We re going to get married in 14 years, what if his dad doesn t agree

I cook raw rice and mature rice! Her dad had to agree if he didn't agree! Besides, it's you and your girlfriend who live for the rest of your life, not you and her dad for the rest of your life. As long as the two of you truly love each other, nothing is a problem! Get the marriage certificate first!

I have a friend, because the family is too different, her relationship was opposed by the man's family, but the two have been in love for 9 years, and now the family can only approve it.

Persistence is strength, don't give up.

1.Modern marriageable people are more independent, emphasizing free love, pursuing love, and looking at problems from a completely different perspective and standard than the previous generation. However, parents and elders have a longer relationship journey, and they know how to maintain a good relationship in marriage, and they also know what kind of partner they can find to better manage their lives.

When you and your elders have different views on mate selection, how can you deal with your relationship with your elders and find a suitable marriage?

2.Parents will hope that the person who is looking for a partner must have a high income and a house, and there is no need to check the stool after getting married, and there is too much financial pressure. In your opinion, marriage is your own and you should make your own decisions.

But she felt that she was "full of love and water", and she insisted on getting married. Life after marriage is not as beautiful as you imagined, after the sweetness of love fades, the trivial matters of firewood, rice, oil and salt make life overstretched, they often quarrel because of economic problems, and the beauty of love has long disappeared. Divorce becomes a deliberate choice for both parties.

3.Of course, the opinions of parents are to collect more wisdom and wisdom, but the important point is to recognize that opinions are used as a reference to make decisions, not directly to the conclusions of the results. On the issue of mate selection and marriage and love, it is necessary to have an individual's independent opinion, and parents can also be invited to be advisers, but it needs to be analyzed, and there are trade-offs.

Parents are all interested in your own good, but what they think is happiness is not necessarily what you want. Develop a relationship between yourself and the other person. After experiencing an unhappy marriage, Ms. Lan has also grown up, and is willing to listen carefully to her parents' suggestions for reference, seeking a consensus between the two parties.

4.Sense of empathy, two generations understand each other, Mr. Xu is very troubled, because his parents are too strong. From childhood to adulthood, all the things of your parents were arranged for you, and they didn't give him a chance to choose at all.

And he thinks that the other party only needs to have a good personality and be considerate, and he doesn't need too many additional conditions. The relationship was not blessed by her parents, and her girlfriend chose to let go.

Summary. Hello, young lady, you are not old, this is definitely not good, marriage is autonomous, no one, including parents and children, can interfere with the freedom of marriage, you can be dissatisfied with him and make trouble, but the court sues him, the court will not accept it.

You are good, young lady, you are not old, this is definitely not good, marriage is autonomous, any of this royal people, including parents and children, can not interfere with the freedom of marriage, you can be dissatisfied with him and make trouble, but the court sues him, the court will not accept it.

I don't agree with them being together, can I sue them?

I'm 27 years old, 20 years older than him, my dad is in his 40s, she is in her 60s, no, no one is allowed to interfere with the freedom of marriage in the marriage law, you can not hold it and make trouble with them, but they are free to love without compulsion, and you have no basis in law if you sue Oh Pixiang.

As long as the conditions under the file infiltration key are met, no one else has the right to interfere with the freedom of marriage.1 Marriage should be completely voluntary between the man and the woman. 2. Must reach the legal age of marriage. Men must not be earlier than 22 years old, and women must not be earlier than 20 years old.

3. Must conform to monogamy. 4. Not direct blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations.

You can move your relatives to talk about your father, and you can persuade your father to give up the idea, but you won't be able to go to court to file a complaint.

Parents can sometimes listen to their opinions, after all, they have walked more bridges than you have walked with oranges, and experience can make them more accurate in identifying people and doing things.

If the man you want to marry is introduced by someone else's world, and there is not much emotional foundation, then listen to your parents, and you should ask for more dowry, after all, money can test how much the man attaches importance to you.

Generally speaking, the more the man values you, the higher your status in that family after marriage, and the stronger the sense of happiness. Of course, you can't open your mouth widely, and you have to exceed the high dowry within the man's family's ability!

If the man you marry has a deep emotional foundation with you, but his family conditions are not good and he can't come up with the bride price money, and your parents ask for tens of thousands of bride prices, then you can make your own decisions and don't listen to your parents.

The confidence of not listening to your parents is the foundation of your relationship with him, that is to say, the relationship between you is so deep that you can be sure that you can live happily in the future without talking about money.

Most parents ask for bride price money, not because they want to make a fortune by marrying their daughter, but because they want to fight for a little rights and interests for you, so that your future life will not be so cramped.

Although many people are now disgusted with the high bride price of the Lu Hui Group, it is not a bride price at all, and it is not supported by people.

A marriage that talks about money may not be happy, but a marriage that doesn't talk about money may result in nothing.

Marriage is a big deal, you should have a good chat with your parents, ask them what the reason for their disagreement is, and then carefully consider your marriage, don't worry. Parents look at things and consider things longer than us, and they will judge your relationship from the perspective of a bystander with the purest view, and consider whether the two of you are suitable to be together based on various factors, there is always a reason for them to object, you have to ask clearly, you must not insist on making the relationship stiff, after all, marriage is the collision and integration of two families, not as simple as you imagined. My brother had such a failed marriage, when he met a girl at the bar, who was a bar staff, five or six years older than my brother, and when my parents asked my brother how old the girl was, my brother wouldn't say.

The first time I brought her back to meet at home, she saw that my parents didn't even say hello, so my parents didn't like her at first and thought she was rude. My brother had to be with her, and later said that he wanted to get married, my mother asked him to think about it carefully, she felt that this girl was really not a suitable person for life, my brother refused to listen, and as a result, his belly was big and he was pregnant for four or five months, and he couldn't agree now, he took more than 100,000 yuan out to set up a banquet, and after giving birth to a child, he didn't give my brother to go out to work, so that my brother could accompany her at home every day, even if my brother just went to the neighbor's house, and her ** called to urge her to go home after going out for ten minutes, Those brothers laughed at my brother for being a worthless, and he didn't have any face at all. The baby wanted to drink milk powder and buy diapers and asked my parents for money, my brother was pinched to death by her, he couldn't stand it after only one year of marriage, and the two of them quarreled and divorced, and finally ended up ...... such an endingSo get married or discuss this kind of thing with your parents first, with the support and blessing of your parents, your life will really not be scattered, although I was not opposed to marriage by my parents, but many things are also experienced after marriage, and there are many examples around me, I really recommend that you think about it.