Why should we not envy anyone?

I think it's because you have to be confident in yourself. Don't test the heart, it will disappoint you. It's good to know something, and it doesn't need to be said. Some people just know each other, so they don't need to be close friends.

Don't be too nice, you can say no to what you don't want to do, you don't have to force what you can't do, pretend not to hear what you don't like.

Life is not about pleasing others, but about being kind to yourself. Do what you like, stick to what you want to stick to, break through what you dare not try, and give yourself a specific time to complete a different version of yourself. Try to be a lovely person.

Don't blame anyone, don't laugh at anyone, don't envy anyone, the sun is shining, run in the wind and rain, dream your own dreams, go your own way! Be your truest and most beautiful person. Follow your heart.

Don't look back. Don't look around. Don't worry about what others say.

Only those who can't compare to you talk about you.

Better than you, people are busy on the road, don't look at you. Everyone's life is unique, you can see your shortcomings and strengths are already good, don't envy anyone. It turns out that jealousy or not being jealous is just an illusion and has no meaning.

However, after spending too much time appreciating the good stuff of others, we can be filled with resentment towards ourselves. Then, in the process of appreciating others, the joy dissipates over time, which is a pity. Anyway, it doesn't make sense.

Why don't you take a moment to turn your eyes away and see what others have to say about you? Happiness is only when we know that we are satisfied. Whether it's life, marriage, work, career, whether it's good or bad, we are all striving for everything in life.

We are busy with life, in what situation, in what position, we should treat ourselves rationally. We should not compare and aspire unnecessarily. The capacity of the heart is limited, and so is a person's energy.

Only when we know contentment and are good at understanding can we not get angry and enjoy happiness. There is no absolute fairness and no absolute starting point in the world. Having ideals and pursuits is the driving force for success, but seeking truth from facts is the foundation.

So I think it's because you have to be confident in yourself.

The more envious you are, the easier it is to fall into the desires in front of you, and for the success you think you can catch, you have been in a hurry all your life, but it has just made the youth dye too many unnecessary vicissitudes.

Writer Yang Daxia pointed out that it is better to envy others than to act yourself.

Because while you envy others, others also envy you.

It's because everyone has their own shining point.

Because to envy others is to embarrass yourself.

Because everyone is excellent.

Because everyone has their own difficulties.

It is painful to envy others, but the root of pain is not in others, but in the fact that one's own desire is not satisfied, but this desire is satisfied in others. Method: Section.

1. Recognize that the root of suffering is one's own desires. Clause.

2. Recognize the nature of desire and improve yourself. Clause.

3. Inclusive heart, ordinary heart + pure heart. Actively work hard to satisfy desires, but don't suffer from gains and losses.

It is difficult to achieve a complete lack of envy, but it is certainly achievable, and we must continue to make progress towards this goal. We have to learn to reconcile with ourselves, we can be envious, envy does not mean that it is necessarily a bad thing, just like I like someone, it does not mean that I have to get her, if I can't get it, what will happen, this is not right.

I envy that others can have a cup of milk tea from others, no one gives it to me, it doesn't matter I can buy a cup by myself, you may say, there is no point in buying it yourself, what I envy is that others have someone to care about, and I have no one to care, and wanting to be cared for is the core problem.

There is nothing that no one cares about at the moment, you have to believe that there will be a person who cares about you waiting for you in the future, even if you can't meet such a person for a long time, you have to learn to love yourself. As I said earlier, I can buy myself a cup of milk tea to drink, I can care for myself and learn to reconcile with myself.

If you want to achieve the realm of not envying others, you must change your own thinking and pay more attention to your own inner cultivation. As for the material and dusty conditions, it is enough to meet one's own life, and don't always look at the mountain and look at the mountain. Jealousy of the lives of others will bring no benefit to one's own life or any impact on the lives of others.

This envy of others will only make your heart more irritable, make your life more disorderly, and make your life more chaotic. If you want to truly change yourself and become a mindset that does not envy others, you must become calm in your own mindset and not let the words and ways of life of others affect you.

Hold eternity in your heart and live in the moment.

First of all, you have to understand that life is not only about comparison, you can look at the stools that you have but they don't have, and sometimes look at the people around you who are good to you. You can also make yourself excellent, and when you are strong, you won't feel that others are late to rent back.

If you want to effectively do not envy anyone who knows how to bend Zen, you must establish the correct concept, set up your own inner positioning, and then continue to work towards your own development.

We must strive to change the status quo, improve our abilities, learn to be content, and learn to be relieved.

It's not surprising to envy others, but it's hard to be strong enough to live a life that you don't feel comfortable with while watching the lives of others.

Why is it so easy for us to envy others? The answer is probably this: each of us has a finite life experience.

Because of this, in the world, we cannot and do not have the opportunity to bear everything we expect. Therefore, when we are poor both physically and mentally, we may envy those who are rich and those who "have poetry and books in their stomachs"; When we continue to be confused and anxious, we may not be able to envy the ...... of those who have a firm goal like "insisting on the green mountains and not letting go of the town".

I envy people who have the support of their parents when making important decisions; What envy me is the people who want better grades to support themselves to go further. Not to mention how much investment I have made in terms of personal development, but I have received a blow from my parents in almost all of my target universities and major choices. I don't ask for too much, but I can't even get encouragement that I don't need to buy with money from Mima, so I really envy them.

However, people who envy my grades may not know that I will always have the feeling that I have nothing but scores.

It's really easy for us to envy others. However, no matter how envious you are, please be sure to adjust your mentality, because everyone has their own dissatisfaction, and there is really no one answer in life. We are still young, and the future is still promising!