Divorce voluntarily after 16 years of failed test tubes, is it wrong for a woman to want a child?

Since ancient times, many people think that the fate of a woman's life is to teach her husband and children. Indeed, a home without children is not a complete home, and a life without children is not a complete life.

Although in this era, many people pursue self-enjoyment, and do not regard children as very importantAlways uphold the concept of having fewer children or even not having children at all. But after all, children are also the greatest achievement of people's lives, so having a child can be regarded as adding hope to yourself and giving yourself a motivation to become better.

Although the technology of infertility has been quite mature in our country, and the dream of becoming a father and mother is no longer a fantasy, some people are not easy to get pregnant due to physical problems. When you try a test tube for 16 years and still fail, it may mean that this person will not have a child of his own in this life. Children are the future of a familyIt is the biggest career in a woman's life, and it is worth putting in more effort for this career.

The great thing about motherly love is that a mother can do anything for her child.

As a woman's greatest wish is to have a happy family, and a happy family must not lack children who grow up happily. According to the survey, when they are young, there is not much difference between women who have children and women who do not have children, but when they enter old age or even just reach middle age, the happiness of women without children plummetsThese childless women also said in interviews that they feel that the most regrettable thing in this life is that they do not have a child of their own, so that life is dull when they are old, and if they are given another chance, they will have a child no matter what.

Personally, I think it's not wrong for a woman to want a child, and it's great, it's really happy to have a child of her own, and accompany him to grow up happily and healthily, and to work tirelessly to bring the best to her child.

There is nothing wrong with it, because every family needs to have a child, so that it feels like home, and it is normal for a woman to want to be a mother again.

There's nothing wrong with a woman wanting a child, a woman wants a child to be with her, she wants to experience what it's like to be a mother, I think that's something that all girls want, so there's nothing wrong with that.

I don't think there's anything wrong with it, many girls really want to have a child of their own after getting married, and if it hasn't worked out, it's normal to divorce.

I don't think it's wrong, the test tube failed, and you chose to divorce is also the right treatment, maybe you will get pregnant naturally if you remarry! Let's look on the bright side! Everyone wants to have a child of their own to be perfect, right?

I can feel this feeling, I also did the test tube twice, but both times failed, I also have this idea in my heart, it's okay to live alone, now women have too many diseases with this disease.

Divorce, who wants to give you a child if you are a man like you, maybe your wife divorces you and then finds a man who can have children without test tubes, maybe no one wants to have a child with you after you divorce, it's really ridiculous.

The pain of a woman's infertility is much greater than that of a man, do you think she doesn't want a child, you know the pain of a test tube, do you know the pain of putting a long needle into a woman's ovaries, the man just took off his pants and played a cold shiver and wanted to return all the responsibilities to the woman, a woman is not a machine for giving birth to a child, you took her just to find a machine to give birth to a child, if it is really a machine for giving birth to a child, then quickly divorce and don't test tube, because you are not worthy of being a father.

I am also a test tube made by my husband, the last time I took two with two and moved two, but the fetus stopped, and now I am in the process of promoting the discharge for the second time. If my husband is completely spermless, I can do without children. It's all because he wants it and I choose to suffer it.

Despise people like the landlord, what's wrong with having no children, just adopt one, ask yourself, why did you marry your wife, if it's just to have children, then you should divorce.

If the landlord wants to divorce, you can leave directly, come up here and ask is it a scolding? Every test-tube mother here has a bitter tear in her heart, no child is not a woman's willingness! If you can't comfort your daughter-in-law, you can let it go as soon as possible, people like you just go to a woman to have a baby, what kind of marriage!

You're too selfish, aren't you? What kind of society is there now, there are many families without children, I can only say that your wife was at the beginning, marrying you was blind and found you such a man with no conscience, my husband and you are just the opposite, so many years to me are inseparable, even if I file for divorce he does not agree, my father-in-law has five daughters, at the age of 48 I have my husband, we are 40 years old this year and have no children, my parents-in-law have never disliked me, saying that you have no children you buy insurance, you are old and secure, My mother-in-law has nothing to say about how nice I am, and I am really glad that I can marry such a kind family.

Could it be that she thought? Is she a fertility machine in your heart? When I got married, I also swore an oath.

Isn't she in a hurry? You haven't thought about it from a woman's point of view. Too selfish!

Do you know how much physical and mental stress and pain a woman has to endure during the IVF process? What should she do if she divorces like this?

Marriage is not child's play Even if you don't have children, it's impossible to divorce Your wife doesn't want to have no children As long as you marry him into your house Doesn't it matter if you don't have a child If you don't have it, what is the difference between raising one and your own one? Do it and cherish it!!

You are spurned by others, you don't give encouragement to your lover, but think of divorce, can you understand your wife's feelings? You're just psychological, and she needs to bear both physical and psychological pressure, doesn't she want to have a baby? It's not easy for every IVF mother.

It's not good to have a relationship for divorce, and doing IVF is also a choice of hospital, and the one that my colleague did two years earlier is very good, and the package is successful, and the refund is unsuccessful.

First of all, your mood can also be understood, without children and still face the pressure of parents, if you don't love her very much, it's fine, if you love it, just empathize with her She is much more stressed than you, physically painful, more painful in the heart, don't you feel sorry for her?

My husband and I have been married for three years and have not been pregnant, and I have been pregnant with one before marriage and have not been able to conceive since then! I found out that it was my problem, and I asked my husband what to do if he couldn't conceive all the time, and he said directly to test tubes! My parents-in-law are very supportive, saying that IVF babies are very beautiful!

I am luckier than your family to have a successful twin, and all the costs of IVF are paid by my husband and parents-in-law! Fortunately, my in-laws support me, you should comfort and encourage your wife more, and it is more important to give her a good mood than anything else instead of coming up to complain! If you marry her, you should be good to her, and it is your responsibility!

That's not right, divorce if you can't give birth? So if I were your wife, I don't think I would be able to live with you. You're too selfish, you're too careful, and most importantly, you don't know what marriage is.

It's better to leave. However, many people, often their husbands dislike her for not being able to give birth to a daughter or giving birth to a daughter, and then divorced, as a result, she gave birth to a son immediately after the second marriage, and she didn't know how much she lived.

Why don't you change your thinking, insist on finding the reason for the failure of the test tube, insist on success, and you will have a happy family, if you divorce for the sake of a child, then you may not be happy in the future, I have a friend who tried the test tube a few times successfully, and she did the test tube in **.

When you encounter problems, you retreat, you don't take responsibility, you're weak and incompetent, and you're a coward! It is a blessing for your daughter-in-law to leave you. No matter how many people like you look for, you won't be happy.

Hurry up and get me away! She can only get pregnant without her! Bastard, get away!! I hope you will be a woman in the next life, so that you can understand how difficult it is to be a woman!

Men are reality, I also asked my husband this question, he said that if I am infertile, I will definitely divorce, and my husband also took out his parents as a shield. So the girls keep their eyes open. How can there be such pure feelings, even if there is, it is a miracle!

Maybe she will be able to give birth to this person, don't delay others, and make people suffer.

How many women consider abandoning a man who is infertile? But what about women who are infertile, how many men will continue to marry? Good irony.

Generally speaking, IVF is only needed if the couple's fertility function is problematic. However, having a problem with fertility is not a fault of principle, and not having children can be a factor in emotional breakdown, but whether the IVF is successful or not, no matter how it is in any way, it cannot be an excuse to claim compensation.

1.Filing a claim for compensation: The innocent party as the plaintiff files a claim for compensation for damages with the local people's court in accordance with the provisions of this article, which must be filed at the same time as the divorce proceedings;

2.Filing a separate lawsuit: In a divorce lawsuit in which the innocent party is the defendant, if the defendant does not agree to the divorce and does not file a claim for damages based on the provisions of this article, then a separate lawsuit can be filed within one year after the divorce;

3.Separate litigation within one year: In a divorce lawsuit in which the innocent party is the defendant, and the defendant fails to file a claim for damages based on the provisions in the first instance, but only files it during the second instance, the people's court shall conduct appropriate mediation, and if the mediation fails, inform the parties to file a separate lawsuit within one year after the divorce.

Legal basis] Article 1091 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China In any of the following circumstances, which leads to divorce, the innocent party has the right to claim damages:

a) bigamy; 2) cohabitation with another person;

3) Committing domestic violence;

4) Abuse or abandonment of family members;

5) There are other major faults.

1.Filing a claim for compensation: The innocent party, as the plaintiff, files a claim for damages with the local people's court based on the provisions of the Wild Year Office, which must be filed at the same time as the divorce proceedings;

2.Filing a separate lawsuit: In a divorce lawsuit in which the innocent party is the defendant, if the defendant does not agree to the divorce and does not file a claim for damages based on this provision, then a separate lawsuit can be filed within one year after the divorce;

3.Separate litigation within one year: In a divorce lawsuit in which the innocent party is the defendant, and the defendant does not file a claim for damages based on the provisions in the first instance, but only files it during the second instance, the people's court shall conduct appropriate mediation, and if the mediation fails, inform the parties to file a separate lawsuit within one year after the divorce.

According to article 25 of the Marriage Law, children born out of wedlock enjoy the same rights as children born in wedlock, and no one may harm or discriminate against them. A biological father or mother who does not directly raise a child born out of wedlock shall bear the child's living and education expenses until the child is able to live independently.

At the same time, according to Article 36 of the Marriage Law, the relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the child remains the child of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the parent or the parent. After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise and educate their children.

In other words, although both parties are divorced, as the legal guardians of the children, they both have the right and obligation to raise the children, and if the two parties cannot negotiate the issue of child custody, then it can be resolved through litigation, and the custody committee will make a judgment in accordance with the relevant provisions of the Several Specific Opinions of the Supreme People's Court on the Handling of Child Support Issues in Divorce Cases by the People's Courts in the Trial of Divorce Cases in accordance with the principle of benefiting the children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Article 1084 of the Civil Code The relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother. After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

After the divorce, children under the age of two years shall be directly raised by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.