live with him again in such a situation. Then leave him for a while, calm yourself down, let him calm down, think about your future, see how he is doing, and whether it is worth your efforts and redemption.

Your life must be a mess right now, and if you get out of this situation first, maybe you can feel something different. You can first try to do what you like without him, or chat and watch TV with your family, or go shopping with friends, when two people are together, you will actually ignore a lot of things, and change yourself a lot, when you leave him, you will definitely not get used to it at first, but slowly you will find a lot of beauty that you have ignored. For example, the care of family members, the confiding of friends, the freedom and freedom when you are alone, there are many, many more.

When the mood calms down, you can see how he is doing? Are you still willing to put such a beautiful thing in his hands? If you are really with him in the future, how will your life change?

Will you be able to accept these changes?

If you leave him, there will definitely be some sadness, after all, people have feelings, and after being together for so many days, how can they forget it. But you have to remember that it's not just two people who are together, it's two families, and you'll have children of your own in the future. Is it worth it if you involve your parents, relatives, and children in reality in gambling, paying off debts, apologizing endlessly and repeatingly, and being heartache and numbness again and again in order to remember a beautiful relationship?

Of course, if he is willing to repent and does do something, and your family is willing to accept him again, then it is of course best, and it depends on his performance.

I said all this, and it sounds easy, but it will definitely take a lot of determination for you to do it, and whatever the choice, you have to calm down and think about it. The pursuit of happiness is everyone's right, don't feel guilty, there is no way to force the two of them if they are not suitable together, since you have encountered this problem now, it is better than encountering this problem after getting married and having children, otherwise your choice and life will be more difficult. In general, I hope what I said is helpful to you, and I hope you are happy.

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