Can you really control your emotional center?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-05
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Yes, as long as you're still sane.

    Remember.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I once experienced such feelings, when it was like a black curtain shrouded my life, suspecting that he had someone else, and wanted to ** to him, but I blamed myself for being too cheap, and repeatedly doubted whether you loved me or not.

    Actually, when I figured it out later, I knew that maybe he still had feelings for me, but his feelings were weak.

    I don't know your situation very well, and I can't say anything arbitrarily. However, maybe he also loves you, but the relationship has faded, so there is less contact and I feel a little tired. If you push it hard, he will strain you a little more.

    But this is not a long-term solution after all, because change is change, and what people say is nonsense when people's hearts change.

    My advice to you is that injuries are inevitable. Have a good talk and measure for yourself how many points his sincerity is worth.

    If you notice that he really can't come back, break up decisively, keep dragging it out, and it's always yourself who gets hurt.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you want to control your emotions, don't take the other party too seriously, that is, seven points, and you can't love too little, so that the other party will decide that you don't love him, give yourself three points of love for yourself, as long as this is how you can love others.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you should control your emotions first, or should you choose to trust your boyfriend. Don't overthink it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You are aware of your dangerous position, and the best thing to do is to find a man who is sincere and financially well-off.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Go by feeling, listen to the opinions of friends around you, divide and merge, normal.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love is for joy, and like you, with all due respect, don't.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, I'm a boy, I have a very similar problem with you, she is also hot and cold to me, and then I found that I can't be too good to her, and I have to lose my temper from time to time, just like making soup, first use a high temperature and a high fire to stew over low heat, and after you lose your temper, she will find that what he did is very wrong, He will change it, if it is still like that, It is impossible for you to share it with him, because you love him, and you are destined to pay for him, Think more about his goodness, and you will find that everything you pay is worth it, Mine, I hope to help you, at the same time, the end of the world has fallen into people, why should we have ever met.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Emotional matters who are serious first. Then who loses! I have a feeling you're going to lose ......

    There are 2 types of people. 1 is that feelings do not matter, 1 is that feelings are the majority of life.

    I've never been in a relationship, maybe I don't quite understand. I don't believe in love, besides. What is there about that man to love???

    Will he be your life? No! Everyone has their own trajectory in life, doesn't they?

    You just put it bluntly, don't cower. Take care of this, take care of that. If he says he doesn't like you, then you tell him to fuck off yourself!

    If he tells you that he loves you, but he doesn't act on it, hehe, either, let him fuck off, or observe for a while, or prepare a spare tire Others will never have themselves to be trusted! Because you are not his life!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The best thing to do is to find another boyfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Be silent, what you say when you're angry always adds fuel to the fire and hurts, so keep silent. Meditation, when the mood is angry, sad, sad, you can choose a quiet place, close your eyes, and feel your heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you really feel that you are no longer necessary, then let him go, why bother losing both sides in the end, if you still can't let go, find something new to attract yourself and withdraw yourself from the relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Can't control it? I ask you, who can control it? No one can say anything about feelings, if you think it's round, it's round, if you think it's square, no one can change your mind.

    I don't have any good advice, but you'd better go with your heart, at least you don't regret it. You're a senior in high school, and what you need now is indeed a review, but you might as well relax your mood and chase after the girl you like, no matter whether you succeed or fail, I understand your feelings, if I think about the girl I like and others going to the wedding hall, I also feel uncomfortable wanting to die, but what can I do? Take advantage of the present time to seize your youth and seize the opportunity.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't force yourself, everyone will meet different people in different periods and different environments, you want to marry her during this period, once your life circle is enlarged a little, then you will like other women at this time, so you don't have to get married, marriage is just your thoughts, life, social experience to a certain extent, will be considered, but there will be a lot of women who make you feel excited after this issue, it depends on whether you can catch it. If you can learn now, you can learn more!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You kid don't want to be motivated, you think about girls, can you be promising? I'm sorry for your parents!

    If you really want that girl to like you, you've got to do what she likes, you know? She is studying hard now in the hope of having a future career, if you can surpass her in learning, it will definitely look at you differently, so it will not be a matter of course? I hope to adopt, don't let me be kind!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Study hard, narrow the gap with her, be admitted to a good university, and have the capital to basically chase her, if you work well and earn high income in the future, then what's the problem with chasing her?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What you should do now is try to get into a good school so that you have a chance to be with her. Study hard.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Work hard to earn money, beautiful women are everywhere.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Left and right, no, I found it in my book on systematic anatomy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Psychological adjustment method, or learn from the people around you who are good at this aspect, if you really can't control it, find a place where no one is there to vent yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Try hard, study hard,

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Friend. Let's do the task.

    Shake hands if yes.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The only love word is the most hurtful, it's hard.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Whenever you use your feelings, you should think about why you should use your feelings, no matter when the feelings are not hurt. It's good for others and for yourself. Learn to empathize.

    Or be selfish for the good of your own health. So keep your feelings in check.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Some feelings don't need to be controlled.

    What kind of age has it been.

    You can pursue what kind of feelings.

    Isn't it good to be a person and be yourself?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is the so-called truth that is irresistible.

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