At the end of the marriage, does it make sense to keep it?

I think that since we have come to an end, it is time to quickly cut through the mess and end this disheartening marriage, pack up our mentality, and start again. People, there will be a lot of unsatisfactory in this life, the key lies in your own mentality, if you know how to adjust your mentality, I think you are successful. Marriage is not a matter of two people; Nor is it a matter of two families; There are a lot of threads involved, and your loved ones, your friends, and even the people who have ruined your marriage need to be understood and treated.

The world is not black and white. If there is a problem in marriage, it is definitely not a question of who is wrong and who is right, I believe that many people feel the same way as me, that is, tired. When all your patience, all your temper is in this marriage, and you are wiped to pieces, all you have to do is to end it bravely.

Many people will care about other people's eyes and are afraid of being pointed at, what I want to tell you is, who are you living for? Live for yourself, not for your parents, not for your children, and not for the strangers around you.

Will a failed marriage make you lose confidence in your marriage and in your life? I believe that many people may need a long time to take a long time to take a break, after all, both physically and mentally, they have received a certain degree of damage, and this kind of injury has no cure, and there is no cure. Only you can heal your wounds.

Pain, then pass. If it doesn't hurt, it doesn't work. I would like to encourage female friends to be decisive in everything, and it is unrealistic to hope that a miracle will appear in your marriage.

Because, human nature cannot be changed. When you encounter this bad marriage, don't complain, don't be discouraged, start again, or have the same gain. It was you who chose to start a marriage.

You are the only one who can choose to close this marriage. Because you don't need to fulfill a mission in life that others think of as you have all your dignity. Come on, it is the end of marriage, but also the beginning of a new chapter in life.

If the other party has kept this marriage, it means that it is you who want to divorce, you can't stand the other party's mistakes, you can't forgive him, and you want to completely cut off the relationship with him, no matter how much the other party asks for forgiveness again and again, you don't agree. Suddenly, one day, the other party looked down on it, wanted to open it, and never came to you to intercede again. At this time, you are in a hurry, so you come to Wukong Q&A to seek answers, is it true that the other party is no longer retaining, and we have really come to an end?

I want to say no, because you must not let go of your heart, otherwise you would not come to seek answers, in this case, forgive each other, it is not easy for two people to share the same bed.

If you have kept this marriage, it means that the other party is bent on divorcing, the other party doesn't love you anymore, or the other party has a new love, or you have done something sorry for the other party, but no matter what the reason is, in short, the other party doesn't want to continue with you, wants to get out of this relationship, get free, out of sight and out of mind. You have kept it countless times, your heart is tired, people understand, you feel that there is no need anymore, the other party still wants to leave, so what do you still hold onto.

I regret it, but it's divorced. The ex-wife is very beautiful, of course, this is the reason why I got married at that time, although I knew that she was lazy before getting along before marriage, but I think that housework can be hired by the hour, and it doesn't matter. Before marriage, she was doing a job of 2,000 a month, and after marriage, I told her that I was fully responsible for her personal expenses and family expenses, regardless of whether she had income or not, but I hope she can continue to work, not for money, so as to ensure that she will not be out of touch with society.

She: Only incompetent men let their wives show up to work. So the class didn't go up.

During the period, I hoped that she would learn baking, yoga, and flower arrangement, just for a good hobby, and all said that she was not interested.

Although it is said that Xiao Bie is newlywed, but the husband and wife live in a long distance for a long time, it is easy to cause the relationship between the two people to become weaker and weaker, a woman is at home every day, and there is no one who can talk, looking at others are husband and wife, happy and harmonious life, we will begin to complain, why do we have to live separately from our husbands? If such a situation is not resolved, the marriage will really come to an end eventually.

Came home late and forgot to pick up the keys. The first reaction is to check the ID card around without affecting the hotel, instead of knocking on the door or calling **. This is the state of my life now, and seriously, I want to end this life, but I still have children.

In my opinion, when two people often complain about each other in the process of getting along, and one party's attitude towards marriage is hot and cold, such a marriage does not have to try to save the luck. Marriage is the effort of two people, not a unilateral coordination of one person, even if the two of them solved the problem at the beginning, it is still not of much use. A marriage that looks like a divorce is only a strong support of one party, and it is better to separate as soon as possible than to make both parties unhappy, which is the best plan for both parties.

The sentences of marriage retention are:

1. Although it is difficult to recover, is there really no room for recovery from a broken marriage?

2. A woman's marriage is a psychological dark war, a process of overcoming oneself, and a process of compromising with oneself.

3. No matter how luxurious the wedding is, it does not mean a happy marriage, and whether two people get along harmoniously for life has nothing to do with how many banquets and how much jewelry they have.

4. For the husband, marriage is a life imprisonment, and the purpose is not to let you get close to other people, nor to let other women get close to you. For the wife, marriage is a lifetime insurance.

5. Marriage is a book, the first chapter is written in psalms, and the rest is plain prose.

6. No matter how old or old you are, no matter how your family and friends urge, don't treat marriage casually, marriage is not playing cards, and reshuffling requires a huge price.

7. Love is the seed sown, marriage is the seedling that grows, only careful care and careful cultivation can bloom fragrant flowers.

8. If you really love someone, you have to make him happy, and if he is happy, you will be happy, and then both parties will have marriage.

9. Some people say that marriage is the grave of love, but if you don't get married, love will die and have no place to bury.

10. Marriage is to don't care what your husband thinks, you only care about what your wife says.

Just take care of him.

It's not all delusions.

I don't think it's worth it, but sometimes it's frustrating.

A lot of youth was spent in it.

I will educate him well.

Life goes on, work hard, live hard.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have her own stable job, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful, this is a woman's happiness;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time, we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, we may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If everything is connected to the boy himself, the weight of this inner feeling cannot be described.

Divorce should think about your own divorce problems, the reason why the other party wants to divorce you, calmly reflect on the reasons for the divorce, save your marriage, and analyze the problems between you. What should I do if I want to get my divorce awved? When the divorce is recovered, the most important thing we should do is to let the other party know what your attitude is now, and let the other party re-establish confidence in your married life.

If you go to him again to redeem it, you still have that commanding tone, and you can't let him get your repentance at all, I believe this will be the biggest obstacle to your recovery.

How to save feelings and marriages, in order to save feelings, many people go on trips together. You know, the mood between the two of them was very relaxed during the trip. There are also many opportunities to interact with each other.

Take advantage of such an opportunity and know how to be nice to someone, and that person will be able to feel your presence. It is necessary. Because you are the one he can't afford to lose.

Family gatherings are also a great way to do this. Your spouse sees that all the relatives in the family are so lovely. What else could you have in mind?

A complete family is not only good for yourself, but also for your loved ones, and it is also important to find the happiness of many family members.

The relationship between husband and wife is coming to an end, how to save the lost marriage as soon as possible, how to recover the lost marriage, communication problems, try not to quarrel with each other, and see the marriage that is about to pass away, there should still be a relaxed attitude between the two. When you are not in a hurry to have a serious conversation with the other person, you will find that in fact, he can also discuss marriage with you calmly. Only by finding problems together can we reverse the lost marriage.

People are imperfect. No matter how good a person is in him, you can always see some shortcomings. The union between husband and wife is a clash of two contradictions.

When you learn to accept each other. When you don't look for each other's shortcomings, you will find that the relationship between two people is not so strained.

I want to redeem how to communicate after the divorce, and only after the divorce do I know that the other party is very good. What you want most now is for him to be able to communicate with you well. Now you want to save this marriage, so you become the first to turn back.

That was in the process of chatting with him. What we have to do is be humble. Then whatever he does, you'd better listen quietly.

What he thinks about you, what you think about marriage, can only make an accurate and quick recovery plan after we know what is really going on in his heart.

Two people should have a good chat, find the problems of two people and then two people to change, you can also go on a trip to find the feeling when two people were first together, or to be considerate of each other, don't always blindly blame each other.

It makes people feel that when the marriage comes to an end, two people can sit down and talk about their hearts, and if they still have feelings for each other, they can continue to be together.

When the marriage comes to an end, both parties should look back on their lives to save the relationship.

The ways to save one's marriage are: "can be resisted and stopped", plugging the cracks in time; "Can be resisted", timely elimination of hidden dangers; "Arrive and rest", and calm people in a timely manner; "Reachable but hidden", prompting the complete disappearance of contradictions; "You can get it", and letting go is also love.

1. "Stoppable and plugged", plugging cracks in time.

There are cracks in the relationship between husband and wife, and they cannot blindly blame each other, let alone use the cold war method to solve it. We must learn to "go back to the source", find the source of the matter, and figure out the ins and outs of the matter. Cracks, just like a spring, if you don't care, then the "spring water" will continue to gush out, if the spring is blocked in time, all things, it's **.

2. "Resist but can be stopped", and eliminate hidden dangers in time.

Many things can be prevented before they happen. Let's say the husband goes out early in the morning to do something. It was past ten o'clock in the evening, and he had not returned.

The wife should take the initiative to ask about the situation and understand that her husband works hard. Instead of waiting for her husband to come home and then complain to each other. It is possible to dissolve the irritability in the husband's heart outside the home.

3. "Arrive and rest", and calm people in a timely manner.

It's really hard to extinguish a raging fire. However, as long as you insist on putting out the fire, you can do it. Sincerely, the gold and stone are open.

The hatred between husband and wife is full of intent, not deep hatred. Smart people know how to use these methods to calm things down.

4. "Concealment of reach" promotes the complete disappearance of contradictions.

Ignore the past. Think of the good in everything. Two people work together to create wealth. Trust each other.

5. "You can get it", letting go is also love.

I can't bear it, I don't need to endure it anymore. When the conflict between husband and wife reaches the point of no return, then letting go is the best ending. When you get along as a couple, you should have a clear conscience.

But you can't be humble to the dust because you love someone, and you can't hold your head up for the rest of your life. The fate of husband and wife is coming to an end, you have to actively redeem it, but there is no point in redeeming it, so let it go.

Tips to save yourself in marriage

Find out the reasons for the divorce; Face your partner calmly; empathy; Playing the family card in moderation; Communicate carefully; Give the other party time to cold up; Cause resonance with the other party.