How to break the curse of less than lovers ?

I think it's orientation, emotional communication, and emotional exploration. In the vast sea of people, two people meet, then meet, then fall in love, and finally stay together for a lifetime. This is the most complete description of love.

In this process, from acquaintance to love, it is the most wonderful and exciting part, and it is also the most tangled part. Research in emotional psychology points out that two people generally go through four stages from acquaintance to determination of love relationship: orientation, emotional exploration, emotional communication and stable communication.

Orientation is to determine the direction, that is, a person knows what he wants, what kind of person he thinks he is, what kind of person he is most comfortable with, and so on. As many people imagine what their significant other will look like, it's a process of positioning. However, it is not easy.

Many people themselves are not sure which opposite sex they prefer. In addition, everyone has different aesthetic standards and cannot fully refer to others. However, it is very important to know what is right for you so that when that person appears, you can feel it, and then start comparing and identifying it, and then start understanding it deeply.

Emotional exploration is a process of mutual understanding, including each other's hobbies, life plans, values, family background, love experiences, marital concepts, personality traits, skills, communication skills, etc. This process is very necessary, and if you skip this link and go straight to the love relationship, it will lay a hidden danger for the future. It's common to break up because you're not familiar with each other.

At this stage, special attention should be paid to the fact that many people confide in each other about their "painful" love history. However, due to personal reasons, this self-confidence often carries strong personal feelings, so it is easy to leave an image of selfishness and resentment in the other person's heart. Therefore, it is beneficial to express them appropriately and show magnanimity and tolerance.

So I think it's orientation, emotional communication, emotional exploration.

You should choose well and then go first yourself.

First of all, a person has to stand up and confess.

Really take the initiative to confess!

If a person loves you, he will get angry at you for not listening to him.

It takes a person to stand up bravely.

If I were this friend of yours, I would never flirt with you when I have a girlfriend, because this would be pushing the problem on you and making you take on the moral responsibility, which is not a sign of true love for you at all.

With all due respect, I don't think B is a decent gentleman.

Reason: Suppose B still loves his girlfriend, but because he met you and thinks you are better, he plans to abandon his former partner and find a new love, isn't this a typical liking the new and hating the old? The country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change, how can you guarantee that he will not treat you like his current girlfriend?

Suppose B doesn't love her girlfriend anymore, then why is she still sticking to her and coming to tease you without breaking up? There are two possibilities. First, he wants to step on two boats, hug left and right, let you and his current girlfriend be jealous, and be happy and comfortable; Second, he leaves himself a way back, if you promise him, he will abandon his current girlfriend to be with you, and if you don't promise him, he will continue to maintain the relationship with his current girlfriend.

Love is love, if you don't love, you don't love, make the problem of feelings ambiguous, purely for your own selfish interests, isn't this the performance of the legendary scumbag?

If you are not sure of your heart, first of all, you must push the problem to the other party, these problems are not completely caused by you, and you can not solve them alone, wait for the other party to come out with the results before talking about the rest of the matter.

If someone has a girlfriend, why would you step in? What is this called a lover is not full? It's obvious that you want to be a third party, and it just so happens that this man wants to split you!

It is recommended that you end this relationship as soon as possible, don't have an affair with a man who has a girlfriend, and if you really want to be together, then wait for someone to break up!

Whether you like her, I think you need to keep your distance from him, after all, he has a girlfriend, even if he may be interesting to you, but he has never broken up, there is still the master, you keep your distance from him, you did what you should do, if the guy is really interesting to you and broke up, you didn't do anything that hurt the girl, you won't be too uncomfortable, if the guy didn't break up, then you don't have to worry about him.

It's not allowed to be under the age of majority, it's a crime, you can wait a few more years, and then talk about it when it's full, if you really like him, just wait.

He's using you as a spare tire, be sensible.

There are several situations:

1.If you have a crush on the other person and want to develop further, you can take the initiative to clarify the relationship.

2.If you have a crush on the other person but don't want to develop into a lover, you can appropriately hint at the other person's own attitude.

3.If you are worried about losing this friend after taking the initiative to clarify the relationship, you can listen to the other person's attitude and know the other party's attitude towards you before making a decision.

This thing always says if you like it, Feelings are the most unreasonable, my boyfriend used to be very good to me when he was nowhere before, but he never said he liked me, and then I bravely said that we are fine together now, just don't let yourself regret this thing.

This is just a spare tire, if you really love you, you will first deal with the relationship around you, not let you be a villain. If you insert it, you will become a third party, and if he thinks about you, he will break up with his girlfriend first and then find you.

Keep a proper distance, don't let others think you are too frivolous, and learn to be in a sense of proportion, after all, you are not a lover yet. Show your heart at the right time in case you miss each other.

Toss a coin to decide, get married together, grow old together, deal with whichever one you like, and if you want to be permanent, find the one you like instead of the one you like. Like each other, that's the best = you like his strengths and weaknesses, he likes your strengths and accommodates your weaknesses.

If you don't like him, just rely on him, or don't recommend being together. Now you're her buddy, and you'll be with him in the future. Another girl will become such a friend of his, obviously has a girlfriend, and is so close to another girl, there is a problem in itself.

It is recommended that you refuse! Don't affect the feelings of others, let go of each other, and wish each other happiness in the future.

If you feel that the other party also likes you, it is just a matter of sending someone to pierce this layer of paper.

Ask him directly who he likes, and if he likes his girlfriend, don't bother them; If you like it, let him break up with you earlier, and don't drag his girlfriend down anymore.

Don't worry about him, since he can even give up his lover, how do you know if he will abandon you in the future?