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Anonymous users2024-02-10Do you have a rebellious mentality? It's what other people, especially your family, want to do, whether you want to do it or not, you want to feel rebellious.
In fact, it is also very good to fall in love and get married, love is like a process of cultivation, to see each other with sincerity, to enjoy the process, to understand yourself from another angle, to know more about yourself, to know more about what kind of person you want, what kind of life you want remember to love yourself first in this process, will protect yourself.
Everybody has to grow up (especially at the right age) to enjoy the greatest happiness and growth that this age can have, and it's good, it's happy, and if you actually talk about it, you'll know that a lot of people say that, and that's right, and it's a feeling that can only be said to be indescribable.
Maybe you're afraid of getting hurt, I used to be too, and I'm fine now.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Explain clearly why you don't want to talk about it, it's best to communicate with your family and let them understand you, I think they said it for your own good, and it's best to convince your family.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Is this singleness? In fact, the advantage of marriage is that it will not make you old and helpless, do you want to wait until you can't give birth to say that you are lonely and want to have children, but you can only go to adoption, but the legal age for adoption has passed.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07I don't think there's anything wrong with falling in love and getting married!
2 people getting to know each other can reduce a lot of problems after marriage!
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Do you have a girl you like Big but pursue it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Labor understands you! Buddy! Deeply sympathetic to the tone of labor and management means that we are almost in the same situation.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04I don't want to get married, but I want to fall in love is my personal need, I don't need to talk about it, I understand it, or maybe I just don't want to be responsible, because there are such people around me, in fact, everyone has their own ideas, but this approach is really wrong.
Life needs marriage, first, it is the embodiment of love commitment, which can sublimate love, promote the stability of love, and enhance the sense of security and belonging; Second, in the process of socialization, marriage can bring us convenience in life and allow us to better integrate into society.
If we give up our desire for love and marriage because we see many people getting divorced, it is obviously more than worth the loss. Even those couples who are unfortunate enough to divorce still experience the good things they once were. It's just that in the future life, I didn't manage my marriage well, and then I wanted to get rid of unhappiness or pursue happiness again.
Everyone wants to have a happy marriage, and naturally they will not divorce when the relationship is good. And once the relationship is bad, even if only 20% of the couple's relationship is broken, then the marriage will quietly become a cage that cannot be broken free, which will become a greater misfortune.
Allowing divorce has no effect on people who are happily married, and they do not think that because they can get divorced, they will definitely get divorced. As for marriage, there is an exit mechanism, which is conducive to people's willingness to move towards marriage, making marriage a beautiful and burden-free thing.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03From the beginning, it should be made clear that I just want to fall in love and don't want to get married.
If the other party can accept the two people, they can be together, if the other party accepts that they are blind, it is best to separate and eliminate them, so as not to cause many contradictions and disputes.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02If you don't want to fall in love and get married, here are a few ways to consider:
1.Be honest about your feelings: First, you need to understand your emotional needs and motivations and be honest about your feelings.
If you don't want to fall in love and get married, it may be because you prefer an independent, free lifestyle, or you don't have enough interest in love and marriage.
2.Find the reason: If you don't want to fall in a relationship and get married, consider whether there are any past experiences or circumstances that cause you to think the way you do. For example, you may have experienced emotional trauma or feared that marriage would make you lose your freedom and independence.
3.Identify your values: You can think about your values and life goals to see if they match the idea that you don't want to fall in love and get married.
If you think independence and freedom are very important to yourself, then not wanting to fall in love and getting married may be in line with your values.
4.Develop your hobbies: You can spend time developing your hobbies and developing your talents and skills. This can help you find self-satisfaction and happiness, while also increasing your personal worth and social status.
5.Explore different lifestyles: You can think about different lifestyles and see if there's a way to meet your needs and interests.
For example, you can consider different lifestyles such as independent living, traveling, working, studying, etc., to find the one that works best for you.
The most important thing to remember is that not wanting to fall in love and getting married is not a problem, but a personal choice and lifestyle. Everyone has their own goals and values in life, and as long as you feel happy and fulfilled on your own, your choice is the right one.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01Let's not talk about it, men's thoughts go back and forth like that......
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Anonymous users2024-01-31Falling in love and getting married is the only way to go in life, and not all men are idle.
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