Although it has passed, I still don t know how to face this family

You probably wouldn't have come to this point if you had refused sooner.

It can be seen that you like him very much, but you can't do it like this, although you try to restrain yourself on the surface, but can you restrain yourself in your heart? You'll still be thrilled to see him, right? Actually, in my opinion, he can ask you out on Valentine's Day, which means that he still likes you, but definitely not as much as you like him, this is for sure, he said that sometimes he thinks of you, you are already very lucky, at least he did not completely reject you all at once, saying such an answer may be due to his personality, maybe he is an introvert, not good at expressing his emotions, and men are also shy.

So now should be the time for you to boldly pursue happiness, who stipulates that girls are always passive, haven't you heard that men chase women across the mountain, and women chase men across the veil? For the sake of your own happiness, be bold, if he really rejects you in the future, at least you should not regret it, because you have tried, instead of sitting back and waiting for happiness to slip away. Bless you!

That's all he said.

What are you doing so seriously?

I think he likes you.

Is it just my delusion?

But now the question is do you like him or not?

If you already have feelings for him and he may not like you, you should go for his love.

It doesn't matter if he likes you or not, what matters is what you think!

It's not difficult to get out, you have to be happy every day instead of precipitating in memories every day, which will only make you depressed and unhappy, and you need to do it yourself. Face it. to bear.

To be liberated. to find another happiness ... Do not say.

The past will not be forgotten, so let him be buried in the bottom of his heart. We have to put it down, because we have to go on.

Let the past pass, put it in a corner of memory. Now you still need to face the road ahead, so after the senseless sentimentality, reorganize yourself!

The past is the past after all, and we must think about the present.

Just face it calmly, it's not a big deal. Splitting up can only mean that you are not suitable for no fate, which is much less harmful than dividing after getting married or having children after marriage. What you have to do now is to adjust your mentality, live well, work hard, be a new version of yourself, and be ready for the next relationship.

I wish you to find your own happiness as soon as possible!

Talking to your family is definitely not a good solution, it will only make your family more worried. If you are more annoyed, you can talk to your friends and go out crazy together.

Do something you love to do.

Try to avoid thinking about him, in fact, there are still many more important things in life than this, treat it as a holiday, relax yourself, and it will be good for a while.

Don't tell your family, they will be just as sad.

As long as you are not pregnant. Hurry up and clean up your mood again.

As long as a man has the heart to break up, no matter how well you do, he will think that you are a burden.

I can't say you'll meet better, but at least you should be working or traveling now.

There are many crazy men and women in the world, and you are not the only one who is hurt. There is more than one good man, forget him as soon as possible and welcome a new relationship!

Only by facing the reality and moving forward bravely is still young, why are you so stupid, it's not cost-effective.

Remember, the world is always beautiful, it's just that everyone's road is a little bumpy.

Let's travel! Relax, do something happy, and forget about the unhappy! Start afresh and face life later!

I'm a freshman this year, I haven't had a partner before, this time it really hurt me, I'm sad, I regret it, I'm worried that no one will want me again in the future, after all, my first love was like this, I really don't want to touch feelings again. Thank you, I'll come out. It's been two months since the thing, slowly forgetting.

I don't think there's any need to let them worry about you...The best thing to do is to keep yourself busy and not have time to think about the mess or start a new relationship...

Be brave and face the rest of your life.

Hello, be strong, there is no feast in the world, life will inevitably have joys and sorrows, life and death, although our parents are gone, but it is the biggest test for us, life has to go on, you have to learn to take care of yourself, I think this is also the greatest comfort to them.

Life is like taking a train, some people go up, some people get off, not everyone can accompany you to the end, look at the point, and there is a future life to go.

In this world, everything is impermanent, there is no way to change the objective reality, only to face it seriously, yesterday is yesterday, it is never today, today is the present life every second, strive to cherish the present, deceased parents just want to see their children live very happy, you are not cheerful, Jiuquan parents are even more sad! At the same time, the people around you are more worried about you, are you willing to hurt every loved one or friend?

Coming out of grief, death is inevitable for everyone, and you should cherish life more and live the wonderful.

It is difficult for people to come back from the dead, and mourn. But those who live should live better, and this is what your parents expect. Take a walk outside more, get in touch with nature, zoo, and you can also go to the kindergarten to see, I hope they can ** you.

The dead take it to heart, and think about it during the New Year's holiday, their lives still have to go on.

If you can't change the facts, you have to learn to accept them and face life! This is something that anyone has to face, and may you get well soon and may your parents be well in heaven.

Time will dilute everything, and you can't change anything if you're so sad, you should have come out early.

Don't be sad, they are watching you in heaven, and I hope you are happy Everyone has to take that road just sooner or later, you are good They can be at ease in heaven, and they must take good care of themselves, and when you become a family, it will be good to rely on, and now you have to struggle.

Who has not died in life since ancient times, it is just a matter of dying early and dying late, and it is the starting point to see. Many people are like you, but they all survived, after all, life still has to be lived.

Condolences change! You should turn your grief into strength and take it together.

Just mourn and put them in your heart.

Talk to relatives and friends, and don't look at things that touch the scene.

There has to be a reason, right? It is impossible for all people to be wrong, let's find the reason first, I think everyone will not hate their family for no reason as long as they are sensible. Find the reason and adjust it slowly, if there is no reason, it is your own problem, is it too nervous, too stressed, not to find a psychiatrist to talk to, or find a friend to talk to, or find a place with a good environment to relax, change the environment Maybe the mood will be different, maybe you will let go a lot, want to open a lot, many people's entanglement and discomfort are their own obsession, let it be, everything will be fine.

In my opinion, when I was a child, I fought less, but now it can only be counterproductive.

Stress is high, causing psychological problems, it is recommended to consult a psychologist.

Is it because you don't get along well with your husband and family?

Or is it not working well?

Think about who stood by your side when you were at your hardest.

Why don't you hate yourself, you are yesterday's choice, and it has nothing to do with others.

Relax, you can't always be self-centered, only for your own sake, if you make mistakes, you have to change, only if you treat people with your heart, others will treat you with your heart

What's the big deal if you go in As long as you can change it, you don't have to put up with it, whoever is saying that you will hit when you see it, these people are disgusting, my boyfriend will come out in two days, as long as you don't commit it in the future.

In fact, this kind of thing is really annoying. The so-called family has a difficult scripture to read, which is the reason!!

But from my point of view, I don't think you have to worry too much about those things, and don't get angry with them because they're not good for you, because you're grown up and you're not the kid you used to be. You have to pay attention to your own image, and tolerance is also a virtue. As for your uncle, you should be grateful for their kindness to you.

But don't compare with your grandmother, people are different, we just take all this to heart, don't be too superficial, maybe you can tolerate their behavior will influence them!!

You can ask him out for a trip when he's not busy (days off)! That is, to go to a nearby park, or paradise. Because in the embrace of nature, it feels different to talk about housework. It's also very effective, you can try it!

Also, remember not to go to quiet places, such as tea houses, cafes. Because the environment is very quiet, the people next to you can hear a little noise, so there is no privacy, and men want to save face.

Women want self-esteem. You won't be able to talk to him face-to-face. Also remember not to go to noisy places, such as:

Restaurants, ballrooms. Because the environment is too noisy, I can't concentrate on talking about things. Don't talk about it at home either, because talking at home can create a sense of oppression!

As for the kind of talk to be talked about, I personally think you should ask him this (this can only be used as your reference):"Do you have any comments about my family? Are my parents bad to you?

Or did my sister and my sister's children offend you? Or is it because I didn't do a good job as your wife and your parents' daughter-in-law that you are so cold to my family?

If you really have any reason, please tell me sincerely, I am your wife and your friend, let me help you share and deal with your unhappiness! If you don't have any problems with my family, then please treat my family as if it were your own in the future! We are married, my parents are your parents, and my relatives are your relatives.

We are family. I will treat and care for your loved ones as if they were my dearest! Do you know!

You treat my family so indifferently, have you ever thought about my feelings! I really want to be your wife forever and be happy with you! Troubles together!

You must talk to your husband with the same mindset you have when you talk to your friends! It's not easy for a volcano to erupt!

And you talked to him, if he didn't have any reaction and got angry and quarreled with you about what you talked about, and he didn't want to take your appointment, then you can talk to his parents, if his parents have the same point of view as him, then I, as a person with the same status as you, advise you to think clearly, the days ahead are still very long, you have to think about yourself and your mother's family, after all, you are as big as your parents, you have to know how to be filial! If your husband is like this, your parents will also be sad, do you want to see your parents sad! And you have to remember one thing, if your husband doesn't respect your family, he doesn't respect you, and he already doesn't respect you, so how can he make you and your family hard!

This is not directly related to a person's personality.

Nowadays, divorce is easy and marriage is difficult, you must talk to him for a good time, and your family does not want to see you break up. They all want to see the two of you live better day by day! Your parents want you to be happy every day, too!

First of all, you should be told that no matter whether they are as good as you say to you, you should understand that you have to rely on yourself in life.

Many families have their older generation concepts, some families are very strange, we can't resent them, because their environment is different, selfish, not family, but you can think about it, sometimes they will also make a very cordial move, that is, their family affection, blood is still thick and water, when there is really something they still stand with you.

This is all caused by the family environment, since we understand, then we do a good job, after all, they are your relatives, after a long time, they may be under your influence, they will be fine.

Grandma's family is good, it means that their family environment is good, they handle interpersonal relationships well, you should learn to do something, all families must learn to operate and regulate.

Now that you have completed your studies, you have to take your family relationship slowly.

I usually go to their house to run, and people are getting closer and closer the more they run.

I wish you good results soon, and I hope that your family relationship can be harmonious soon.

Your situation is similar to my childhood, I can understand you, I was also when I was young, but my grandmother was not very good to me, I was still young at that time, often my grandmother took me, my grandmother's house is not very far from my grandmother's house, I am so old now that I feel that it takes 20 minutes to walk from my grandmother's house to my grandmother's house, but when I was young, I felt very far away, at that time I was in the second grade of elementary school, once I went to my grandmother's house, everyone went, my grandmother has always had everything for my younger brothers and sisters to eat, I don't have any opinions, because at that time, although I was small, I had anything delicious to eat for my younger brothers and sisters, and sometimes my grandmother bought me food, and I also wanted to leave it for them to eat, but I cared about them, why did my grandmother not ask me when I had food, I was more angry, maybe I didn't have a good temper since I was a child, I was angry when everyone was there, I broke the glass, and I fell a few things and ran away by myself, ran to my grandmother's house, Since then I rarely go to my grandmother's house, and my aunt on my grandmother's side is not so good to me, just face to face, only my uncle to me back, and then I had a car accident, more serious, since then their attitude towards me has been better, and then my grandmother died, passed away for more than 10 years, I have never been to the grave, at the beginning my mother also persuaded me, and now when I am older, my mother will not persuade me much, just when I go to tell me to go, if you don't want to go, don't go, And now I take my grandmother over to live with me, I feel very good, although some of them are not in touch, but there is also a good friendship! There is no such thing as the best of both worlds, and it will be very happy to be content. If you have any troubled questions, you can tell me.