When I was a child, I was always said bad things and didn t like to go out

You should have an inferiority complex in your heart.

You are socially phobic, which falls into the category of autism. You should pay attention to what others usually say and what they say? Why? Take your time.

You have a slight manifestation of autism, this is not a disease, but a psychological disorder, you have to break through this psychological barrier, first of all, you have to know that people are social animals, people can't do without mutual communication, when others look at you, you don't always think about how others see you, do they think you are not good, you have to have a relaxed mentality, maybe others see you as affirming or envious of certain temperaments, and since you are afraid of being socialized with others, you have to take the initiative to socialize with others, so that you can break this psychological barrier.

You are a typical introvert, just communicate with others.

When you see him in the future, you take the initiative to smile and greet her, and they won't think you're not beautiful when they understand you?

Go your own way and let others do the talking

First of all, you don't dress too much. Personality, you have to be confident, and people with self-confidence have different temperaments.

And they said, I'm not as handsome as I used to be, and I think I'm going to have to work hard.

Speak up about your troubles where no one is.

Sometimes divorce is not necessarily a bad thing, and others who don't know their situation will feel that divorce is not good. Sometimes because of the haste of marriage, it will lead to a bad married life, divorce is a relief, don't care too much about other people's opinions, it's important to be happy yourself, people live to be happy.

Friend, you're closing yourself off by saying that. There is still a long way to go in life, and we will face unexpected trials and setbacks. There is nothing to be ashamed of in divorce, it can only be said that you may have met a scumbag or a scumbag. Calm yourself down and start your new life again.

How long have you been divorced, brother, why are you divorced.

The best way to deal with this is not to be impulsive, not to get angry, not to fight back, if you don't understand what is going on and get caught up in it, it will not only damage your image, but also make you lose yourself. The body is not afraid of shadows, you have justice in the hearts of the people, and the unwarranted smearing of others can prove your purity and righteousness.

When you encounter someone saying bad things about you, you can deal with it indifferently, just like I said before, we are not RMB, and we can't love everyone, not to mention that now everyone likes to swipe the card, say what others are right and wrong behind your back, believe that others look down on him rather than you, be an elegant person, do what you should do, how others see you is their business, caring too much will only make you more tired.

If you still have questions, you can continue to ask them!!

You are innocent.

Don't be afraid of what people say!

Because as long as you don't do anything bad.

People won't believe him either.

Believe that if someone believes what that person says about you.

Those people shouldn't be your friends.

You don't have to worry too much about it.

in your world.

And not to live for them.

You weren't born for them, either.

Go with the flow. This is the truth I stand for.

Because of all the falsehoods.

will disappear with the passage of time.

Someone else remembers.

It will only be all the good things you do.

Don't worry too much.

There is no need to defend it.

Don't hold a grudge.

With the belly of a gentleman, the heart of a villain.

When he's farting on it.

Justice is at ease in people's hearts.

But your own mental adjustment is also important.

You can keep a journal to regulate your emotions.

You can also learn to be tolerant.

Try to be nicer to the person who says bad things about you.

Make him feel inferior to you.

Let him feel how narrow his heart is.

And what others see is the beauty of your soul.

Yes, misunderstandings are always solved.

First of all, this person speaks ill of you behind your back.

Then he's not your good friend.

I don't mean anything to you.

If you're the more direct type of person.

You can talk to him about him.

Say what others like to say Be yourself People are not afraid of shadows, those who pull people behind their backs will eventually get the corresponding retribution People don't repay themselves, men should know how to be low-key If you deal with those long-tongued women, you will lose your image and dignity Low-key and low-key.

Let's take an analogy: if a dog bites you, will you still bite the dog?

Hehe, I want to open a little.

May you find your own happiness in your life.

Why bother yourself, just say what others say, boys should show that they don't care about these gossips, you have to remember that there will always be people in this world who can't see others well. You can start by asking your boyfriend and girlfriend to see what they think of you. Since those people are not the people you care about, you don't need to care about them at all, as long as the people you care about don't think so.

I think this kind of problem is annoying for girls, so you don't have to care about the words in the mouth of the eight women, think about it, can the eight women say good things in their mouths? The next time you hear it, say to them:"Excuse me, do you really understand this person when you talk about him and get along with him, I think you can only talk about it after you get along with her, just like you have to judge whether you are a woman or not, and you have to talk to her first, isn't it?

Then turn around and leave. Remember, the body is not afraid of shadows.

Hehe! The reason: you are handsome but have low self-esteem, but you give them the impression that they are handsome but arrogant.

If you talk more to them in the future, it's OK, they talk about you behind your back, in fact, the real purpose is to hope that you will put down the shelf and get close to them, and make friends with them! Maybe there are girls among them who like you and talk back to cover it up!

Hahaha,When I was in junior high school before, I was naïve and scolded by a boy who didn't understand the situation.,I said it a few times, I thought it was a hallucination, and I went back directly after it was determined.,The tiger doesn't threaten you, I'm a sick cat.,The boy in the back was cowardly.,I didn't dare to laugh at the time.,Later, my attitude towards me was good! People still have to have tempers!

You just have to turn around lightly so they don't speak ill of you behind your back.

Don't always think about who you've offended Maybe you're very humble and don't think you're handsome, but in the eyes of some people it's synonymous with hypocrisy There must be some reasons for this kind of life Think about it, whether you rejected someone or hurt someone unintentionally.

。。。Go your own way and let others say go. He didn't call you by name, what are you afraid of? If there is a kind of let him call you by your name and say you...

Because you are a newcomer to society, you desperately need the affirmation of your colleagues, so you are willing to help her, and now she feels psychologically uncomfortable. But look at things comprehensively, her evaluation does not negate your efforts, there are other teachers and classmates in the school, the eyes of the masses are bright, as long as you do it, you will gain, not necessarily only praise is affirmation. Also, you have to pay attention to your relationships, why would someone make a small report behind you?

Why didn't anyone remind you? Working in society is not like being at school, if you don't cause trouble, you are a good child, and the tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop. This seemingly trivial matter also sounded a wake-up call for you to pay more attention to interpersonal relationships.

Don't bother with that person anymore.

You have to live your life well.

Let the people who have heard bad things about you know that you're doing well.

And not the kind of person he says.

That's the best way to fight back against that man!

There are many such people in life.

Speaking ill of you behind your back.

He does. Do you still consider him a friend?

He is the dispensable person in your life.

You don't have to be anything in front of him.

He said you are better than him in some ways.

He's jealous of you. If he is better at anything than you, he says what you do.

So you don't have to worry about him.

Do your own thing.

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

Social anxiety disorder is a mental illness in which you feel intense fear or apprehension about any social or public setting. There is a significant and persistent fear of humiliation or embarrassment in the presence of strangers or in social or performance situations where others may be scrutinized. If you want to overcome your fears, you must evaluate yourself correctly, discover your strengths, remember that "the ruler is short, the inch is long", you always have your advantages, everyone has their own shortcomings, they are not much worse than others, and they should promote their strengths and avoid weaknesses in interpersonal communication.

If you want to be excellent everywhere and be superior to others, this is a manifestation of too high expectations, which is easy to cause psychological pressure on yourself, and you can't interact with people normally.

Friend, being suspicious is a sign that you are not confident. If you focus too much on other people's opinions, and always have the habit of magnifying a very simple thing, these are not conducive to the growth of your character, and over time it will manifest as a lack of assertiveness.

Because when you go out, what you see and hear will make you feel annoyed, so you are willing to stay at home and think about how others were watching me yesterday or earlier, and so on. Is that so?

You are restless during this time, and it is good to try not to go out if you don't want to. It would be good if you could recite the Heart Sutra at home when you were upset. After a while, naturally it will be all right :)

This kind of problem is not something to worry about. You can't get him to say anything or not to say anything when he has a mouth on someone else. Even if he talks nonsense, others may not believe it!

Try to relax...You're in a bad mental state right now. Go out for a walk and listen to more relaxing **.

There is a shadow in my heart! Try to find a psychiatrist.

Your situation is similar to my family's before, but I take advantage of the fact that although they have different personalities, they all love me, and this characteristic is that my approach is to talk to my parents often, and then say good things about another person in front of one person, just like I keep saying good things about my father in front of my mother, then my mother's opinion of my father will also change, but it took me a long time, three years, and I believe that you can stick to it for the sake of the harmony of your family, and as for whether you use my method, then it depends on whether you can think of a better way.

Teach your children more positive things and tell them more about being an upright person! It will get better after a long time!

Far away, there is little intersection, what he likes to say let him go, as long as you have a clear conscience, it has nothing to do with you.

The simplest and most effective way is to beat up next time I hear it.

Words and deeds, parents usually pay attention to their own ** has an impact on their children.

Of course you won't feel good, and you feel like he doesn't see his own shortcomings at all!

Don't pay attention to him, endure a step of calm, take a step back and open the sky.

This behavior of the child does worry parents, don't worry, if I encounter this situation, I will talk to him when the child is in a good mood, ask him why he doesn't like this child, when the baby lists some of the annoying shortcomings of others, I will first let the baby recall whether he used to have the same mistake, if he has such a problem at the time, other children also say bad things about you, you will be very sad to hear, the mother is more sad to hear, every baby is the best in the eyes of the mother. Let the baby understand this truth. Then guide him on how to help the child correct these problems, so that the baby can play the role of a doctor, and he can still have a sense of accomplishment.

In addition, through this behavior, the baby can also make one more good friend. I believe that your baby will correct the problem of saying bad things about others. I don't know if I understand it, I hope it can help you.

Happy for you and your baby.

It's not bad for children to like to speak ill of people behind their backs.

With the right guidance, a good attitude will express the good side.

My son, too, likes to eavesdrop on adults chatting and tell others that he doesn't look like a child at all, just a nasty adult.

The first 114th round: Wang Xifeng returned to Jinling by illusion, and Zhen Yingjia returned to Yuque with grace.

Fifteen, the night moon is a curtain of dreams, and the spring breeze is tender. Qin Guan "Eight Six Sons".