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Anonymous users2024-02-09If you can't change it, then learn to accept it. College is actually a transitional period when you enter society, and you have to adapt or change, because society is even more so, and you can't see even the most basic politeness. Cruel people don't bother with it, or they may not know each other very well.
It's just a freshman year, and there's still a long time to go, take your time, use your sincerity to go into the hearts of others, and build deep friendships.
I wish you a happy and successful university life!
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Actually, I've felt this way before, but most of the time I haven't. I think it has something to do with your personality, if you are optimistic and cheerful, then use your cheerfulness to influence others, so that other people will change because of you, or talk to you differently from others, and be very close to you! Hehe......
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Anonymous users2024-02-07。-I want to say oh,There's a reason for the stiffness of interpersonal relationships.,Why do I think those classmates in school are very good?,I'm also a student now, but I'm different from you.--I think it's your own problem.,It's not just to play together every day.,The important thing is to talk to people more about things and care about others.,To know how to listen to the hearts of others.,Don't wait until you have something to ask someone to help you before you think about being polite.。。。
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Anonymous users2024-02-06How to say it. High school is a place of people, and the customs and habits are similar, so it is easier to blend in.
Universities are all from all over the world, and everyone has their own habits and hobbies, and there may be a little more regional generation gap.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05This is necessary for this society, and it is slowly adapting, and China has always attached importance to this.
But I hate it too, so let's change it together!
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Here's how college students deal with interpersonal relationships:
First, try to avoid arguments and contradictions.
Disagreements are inevitable, but arguments can easily lead to a deterioration in relationships, and a momentary argument destroys friendship and is not worth it. In terms of interpersonal interactions, it is very important to be kind to others, as someone said, home is a place of love, not reason.
When getting along with others, there is no need to argue with the other party to the end if you have different opinions, to avoid conflicts with the other party, not only for others, but also for yourself.
Second, don't criticize or blame others directly.
Everyone will inevitably make mistakes, and seeing mistakes pointed out will not make the other party grateful, but sometimes the other party will not be able to get off the stage and lose face. Protecting the shirt withers the other party's face, and sometimes it is also preserving the friendship between the two parties.
If you are careful about everything, you will increase your enemies. It is easy to criticize or accuse others directly, but it is difficult for the other party to feel embarrassed, so it is better to take a step back, leave some dignity for the other party and yourself, and leave a way back for yourself.
Third, have the courage to admit your own mistakes.
It's inevitable to make mistakes, and having the courage to admit them not only proves that you are courageous, but also proves that you have the idea of making amends. Interpersonal relationships will inevitably produce unhappiness, and the courage to admit one's mistakes will alleviate the unhappiness between each other, which is a manifestation of responsibility and responsibility. If you make a mistake, you have to correct it, and don't admit it and it's over.
Knowing that you are wrong and correcting it is really responsible.
It is very difficult for people in a dormitory in a university to have the same aspirations, and they are generally different. Respect other people's ambitions or ideas, and at the same time absorb their strengths, and don't be too stubborn about your own ambitions, and after a few years you will feel that your current ideas are a bit naïve. Of course, what you have to insist on is still to persevere, and the support of your classmates is actually quite unnecessary, just respect.
Obviously, you have a very different personality from her. In school, because everyone is relatively simple, so it's nothing to get along, but at work, there is more and more contact, and there is more and more understanding, and you gradually don't agree with her character, so don't be too hot with her in the future, as long as you maintain a general friend relationship, you maintain your character, which is very valuable. In fact, it's not a big deal, people with similar personalities are only comfortable together, it's all like this. >>>More
In order to deal with my interpersonal relationships in college, I must start from these aspects: first, when communicating or talking with classmates, I must be low-key, otherwise I will be too arrogant. The second is that you must ask more questions, so that you can have too much communication. And finally, we must be sincere, not humble, and not hypocritical.
Hello, I'm Zichen.
Relationships are important in college, but it's not the whole story. >>>More
It's never easy to get along with people, even if you want to be simple, but people don't think like this, as long as you get along with people without hurting others, over time, you will naturally meet good people, that's for sure.