What is it like to have high expectations of your friends?

Everyone has selfishness, you have to understand this, others can't think of you in everything, understand you, and be willing to help you. Remember the importance of networking, trust reliable people for key things, and feel free for inconsequential things, but pay more attention to everything yourself. If you don't go along and tear your face, then not only do you have no friends, but you don't even have a person who is willing to help you.

Some "friends" are very annoying, and it takes some emotional intelligence to deal with them, you just need to see him clearly and handle the relationship with him, after all, you don't have to live with him.

The higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment. Expectations should not be too high, everything should be based on reality and strive for the best. Everyone has the right to control their own life, and only they can perceive how to live and live, whether it is for others or for themselves, just try to live well.

Lower your expectations, be more realistic, less fantasies, and do your best to be yourself, so be strict with yourself and be lenient with others, and don't ask too much of others.

I often encounter such problems in my life, such as what should my friend do for me, what should my friend lend me money, what should my friend do this and not do that, etc. In fact, we can completely empathize and ask our friends to do it, if it is whether we can do it so perfectly and to our heart's content. A little more understanding, less complaining, don't do to others what you don't want, and you will happily get along with your friends.

Since the higher the expectations, once you fail to meet your own requirements, you will definitely be disappointed, which is like thinking that you can get a full score in the exam, but the result is only passing.

Sometimes I have too high expectations for my friends, and I always think that my friends can be good to me, but in the end it is not easy to say, and it is a bad thing to have high expectations for friends.

I'm disappointed.,I thought the plot was like this.,It turned out that the plot was like that.,It's not the same as I thought.,Don't mention how uncomfortable it feels.。

The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment! I had no choice but to accept it. Because after all, friends are also outsiders, and you can't force your friends to come according to their own wishes.

Once I had a birthday, I thought my best buddy would have to give me a gift, but I didn't receive the gift, not even a birthday wish, let alone be disappointed.

I'm disappointed in myself.

When I was a child, I fantasized about being good, studying my own, getting admitted to a good university, and choosing my favorite major ....... But until now, my grades are poor, I have chosen a major I don't like, I don't know what I'm doing every day, and sometimes I want to slap myself and see myself.

Now I really think differently than I thought when I was a child, and I'm disappointed in myself.

But life still has to work hard.

As children, we imagined our future selves countless times, imagining glorious prospects. However, when we look back, do we feel that we have let down our childhood selves?

In the journey of life, we continue to grow and gradually form ourselves at different stages. In this process, we should learn to respect our past selves and not need to look at the present with past thinking. You also need to learn to respect who you are now and appreciate every stage of your growth.

In those years, we had dreams, and Liang Di was full of curiosity and enthusiasm. As children, we often fantasize about what the future will look like and aspire to achieve something. However, as the years go by, we gradually realize the heaviness of reality, and we also leave joys, sorrows and sorrows on the road of growth.

Standing at the crossroads of life, we should understand that each stage of our self has its own unique values and experiences. We need to learn to cherish these experiences and face our past, present, and future selves with a tolerant and respectful heart. Only in this way can we know ourselves better.

Let's move forward bravely with our childhood selves and pursue our dreams with determination. We have to tell ourselves: despite all the twists and turns in life, we never give up and we keep trying.

We would like to thank our childhood selves for giving us the courage and strength to go further and further on the road ahead.

Life will not be smooth sailing, but we must learn to learn from setbacks and continue to grow. Let's embrace our past selves and our present selves, and let each other work together to face the challenges of the future. When we learn to respect and appreciate our own growth, we can truly feel the beauty of life.

Looking back, we will find that the former dreamer still shines in our hearts. We should cherish the original intention in our hearts and let it become the driving force for us to move forward.

Looking forward to the future, we must have firm faith and perseverance to move forward bravely. Let us use our childhood dreams to illuminate the road to the future, and down-to-earth to realize those visions that once made our hearts surge. In this way, together with our childhood selves, we will become a better and more complete version of ourselves.

As you grow up, the demands on friends change as you grow up and experience richer. In the process of growing up, we gradually understand the importance of friends to us, and thus the requirements for friends have become clearer and deeper. Here are four changes that have occurred to my request for friends.

First of all, I have higher requirements for the honesty and authenticity of my friends than when I was younger. When we are younger, we may be more concerned about the appearance of our friends, the number of playmates, or other superficial characteristics. However, as we grew up, we began to recognize that true friendship is built on honesty and authenticity.

We want to have friends who can treat us authentically and not hide their emotions and thoughts. This kind of sincere friendship can bring us more trust and empathy, and allow us to build a deep emotional bond with each other.

Second, growing up, I had higher expectations for the support and understanding of my friends. When we face challenges and difficulties, we need the support and encouragement of our friends. As adults, the problems and pressures we face become more complex and severe, and this is when the understanding and support of friends becomes even more important.

We want our friends to share our joys and sorrows, to listen to us, and to give us valuable advice. Mutual support and understanding are indispensable for a mature friendship.

Third, as I grew up, I had higher requirements for the loyalty and trust of my friends. When we are young, we may not have given much thought to the loyalty and trust of our friends because we don't understand these concepts well enough. However, over time, we have come to recognize that loyalty and trust are the cornerstones of friendship.

We want our friends to be faithful to us in good times and difficult times. We want our friends to keep secrets and we trust them in what they say and do. This friendship of loyalty and trust can make us feel at ease and at ease.

Finally, as I grew up, I had higher requirements for my friends' maturity and shared values. In the process of growing up, we gradually formed our own values and outlook on life. We started looking for people who were similar to us, and we didn't build deep friendships with them.

We want friends to share common interests and share similar values and goals. This kind of friendship can give us more empathy and support, and we can better understand and understand each other's decisions.

In conclusion, when you grow up, there will be some changes in the requirements for your friends. We value our friends' honesty and authenticity more, want their support and understanding, have higher expectations of their loyalty and trust, and seek friendships with whom we share our values. These changes are a natural consequence of our growth and experiences, and they allow us to build stronger and more meaningful friendships.

You have to have a high standard to do things in order to get good results, and if the expectations are set low, the final result will only be lower.

From "The Art of War": "Seek it, get it; Seek it, get it; Seek it, and you will be defeated. ”

。There is a famous physicist in the United States, when he first started to study physics in junior high school, his physics score was very poor, and he only scored 8 points. The physics teacher talked to him and asked him to study physics well.

The student said that if I don't like it, I can't study well, and the teacher is very smart, and he told the student that all other students have passed with 60 points, and you only need to score 9 points next time. The student thought that it would be easy for me to pass the test with a random tick, so he agreed, and he scored 28 points in the next exam. Although he scored 28 points, the teacher still had no reason to praise him in front of the class, because it was still a failing grade.

This teacher is very smart, she asked the whole class to subtract the results of the last exam and this time, last time I took the test 90, this time it is still 90, a subtraction is 0, last time 95, this time 93, a subtraction is 2, so that in the end, there is a classmate left with 20 points, which is this classmate. The teacher wrote the difference between the scores of all the students in the two exams on the blackboard and asked the question: "Which student has improved the most?"

The whole class said so-and-so in unison, which is an ironclad fact, because he is the only one who has improved by 20 points. This form of encouragement is not only not insulting, but also very motivating. The student was immediately excited, and he thought that no matter what I did, I would be the most improved in the class, and I had a lot of room for improvement.

The teacher did something smart, and the child felt that there was room for improvement, and from then on the child fell in love with physics and eventually became one of the greatest physicists in the world.

With its expectations of those slim things, it is better to do something in a down-to-earth manner, as long as you work hard and do not ask about the world, you will succeed.