Parents and love, I chose, parents, but now that I m here, I m not happy at all.

Parents are dedicated to the duty of support because of the grace of nurturing, love is the process of becoming parents yourself, you have made the wrong choice! You are naturally unhappy, not only are you unhappy, but he or she is also unhappy. However, this nurturing love must be difficult to repay, if you obey yourself, you will lose your own life, if you go against your parents and cause your parents to lose their ideals and grieve.

It's about your life and the will of your parents. That is, to practice the virtues of the old times and fulfill the responsibilities of the modern. Isn't there a new 24 filial piety?

You can look it up on the Internet, and what you learn can also help you! It is a matter of time before you pass on your knowledge and knowledge to your parents. Don't lose touch with him or her, choose the motivation of life, not just what you do.

A personal opinion is good, wrong is uncertain.

I don't know what causes the conflict between you and your parents and your lover, but I want to say two things, the first is how you should treat your parents, parents should put our children first no matter what the circumstances, although sometimes there will be conflicts, but the close relationship is there, so we should not chill the hearts of our parents, and the second point of love, your she or he chose to be with you means that she he loves you and trusts you, and you must not hurt the heart of a person who loves you Since you have chosen this one, you should go to the sea so you have to shoulder the responsibilities of both parties now Instead of choosing one side Give up one side, let alone escape This may be a multiple-choice question But you must pay your own sacrifice Although it is not a crime to hurt someone in love But it will break the other person's heart You have to make a choice that you are satisfied with Don't be forced by others to face what you don't want Think about it and face it bravely You will be happy!

In fact, if you really can't give up, go back and find her again, your parents want you to be happy, maybe as long as you persevere, you will understand. If you can't, just look away. In life, nothing is perfect, at least you make your parents happy

Love will slowly fade away, parents, it is a lifelong thing, how can you forget? Love is important, but your parents must be good for you, you have already chosen, and now regretting it will only hurt both sides, love your parents well.

If you're not happy, you have made the right choice! You're going to be far away from love! If you are unhappy in the future, you will not have a chance!

What kind of love do you think this score is. You can't always think about what you lose. If it is true that there is no future love. It is right to give up ...

That's the other half of your love that you haven't forgotten, time is the best medicine for love, and you can also start a new love!

Believe that the parents are right, all they do is want you to have a good life, it's as simple as that.

If you're wrong, will you be happy? And you'll be mindful of it for the rest of your life.

You don't have an opinion yourself? Do you live with him for the rest of your life, or do your parents live with him for the rest of your life?

Get back the love you've lost.

Yes, if you like. In my opinion, my love should be my decision, my love is my own, and it doesn't seem to have much to do with my parents. If they interfere with my feelings, or try to destroy my feelings, then I think it's very wrong to do so.

But in my opinion, if it were me, I think my parents would have respected my opinion, because after all, marriage is a matter for two people, and life in the future is also a matter for two of them. Parents intervene in the relationship, nothing more than feel that their daughter may not be very happy after marriage, or think that the man's family conditions are not very good or something. Of course, there are many kinds of men's families who feel that the woman's family conditions are not good, or they are not worthy of their own family, so they do not agree to others to marry, and they come up with many ways to drive the woman away.

Love is your own business, your parents are just the advisers, if you don't have your own judgment and even rely on your parents for the choice of your partner, then I don't think you deserve to have feelings. Many parents think that their children know about themselves, but in fact they are not. A lot of people find a partner who just suits them, and your parents don't.

If it's just to please your parents, it's probably better if you don't look for it.

My marriage was decided by myself, and my parents said it wasn't a good fit, and I asked them why, and they just felt it. If I miss someone I love because of such feelings, I will not accept it. Love is not easy in the first place, and if there is an extra layer of obstacles in the opinions of parents, it is really not cost-effective.

No, because I haven't met anyone who is particularly special and loves more than my parents.

And I always believe in my parents' ability to see people, after all, the road they have traveled and the salt they have eaten are not in vain. If I don't get the love of my parents' blessings, I will not be satisfied with it myself.

And my parents are not so vexatious, they are always for my sake.

Mom and Dad's reading experience will indeed be richer than ours, so you can communicate with your parents what is the reason why you feel that your boyfriend is not good, whether there is a chance that this bad will be improved, and if it can be changed, it can be insisted on together.

I think it's hard to continue the love that my parents are not optimistic about, because they are not optimistic that there will be a lot of conflicts in the future, which will easily lead to this disagreement, etc., and there will be this quarrel, so I think it's better not to continue.

I will continue, I belong to the category of not hitting the south wall and not looking back, but it turns out that parents are right, every parent loves their children, and they use their own life experience for half of their lives to tell you what kind of life the love you have will make you live for the rest of your life.

Parents don't let you marry people must not marry, parents are the only people in this world who will not harm you, they see many more people than you see, parents insist on not letting you marry must have their own reasons, it may be that you have found your boyfriend's unknown side, or think carefully about marriage.

Parents look at problems more than we do, and there are many times when we are easy to lose ourselves in love, so when parents are not optimistic, I think we still have to think about it more.

Don't continue the love that your parents are not optimistic about, because the eyes of the old man are still very accurate, love is supposed to be supported by the blessings of your dearest people, if your parents do not support you and are not optimistic about this relationship, then end it.

There should still be some truth in the love that parents are not optimistic about. After all, parents still want their children to be happy, and they are wholeheartedly thinking about you, and you need to think carefully about what your parents don't recognize!

Or don't continue, even if it hurts. I am 28 years old this year, I met my first love, after he came to my house, my parents didn't like him very much, first of all, he had a little physical defect, and the other is that his parents divorced, and he couldn't help after getting married, and his family conditions were not good, and his family lived in a rented place like a place with his father. There is also the general impression of colleagues that he lacks heart, and he thinks that he is always right and no one is right.

I asked him about his ex-girlfriend and he said that he was too much of a dozen, and he got annoyed and dumped her, and he dumped me in the same way, and on the grounds that my family was not treating him well, he turned around and threw himself into the arms of his ex-girlfriend (the one he was annoyed with).

I will consider why my parents think it is inappropriate for me to be with him, and if what my parents say makes sense, I will seriously consider this relationship, after all, my parents have eaten more salt than I have walked, and my parents must be thinking about me.

Hug pants are the main topic. I understand how you feel.

Although children are very close to their parents, when they grow up, they have a strong sense of self, independent will, and different living habits, and they will naturally gradually have differences with their parents, and they will increasingly pursue independence and personal boundaries.

In fact, this is also a normal psychological and inevitable process of separation between Toshiko and her parents and her original family.

Your life experience with your parents as a child is also full of negative memories, so you have some resistance and negative emotions towards living with your parents.

Although we all have to be separated from our parents, from the perspective of our parents, it is difficult for them to accept this kind of conceptual awareness, and they do not necessarily know how to maintain boundaries. On the contrary, as they get older, they become more and more inseparable from their children.

Therefore, since it is difficult for parents to change, we can only adjust our own mentality and emotions to face Hu Min regret it.

1. Reconcile with past parents and childhood life.

Although previous life experiences are full of unpleasant and even painful memories, they are also facts that have passed and cannot be turned back or changed. You can only look forward by reconciling with the past and freeing yourself from the painful shackles of the past.

2. Maintain personal boundaries and bottom lines.

Although the family is close, it is also necessary to maintain a certain personal boundary and independence in order to maintain self and bottom line. For some non-principled things, we can tolerate and retreat, but we must firmly adhere to things that touch the bottom line and boundaries, and know how to say "no" in time.

3. Learn to express yourself.

You have always been very tolerant of many of your parents' behaviors and habits, and you are afraid or do not know how to properly say your feelings and thoughts, so you can only attack your parents outwardly and inwardly with negative emotions, giving your parents a face and hurting yourself.

Learn to express your true self and say what you think and feel. Whether they accept it or not, at least you can express it, vent your heart, and don't have to shake your face, and you don't have to think and attack yourself in your heart.

4. Focus on yourself.

Shift too much attention to your parents back to yourself, live well, develop and build your own network, find and develop your intimate lovers, and then learn to live independently as soon as possible.

Hope mine can give you some inspiration and help. Best wishes

Let others feel that they are not filming a TV series, life is like this

Because the actors in this TV series are very good, they interpret the emotional life of ordinary people to the fullest, everyone can find their own shadow in this TV series, and at the same time they can gain and comfort.

is because the plots told in this TV series are very real, and the love told in them is very close to real life

is because this drama is a classic drama, and the family relationship mode in the play is very real and restored, which is endlessly memorable.

I've watched "Parents' Love" almost a hundred times, why am I still not annoyed? The truth of "Parents' Love" not only comes from being close to life, but also accurately reflects the changes of the times - and this reflection is done in a quiet way.

The story starts from the youth of Jiang Defu and An Jie, and continues to the 80th birthday of Jiang Defu, running through the major periods after the founding of New China. Many nodes of the era have been quietly hidden in the fate of the characters by the series.

For example, at the beginning of the story, the naval political commissar Zhang Luo introduced the young people to the ball, which gave Jiang Defu and An Jie, two completely different classes, the opportunity to meet. And at the end of the story, with the deepening of reform and opening up, China's economy is developing rapidly, and people start dancing again, but the venue has become a park. When Jiang Defu and An Jie danced again, Jiang Defu was still so stiff and clumsy, but An Jie had long been accustomed to each other's informality - the changes of the times, the changes in emotions, without too much explanation, the audience already knew it.

An Jie's sister An Xin married the intellectual Ouyang Yi, at the beginning of the story, Ouyang Yi, as a brother-in-law, was a high school, and his contempt for his brother-in-law Jiang Defu, the old and rough officer, was overflowing, and Jiang Defu's counterattack was also very characteristic, everyone called Ouyang Yi Ouyang, only the uneducated Jiang Defu called him Lao Ou.

Later, Ouyang Yi, who was originally proud of the spring breeze, was beaten as a rightist because of his perverse personality and became a fisherman, and had to accept the help of Jiang Defu, who he looked down on. At a family banquet after the rehabilitation, the change of title also became an outlet for Ouyang Yi to take the opportunity to vent his emotions - he cried after drinking and said, I am not Lao Ou, I am Ouyang. This scene has also become the most classic scene in the whole "Parental Love" - there is no deliberate and long story about the suffering, just a meal, a seemingly unfounded emotional outburst, which shows the major blow to a person's body and mind in a special era.

Ouyang Yi's persistence in salutation seems to be an understatement, but it has a thousand powers, which makes the audience all moved.

Director Kong Sheng also said in an interview in the future that the scene where Ouyang Yi collapsed at the wine table was also the only time he cried in the process of directing this play.

There are many such treatments in the play, such as Jiang Defu's ex-wife Zhang Guilan in the countryside, who only appeared in a few scenes at the last moment, but vividly portrayed the fate of a child daughter-in-law before liberation: she was arranged and manipulated, and she never had an independent personality and free ......