Why would you lie to your nearest and dearest?

After graduation, in order not to separate from her boyfriend who had been in love for four years, she chose to come to Shanghai to live with him. It's been more than two years now, we got married last year, and the family is urging us to have a child, and we also have this plan, however, it backfired, and after more than a year, we didn't get pregnant. We did various checks and didn't show any problems.

For the whole 17 years, I had no intention of working because of pregnancy problems. Later, I decided to work hard, adjust my mood, and go with the flow, so I changed to a new job, which is also my favorite industry and ideal position, and it is a listed company, so I can't wait to tell my family. Of course, my parents are happy and proud.

However, the good times did not last long, after more than four months of work, the group laid off employees, half of my department was laid off, because of the trust of the superiors, the first batch was retained, but as a new employee with a short work experience, I still could not escape. Not to mention the pressure during the job, almost depressed, as a competitive person, being laid off is really unbearable. Now, it's been two months, I'm afraid to go to work, I'm afraid to contact leaders, but I really want to work as soon as possible and make money.

I don't want to be a burden and rely on others to support me, but I am a little depraved and unable to study quietly. I don't want to talk about work the most, but every time I talk to my family, I can't avoid this topic, and at this time I can only lie all kinds of things, saying that the company is very good, I am doing a good job, and I am living well. Therefore, the lie about work happens to be that the family is happy with themselves, and it is also the so-called path that you have chosen, and you have to finish it on your knees, and no one can help you.

Money, I've made money. I will be very happy to give some money I have saved to my grandparents and my mother, and tell them that I still have it, this is for you, and they are very happy, not because they are happy to give money, but because they are happy that I can make money. Actually, when I'm alone, I can't save anything except rent and food.

After paying my salary, telling such a lie to them, and giving them the money, I will have to live with steamed instant noodles for a month. Actually, I'm very happy to do such a thing, but. When I want to eat delicious food outside, I feel sad.

I played too crazy in the first semester of my freshman year, and I hung up four subjects at the end of the semester! My mom insisted on reading the report card again. The transcript of the university was read on the school's official website, and I wrote down the student number of a roommate who only hung up one subject.

The student number is logged in to the official website, and the password is also this. I knew my roommate was too lazy to change his password, so I logged in to my mom when I showed him his transcript. The page where grades are displayed does not display information such as names.

The reason why I chose this roommate who hung up on a subject was that although my parents told me about it, because of this, it also diverted their attention, so that they would not flip around, so as not to accidentally turn out the student information. Later, I studied hard and never used anyone else's again.

In junior high school, I went to an Internet café with my friends all night, and lied to my mother that I went to sleep at her house, but this child also lied the same as me, and her mother beat ** to my mother. As a result, don't mention it, now I get dizzy when I see pink slippers.

My girlfriend is older than me, and her family conditions are not as good as mine, so my family doesn't agree. At the New Year's dinner, my relatives persuaded me to divide it one by one, and I said lightly: I always liked boys before I met her.

The whole world was silent. After that, my parents taught me to raise me for a long time, so that we could get married quickly!

The junior high school took a lot of awards and pasted them on a wall. I still remember that during the Chinese New Year, many relatives were at home. At that time, I wanted to draw people's attention to that wall and get some praise.

So I said, "Look, that wall is coming down." Then, in front of my relatives, I was silenced.

Something that can lie should be done by everyone, however. Right! It's not the same feeling that someone close to you lies to someone you don't know.

Just say that a stranger lies, and the heart will not be very uncomfortable, but a friend who is very familiar with himself and is very iron lies. Maybe I'll feel bad too.

I think lying to a stranger is different from lying to someone you know, the difference is how you feel after lying and the impact on things in the future.

If you lie to a stranger afterward. If a stranger finds out about your lie, he may hate you very much in the future life or something, no matter what reason you lie to him to deceive her, she will definitely not understand, you just say that you lied to me, you are not sincere to me, he will hate you very much, very, he doesn't like you. I won't be in a relationship with you again in the future.

But it's not the same as lying to someone you know. If hehe, your best brother lied, even if your brother doesn't blame you. But in my heart, it will be very uncomfortable.

You just feel cheated, and you usually feel very guilty and uncomfortable with your very good friends. Feeling like you're doing something wrong.

If you can lie to someone you know very well, you have a very good relationship, we. It's hard to feel bad, but if your friends know about it, they probably won't blame you very much. Say that I understand you very well if you lie so that you can get along better, or have some.

Really can't say secret words. At this time, your friends will also be very understanding, and you will not blame you.

It was when school started when my boyfriend went to my house to pick me up, and then it was not good that morning, it was raining heavily, and then my family was going to send me to the station, and I lied to them that they were going to school with their classmates, otherwise they would definitely not be at ease, and then they had to go to the station, and if they sent it, they would definitely see my classmates before letting me go, and there was really no way. I deliberately got angry with them and didn't let them send me. Otherwise, the lie will not be fulfilled.

Actually, there is a way. I didn't mean to make them sad, nor did I mean to make them angry, then they were unhappy, in fact, I did think that this kind of thing shouldn't happen when they were unhappy, right, after all, it's so big!

I think if you fall in love, it's best not to lie between two people, people are like this, and if you tell a lie, you have to take a lot of words to fulfill the lie.

Even if the relationship between you is good. It's going to make you bad, so don't lie to your family and your family, and I think you should be honest with each other, anyway, if I don't tell the truth to my parents, I feel uneasy, and I can't do anything!

I think the most important thing to maintain a relationship between the two is to be sincere and loyal, and if you are honest, the relationship will be stronger and go further.

Of course not. Since it is said that they are the closest people, then nothing is a secret, and since this is the case, there is no need to lie.

The closest people can be your family or girlfriends or other friends. In short, since it can be called the most intimate person, it must be someone who has a particularly good relationship, maybe eating a bowl of rice, drinking a glass of water, and exaggerating to say that it is a person who wears a pair of pants. That's definitely the most trusted person, so there's nothing you can't say about someone who has such a good relationship with you, there's nothing to hide.

I'm like that, if I treat you as my iron, my closest person, I want to tell him everything, and I won't let me keep a little secret for myself, or I'll be uncomfortable. Maybe some people will think that I am stupid and can't trust a person 100%, but I believe that I see the right person and will not be wrong. Since I decided to do my best with him, I will treat him with all my heart, which seems to me to be sincere.

If my closest person cheats on me, I may not be immediately alienated from him, and slowly, even if the mirror is broken and reunited, it will not be complete. Never going back to the way it was. I'll think that since we have such a good relationship, why are you still cheating on me, am I not trusting you enough, or have you done something to be sorry for me, or that you have a dog outside?!

I had a friend who had a good relationship before, and one day I asked him to do me a favor, and he said he was sick and had to be kept at home, and I said forget it, I'll find someone else, and I said take care of it, right. Then that afternoon I was about to go shopping for something, and by coincidence, I saw him at the mall, and he and a friend were probably talking and laughing. Hehe, since then, I have never taken the initiative to talk to him, I don't think such a person is worth befriending.

Anyway, I don't think a relationship can tolerate deception, no matter how intimate it is, what do you think?

Try not to lie, the relationship between people is very fragile and cannot withstand lies. If you lie to him once, he will doubt you again and again.

I think there can be white lies, but it's better not to deceive, lie once, fill it with many reasons, and make it self-defeating if you don't get it right.