Do you know what to do when you meet such a person?

Do you need a reason for everything, and you need an excuse for everything, so why deceive yourself?

I've met people like this too.

He was too selfish.

Because you're more introverted, and you don't talk about the pain and pain in your heart.

People are good and are deceived by others.

I don't know if it's because people have to bow their heads on the eaves that you put up with him all the time.

He keeps making excuses for you to wait for him.

Why don't you make excuses to reject him?

In order to get me to go home with him from school, he made me wait for him for 4 hours, and found all kinds of reasons for me to wait for him."

For example, what is the reason? You could say you're going back to studying. If you want to go back and do things with other friends or something, in short, the excuse must be true, that is, you are really going back to study or find a friend to play, so that when you reject him, you must be justified, such a person is too selfish, you should not be too afraid of him.

It seems that even if you move away, he won't be angry, because you said that he treats you as a friend to relieve boredom.

Since you want to move out, just say: I have been bothering him for so long, that is, I couldn't find a good house at that time, and now that I have found it, I am embarrassed to trouble him again. I'll talk about this when you really find a house.

In addition, tell him that the house has been found, and let him have time to play with you in the future. This is a polite remark.

Communication is key.

You can say what you want to say when you have nothing to say, maybe the first time is difficult, but the most valuable is also the first time, you may not know what the other party will think, but at least your own psychology will be a little more comfortable.

People don't have to keep everything in their hearts in life, and it will be easier to live by saying what they should say.

It's right for a person to be assertive, but your friend is too much. You're too unassertive, aren't you?

It's a little thing, you can do it yourself. When he finds you and says it, it's good if you say what you want to say, see what he says, he has many reasons, you only need one reason, that is, I have other things, I can't wait for you, it's like buying something, the person who sells things always says it's expensive, and finds many reasons to lower the price, and you only have one reason not to sell to him, that is, you will lose.

1. People are under the eaves and have to bow their heads.

2. Learn to say "no".

3. If you can't bear it, don't bear it anymore.

You can try to communicate with him.

Don't keep everything in your mind.

Maybe he won't be like this anymore.

Just say that you want to go out and live like this, he wants to ask you why, you say that for the convenience of your study, you don't need to talk too much to him, this kind of person bullies people and it is natural, stay away from him, so as not to annoy you.

If I were you, I wouldn't have agreed to wait for him for four hours from the beginning, this unreasonable request can be completely refused, and he can't say anything about you, if you owe someone a favor before, please have a good meal and pay it off completely.

The key is to communicate, and to be tactful in tone.

If it is useless after communication, or like that, then there is no point in making such friends, friends communicate with each other, care for each other, understand each other, if this can't be done, pack up and leave! I don't blame you, he insulted it"Friends"These two words.

It is recommended not to hold back and not say anything, which is not good for yourself, it is better to find time to talk to him, sometimes it is more conducive to solving the problem by opening up and talking about the problem!

I hope you get out of the confusion!!

It seems that you are an insider and don't like to joke, you can ask him; Four hours is not a short time, so why wait. Let him think about it from your point of view.

Make it clear to him that you also have your own opinions, and if he can't understand, it's not suitable to be friends.

You should tell that person what you think, but keep your emotions in check.

You're right! You're just a chatter with him!

Expand your network and communicate with some excellent people.

Too rude and selfish, right?

One trick to help you deal with such vexatious people.

I don't know why you are so unhappy and still live with him, just move out, or study in the classroom for 4 hours in the afternoon, it's not a waste to wait for him to get out of school.