Broke up and he contacted me?? What should I do if the other party keeps contacting me after a break

I can't put it down if I want to. Not decisive enough, I still want to be friends with you...

If it wasn't for the breakup you said first, don't contact him again after the breakup, if he doesn't take the initiative to call you, don't have the idea of wanting to hit him, if you want to divide it completely.

After being abandoned, don't listen to him, be friends. If you've lived together and loved each other, how can you be friends with him? If you don't forget him, you really can't forget him, and you can secretly think about him when you have time, but don't tell him.

If he calls you **, and you don't want to hear it, and you're embarrassed not to answer, take it! "Hey, hey, hey,,, muttered after screaming six times in a row: "Why is this broken ** old like this" and hung up.

If he sends you a "Happy Birthday" on your birthday, reply generously to him: "Thank you for remembering" without saying anything else. On his birthday, even if you remember, don't send him "Happy Birthday".

If he says he wants to invite you to dinner one day, go! Find the most expensive western restaurant nearby, smile the whole time, order the ** you want to eat the most, don't make AA with him, pretend to have something after eating, flash people!

If he says he's got a new girlfriend, congratulations! Even if it hurts, make him feel like you're laughing, and don't cry in front of a man who no longer loves you. You know, even if you do, he still doesn't love you!

If you are married, don't give him a post, the present continuous tense and the future tense are the most important, and the past tense can be exempted!

If he gets married and sends a post to you, he will immediately call him when he receives the post: "How could it be so coincidental, I was going on a business trip during that time, and I wanted to go over and see your bride!" "Occasionally, people can be hypocritical, and there is no need to let his bride judge you.

After the breakup, the things about him, throw away what can be thrown, keep what can be used and continue to use it, *** advocate frugality, we have to abide by it!

Even if the breakup is painful, but life is still worth living, so try to make yourself happy!

If you want to continue your relationship, you should reconcile; If you want to break up, change the mobile phone card; If you can't control others, then restrain yourself;

After the breakup, the other party still has a crush on you and keeps contacting you, which may be due to the following 3 reasons.

1.Redeem feelings

2.Harassing your family

3.Retaliation

Either way, it's hard for you to deal with it because you can't control the other person and you can't get them to stop doing it!

So, in the face of this stuffy early planting situation, how should we deal with it?

1. Explicit refusal

After the breakup, if you don't want to continue to entangle with your ex, the best thing to do is to reject his messages outright.

You can tell him:"I'm busy, and I don't talk to you for a while. "

You can also tell him:"I hope you don't bother me anymore because I don't think it's fair to me. "

If what he says is heartless, you say:"Well, then I won't reply, goodbye! "

2. Keep away from the gaze of the opponent

If the other person often talks to you and it is not convenient for you to talk to him, then the best way is to leave his sight.

For example, if you go to work in a foreign country, or go on a business trip, he will not be able to find you!

3. Distract yourself

After a breakup, many people will feel that their lives have lost their meaning and do not know how to spend the rest of their lives, so they will constantly swipe their mobile phones and read some information that is not nutritious.

However, doing so, will only make you more miserable!

Instead of that, spend your time on more valuable things like learning new skills, fitness, traveling, etc.!