Now that children s education is a big issue, I want to know what the mothers in the community say

Don't ask your child to be too obedient, a child who is too obedient will grow up to be unproductive. Teach him to be sensible, tell him what is right and wrong, right and wrong, and let him choose. Slowly he will choose more and more right, and it is important for him to think about himself, not just learn to be obedient.

I only learned to listen to others, and when I grew up, I had to be a messenger).

Some habits of parents are difficult to change, regardless of whether there is a problem with their parenting style, you just need to make yourself the best and they will not always talk about you; Don't worry about who is right and who is wrong, our parents have raised us with great difficulty, and we should be grateful for everything and conform to our parents' ways!

It's hard to say, you look at the problem from a different angle, see if there are any problems with their approach, what are the advantages, whether they can be solved through improvement, and at the same time you have to let them listen carefully to your ideas. Such situations arise often caused by a lack of communication, where you talk about yours and they talk about theirs.

The generation gap is not easy to communicate. The parents were born in different eras, they received different education methods at that time, and they felt that some things were passed down from generation to generation, and they couldn't help it.

Communication is not enough, and there is the way each other expresses, what you think can be communicated well, don't say half and leave half, so that the other party's understanding is limited and may be misunderstood. There is also the issue of the generation gap.

Now it's your problem, because you have the ability to think, and you know that their education is wrong, and you should correct it yourself.

If a slap doesn't make a sound, there must be a problem on both sides.

The high level of education is to teach students according to their aptitude and people. But it is really difficult to do so, and everyone has different ages, life experiences, and education levels, and different views and ways of educating them. In this case, it would be nice to be able to find common ground while reserving differences.

With each year we get older, our parents age a year older, and their ability to accept new things deteriorates and their reflexes become sluggish. When you encounter disagreements, think more from the other person's point of view.

Your parents say you, you say there's something wrong with their way, and then they say you have a problem. If the two parties keep arguing, not only will they hurt each other's feelings, but they will not lead to anything.

As a child, you don't need to directly contradict them, listen to their ideas, and then judge for yourself whether to make changes, after all, you are the one who implements the final implementation, and the decision is in your hands. Parents are also good for you. The result is good, and the process is not so important! Isn't it?

The current teaching is spring education, that is, the ordinary pole selling wheel, ordinary nothing. The big deal is just that parents push their children. That's what happened.

Educate children. Since ancient times, we have a good way to make a sedan chair. Learn the palanquin method of the ancients, Sun Peinai, I believe you will see the problem.

Certain. It's not a big problem to look at him.

Education is not a problem at all now? The main reason for this Wang Shenzi problem is that the parents' spirit is too nervous, and when they do not let their children become Chen Jingrun, become a great mathematician, become a scientist, in fact, think about it, if 80% of the country's poor people go to calculate how many 1+1 Chinese will die immediately? are afraid of losing at the starting line.

The original point is in the place before Shixiao.