How much do love and marital happiness have to do with each other?

Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets.

That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words. Disappointment, sometimes, is also a blessing.

Because there is something to expect, there will be disappointment. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things that you regret.

Pursue love, and then discover that love has always been a thousand things.

Loving marriages are enviable, and there are many loveless marriages in real life. It can be understood that it doesn't matter!

Love is the building of life, and marriage is the tomb of the building.

I am more recognized, to put it bluntly, it is mutual respect, only when the other half is not his own person, can he respect each other, so that Mingzhi may get along better.

1. Ordinary people don't have so many expectations.

We all fall into the misconception that after getting married, the other party will rely on us in every way and love us in every way. It's a pity that we just have too high expectations for marriage, and we always want to stop paying us.

As everyone knows, marriage is a matter of two people, and it is far greater than two people. Because, we will have each other's families, and we will have our own children.

As the saying goes, the higher the expectation, the worse the fall. Don't always let the other person guess what you think, but open your heart and talk sincerely.

2. Ordinary people will be more kind to each other.

Usually, we only greet people who meet for the first time, and shout at our relatives and friends. Why? Because of habit.

It's really scary to get used to this kind of thing. Once you feel that it has become a habit, it will not matter, you will take it for granted, you will be uncontrollable, and you will be careless.

It's as if we wake up early, brush our teeth, wash our faces, go to the toilet, so casually, so reasonably.

Marriage is the same, if it is too casual, you will not feel the other party's heart, it is better to really let yourself, feel the same as when you fell in love for the first time, and keep it fresh every time. Then you will have a good communication with your significant other.

3. Only by being an ordinary person can we make the relationship more harmonious.

Only by treating each other well, our relationship with each other will be more harmonious. What a war of words, knives, guns and sticks, does not exist.

The most valuable thing for people is to be able to live in harmony. Since ordinary people are the most harmonious, then, please treat our other half well, after all, it is difficult for us to get along with each other, and it may be the best choice to be ordinary people.

What is Love? What is Marriage? What is Happiness?

One day, Plato asked Socrates what love is?

Socrates told him to go into the wheat field first, and pick the largest and most golden ear of wheat in the whole wheat field, and in the process he was only allowed to pick it once, and he could only go forward, without turning back. Plato did as Socrates said, and he walked out of the field empty-handed.

Socrates asked him why he didn't pick it?

He said: Because I can only pick it once, I can't go back, and even if I see the biggest and most golden one during the period, I don't know if there is a better one in front of me, so I don't pick it; But when I went to the front, I found that I had missed the largest and most golden ears of wheat that I had seen before. So I didn't pick anything.

Socrates at this time said meaningfully: "This is love".

Another day, Plato asked Socrates what marriage was.

Socrates told him to go into the woods and cut down a tree that was the largest and most luxuriant in the woods and suitable for a Christmas tree at home. And it is also required that in this process, you can only cut it once, and you can only go forward and not turn back.

Plato then did as Socrates said. This time, he came back with an ordinary, not very lush, not too bad tree.

Socrates asked him how he had brought back such an ordinary tree.

He said: "Because of the experience of the last time, when I was halfway down the road and still empty-handed, I saw this tree, and it was not too bad, so I cut it down, so as not to miss it, and in the end I couldn't bring anything out."

After listening to what he said, Socrates said meaningfully: "This is marriage!" ”

One day, Plato asked Socrates, "What is happiness?" ”

Socrates told him to go into the countryside to pick the most beautiful flower, and he could only pick it once, and he could only walk forward without looking back, and Plato did as Socrates said. This time, he returned with a beautiful flower, and Socrates asked him the same question again. This time Plato said that I found a very beautiful flower, but in the process of continuing to walk found that there was a more beautiful flower, I did not waver, nor regretted it, I insisted that my flower was the most beautiful, and it turned out that this flower was the most beautiful at least in my eyes.

Socrates said, "This is happiness!" ”

Marriage does not necessarily lead to happiness, but happiness can only be maintained through marriage. So marriage and happiness are related.

It's dispensable. If it is a good marriage, it will be happy.

Not necessarily. That depends on what you think. Everyone's understanding of happiness is different. Some people think that having money is happiness, some people think that marrying the lover of their dreams is happiness, and some people think that eating a full meal when they are hungry is enough to be happy.

Happiness is the feeling of self, don't ask too much, and be happy when you are satisfied!

Marriage is a responsibility! It is also a filter of happiness towards greed!

There is no marriage without happiness, and there is no responsibility without marriage!

If you don't have responsibility, you're not human.

There are people who love you and people you love will feel happy, so happiness has something to do with marriage.

Happiness and marriage are related, marriage will be happy, and happiness is naturally inseparable from marriage.

[ Nothing to do with love. ]

Loving someone doesn't mean you're fit to live together forever...

The scope of "happiness" is much broader. Marriage is just one aspect of it.

Happiness is a personal feeling, and having a good marriage will make people feel happy. If you don't have a good marriage, you may feel unhappy. But without a good marriage, there may be others. 1

Yes. Fu belongs to the emotional world, which is a feeling, that is, a sense of satisfaction for people.

Happiness or unhappiness depends on each person's attitude towards life.

There should be pursuits in life, but not forced. If there is pursuit, but not force, people will become free, happy, and happy.

If there is no pursuit in life, it will become lifeless, lacking joy and happiness; But if you go too far, it will be painful.

In the world, it should be admitted that the vast majority of people are ordinary people and do not possess extraordinary abilities. If you don't have extraordinary ability, you desperately pursue the transcendence.

The greater the "hope" that one's ability can achieve, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment and pain.

Having money is not necessarily happy, and not having money is not necessarily unfortunate! It just depends on the individual's perception!

Therefore, there should be pursuits in life, but not forced, which is the key to happiness in life.

May you understand happiness, grasp happiness, cherish happiness, create happiness, and be happy forever.