What s wrong with her husband like this?

Feelings are like a handful of sand, the tighter you grasp it, the faster it will be lost, and if you grasp it too loosely, you can't catch it at all. A woman who is not financially independent, emotionally independent, not independent in life, does not have her own life circle, does not have her own spare time, chatters every day, and declares that all this is for men, you can imagine what she will look like in ten years, think about it from another angle, if you do a man love such a woman? A man is a kite, no matter how far he flies, the thread is always in your hands, and if you hold him to death, he will lose the meaning of his life.

I'm afraid that the man who loves her will also retreat.

There's nothing wrong with taking care of your husband, but it's terrible to love someone and forget yourself. If this man has a conscience, she will be happy, but if this man fails her, then she has nothing. A woman must have an independent self at all times, a stable job, a person does not love herself, how can she let others love her.

And in love, you have to give each other space, and this kind of love will suffocate people.

I think that his wife is too extreme and dangerous, and it can no longer be understood simply as love, it is a forced love, even a selfish love, too oppressive, even offensive and damaging, I am just talking about what will happen if it continues to develop.

Such a woman has seen that his love is too extreme, it is a kind of love that will suffocate people in the release, you must know that modern people's love is like the upstairs said, "the pursuit of like-minded, resonant partners", so that you can feel happy for a long time, in this society that advocates freedom, both husband and wife need space, this form is called "respect for privacy", although they have not encountered such a thing, but in the current form, apply it to other things to see, For example, if there is a very good female colleague among the husband's colleagues, then I think the wife will not be psychologically comfortable, because he will feel that I am so good to him, why does he still talk and laugh with other women, and over time, you can imagine how deep the love is, how deep the ruthlessness is. Maybe it's serious, it's just a metaphor.

The so-called saying to others is all for him, in fact, if you think about it carefully, it is also a very selfish behavior.

If you hold a man too tightly, you will lose him because of it. You should talk to that lady if you think I'm right.

Men can be annoying, not independent enough, nagging, pestering, my wife is the same.

There is no right or wrong in this world. It's just what you think it is.

That's not good.

The level of trust in the relationship with the couple has been greatly reduced.

There will be a lot of unnecessary troubles.

I think it's a problem of two people, first of all, you say that you are too good to him, and he still doesn't appreciate it, you have to reflect on it, such as why you are so good to him, he is not good to you, you are still good to him, are you unequal love. There is also that you should communicate well, this kind of stalemate is not a good thing, and now you are not allowed to talk about his family, that is not treating you as an insider, you are a family, and it is true that you speak two families, which is definitely not conducive to the harmony of life. So you have to take a moment to talk about what makes you like this.

We must pay attention to it, find the root cause, solve the problem, and we can't go on like this, otherwise one day it will be divorce and come to an end, which is a pity. Hope mine is helpful to you.

Summary. She has a bad relationship with her husband, there are communication problems between them, and they can't understand each other, if she can say it to you, it means that she also trusts and is safe for you to say it.

She has a bad relationship with her husband, but she will take care of her husband's face.

Hello dear, I am Mr. Qian, a psychological counselor, I feel your confusion and the kindness of your friends.

Be smart that your woman gives face to men outside, and then disciplines men strictly in private, and does not belittle men in public.

A wise woman will protect herself, not cause trouble in public, be demanding of herself, do a good job, and do not blame others in case of trouble.

She has a bad relationship with her husband, there is a problem with communication between them, and if she can understand each other, if she can say it to you, it means that she is also safe for you to say it.

Or the relationship with your husband has not reached the point of life and death, and there are disagreements and arguments in some aspects.

Even if we can't be together, we will still be friends when we meet in the future, after all, we once loved.