How do I fit into the group, and how can I quickly integrate into the group?

You say, you really want to drink and make friends, that's good, show this feeling a little, let others feel that you also need friends very much, and like to make friends with each other. That way people will be happy to play with you.

People don't have to be the same type to get along. As long as everyone cares about each other and thinks about each other, the friendship can continue. Friendship is mutual care and help.

There is no one who really doesn't need friendship and doesn't look forward to friendship, only those who are afraid of rejection and loneliness. No one really likes to be alone.

You have to know that everyone needs help and support, and needs to be cared for.

Friendship is sincerity.

Also, when drinking, you have to learn it slowly, and of course, it is better to drink and smoke less. However, in order to prepare for entering the society in the future, it is better to have a little bit of alcohol, and after you can drink, it is better to touch it less. Cigarettes and alcohol should be touched as little as possible, for the sake of good health.

Some people can mix well without smoking and drinking. A gentleman's example.

...I'm still young, though. I'm a junior high school student.

I'll tell you about my experience. If you smoke, don't go to school. But it's okay to drink alcohol.

Because that's what every man has to learn. Otherwise, there is no face. I don't know if your eloquence is good or not.

Good words. Like me. I didn't understand it.

But spend more time with othersChat together. Come and admire your eloquence.

Then someone else will reach out to you.

Seven Ways:

1. The right breakthrough point should be found.

There are often one or two leaders in the collective, and this leader is often a person with a certain appeal, whose words and deeds often have a slightly greater influence than others, and are more likely to become the guide of collective issues. Therefore, if you find his interests and build a harmonious relationship with him, I believe it will not be difficult for you to integrate into the group.

2. Dare to express your own opinions.

Some people are submissive, always afraid to express their opinions, afraid that others will deny it and lose face when they say it, in fact, this is also a process, we should face up to this process, don't feel scared because of it. Frustration is more conducive to growth.

3. Learn to exchange opinions with others.

To better integrate into the group depends on good interpersonal relationships, and good interpersonal relationships begin with mutual understanding, and mutual understanding between people depends on the communication of each other's thoughts and attitudes. Therefore, it is necessary to learn to exchange views.

4. Take the initiative to communicate with others.

When we arrive in a new environment, we need to learn to take the initiative to communicate with others. Maybe you are an introvert, but that is not an excuse for you not to communicate with people, you have to understand that you are a new person, you don't communicate with others, those old people will not take the initiative to communicate with you.

5. Learn to smile.

A smile is a slight smile, which emanates from the heart, not a smirk, let alone a big laugh, it is not only an expression, but also a feeling. When we try to smile at someone we once ignored for the first time, the other person will smile back at us, which is the principle of interpersonal interaction. Whatever it is, when we face it with a smile, we find that things are half as easy as possible.

6. Learn to treat others equally.

Before you enter a new environment, you may be a supervisor, a manager, or maybe a leader in this new team, whether you are a leader or a civilian, you have to learn to treat people equally. In particular, if you are a leader, you must understand this, you must not be superior to others, as the saying goes, those who win the hearts of the people win the world, you only treat others equally, will others be more willing to approach you.

7. Be enthusiastic.

Nowadays, people are becoming more and more indifferent to each other, but what you do to others, others will do to you in return. Everyone has a mirror in their hearts, and if you are enthusiastic about others, others will definitely respond. But it's not a stammer, keep your temperament.

Be calmer in everything, look at some Be generous, be less selfish, be less cautious, be less calculating, be more tolerant of others, be more tolerant, be more humble, be more understanding, be easy-going, have the heart of harming others, and have the heart of guarding against others.