I feel like I m getting more and more inferior, and I m getting more and more extreme

Is it adolescence, in fact, adolescent rebellion and many behaviors are to be respected, teenagers are just entering the time when they need respect the most, and they care most about what others think of themselves, and I also had a period of time in high school, which was very unpleasant, and I always felt that I was not noticed or something.

In fact, everyone has to go through such a process, of course, some people may go through it very smoothly, but some people are lonely when they get to college. It's all for sure. You'll know if you've experienced it.

At that time, I was crazy about playing online games, and I felt that I could find friends to play with, and I felt respected, but in fact, I hurt myself, and now, there are no real online games that are basically gone. On the contrary, netizens who didn't care much about it used to contact him after 4 years happened to be this time he decided to come to the Expo, but there was one less ticket, and I also helped and met each other when the time came.

Getting along with people is a science, in fact, the more important thing is really the mentality, or you read more philosophy books now, "Walden" has talked about some texts before, you can choose to skip and read. The book "The Road to Psychological Strength" also talks a lot about psychological issues. In fact, the family background you mentioned is indeed very important now, including in the future, you will also see that your parents' connections are not enough, and some people who have not given much work are much easier than you because of their parents' interpersonal relationships, and you may get nothing more than you can get by paying a lot.

That needs to be paid by yourself, including friendship, true love (of course, some people don't care, there is no need to be friends for so long), to find like-minded people with you, there must be.

People, be casual, there is a saying, what's the big deal, you just want to think about what others think of you, but think about it, is it necessary? Let's put it this way, if you think like this, you will never be happy and satisfied. It is the least worthwhile to be angry with others about yourself.

Let's position yourself first, what can the environment you live in give you, what your family can give you, don't say what others have that you don't Many things are relative, take a closer look at the surroundings of your life, think about whether your eyes are only on food and clothing, turn your gaze, and pay attention to the small things, what you can do, what you create to make yourself happy, what your parents have given you, whether you have respect, whether you care, what moves you, and what you have given to your parents, whether you are proud, whether you understand, whether you are happy Will you find that you can actually do a lot of it, you have to know yourself, value yourself, respect yourself.

Maybe you're really in the rebellious period, and you will feel very annoyed about many things, and sometimes if you say something extremely, not only your parents feel distressed, but you will also be very sad, and occasionally calm down and think about it, and you will feel that you shouldn't do it, and you can lower your head and take a deep breath after you get angry, and then say sorry in a low voice or help your parents solve the problem.

Talk to your peers more Some things are not as you think you are, the more friends you have, the lower your self-esteem will gradually decrease, the more you dare not speak, the more you can't get out of the circle you enclose Some people will hurt people when they talk But you don't know that you treat her as a friend in your heart Sincerely say that her words hurt you, and others will be far away from him as if he was farting.

Take it easy, others will be patient when they joke, it's all half-truths and half-truths, it's okay to talk about it, go your own way and let others say it! Appearance is secondary, there must be ugly ones in your class who are more ugly than you, and they don't necessarily look good and mix well, the key is to get it with others. Calm and calm, in fact, I don't mix well, just one or two friends, the rest are in a state of acquaintance, my parents have divorced a long time ago, I follow my grandmother and grandfather, not the same lively, I usually don't put a lot of pressure on myself, just like this holiday, homework will be written when I think of it.

There are also cowardly couples, and it's still very big, people say I'm timid, hehe, even admit it myself, don't be anything, just take it easy, depression is not so good, you can read more funny texts. I'm also quite mindful of what other people think of me, and it's nothing.

After reading it, I really don't feel anything.,Hehe, just the dead skin and the face.,The skin has to be sharpened more.,It's like "the bend of the city wall" You're out of the teacher.,I really can't take it easy and divert your attention.,I believe you can step out of this shadow!! Go go come on!!

Everybody has a hard book to read at home, it's not that you look like this, that's it, maybe the people you envy who seem happy are actually miserable, and being poor is not a bad thing, and you have to think about the more pitiful people, who can't even walk, can't live independently, and you can still go out and surf the Internet, right? Seriously, it's good that you can still realize your problems, as long as you learn to regulate your emotions, I suggest you read more books, like those books about psychology, and I've spent this time.

You can feel it, and it means that you want to change yourself. Instead of sitting there thinking, we have to find a way to change ourselves with actions, to give ourselves motivation, and to believe that we can do it. It may also be that you don't know how to communicate, read more books on communication, psychology, etc., and have to say different things to different people, and then you will understand.