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Comprehensive downstairs public opinion,1. It's not too young to put it off any longer. Get married as soon as possible, otherwise, in vain.
2。His sister borrowed money, you don't have to think so complicated. Don't think so simply.
3。Talk to your boyfriend. In the end, who is capable of the current situation.
Let him see the state clearly, and then manipulate the money in a targeted manner. His sister has four cars. There is no shortage of money.
However, it is also possible that the cash flow is not open. Lend it to her yes. But not more.
Leave yourself some way back, right? Otherwise, you two don't want to support your family? Let him deal with the problems of his daughter-in-law and mother.
Can't be biased. You can't listen to one side either. Have your own opinions.
4。Usually, two people get married. They all contribute to the sale of the house and make a down payment. Parents plan a wedding together. Or your parents can negotiate a down payment for you. You raise money for the wedding.
5。Human beings are good by nature. So don't push your boyfriend too hard.
Save face for him in the human field. When you go home to a single place, you have to make it clear one by one. Explain the situation to her clearly, and you save face for him, so he should also fully consider your feelings.
When two people work together, things will get better and better.
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It seems that your boyfriend is a very obedient kind, as long as you are consensual, anyway, the money earned in the future is the two of you, and his parents can't take it away, but from the perspective of parents, it's the same, you meet for the first time, you don't know each other very well, as parents don't want their children to suffer, maybe their thoughts haven't kept up, it's nothing, just understand each other. Home and everything is prosperous, I wish you a hundred years of happiness!
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Separated from his parents. You live your own little life.
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I think you may be overthinking, maybe his sister really needs that 10,000 yuan.
How long ago did his parents say they were going to buy you a house? Could it be that his parents also lent money to his sister, so they couldn't take it out?
27 years old, I think it's time to get married, you can ask your boyfriend when he plans to marry you, if he doesn't have a plan yet, you may need to talk to him to see how to solve this problem.
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1.I don't think parents don't love their children, maybe from a different angle. Don't be too convinced that his parents care more about money than your boyfriend.
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It's nothing, this marriage should be concluded how it should be knotted, and tell his family when to get engaged and get married. There will be no delay.
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It's not suitable, you should find someone who has a goal, sympathy is a mentality, I don't think you can make it, I guess right hehe. I guess I'm right, because after a lifetime of sweating.
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Ultimatum: Hurry up and buy a house and get married, or break up! Go back to your own home, find your own mother, the old lady can't wait!
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Explain that he spent his parents' money.
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Summary. His mother doesn't care about the money I'm afraid the specific situation has been analyzed specifically, and my mother doesn't care about the money, so my father is in charge of the money.
His mother doesn't care about the money I'm afraid the specific situation has been analyzed specifically, and my mother doesn't care about the money, so my father is in charge of the money.
In a family, a father or mother, two people, there is always one who is in charge of the economic power of the family.
Your boyfriend tells you that his mother doesn't care about money, and that the only one who can manage the economic and financial power of the family is his father.
Did your boyfriend tell you about this situation, did he express any thoughts?
Does he mean that in the future, when the two of you get married, he will also be in charge of the family finances?
If he reveals to you that way, what do you think? To accept or to reject?
Or have you expressed that you are good at managing money? Or are you interested in managing money?
Have you expressed to your boyfriend that you can ensure that money can be made in terms of financial management, so that the family's finances can be fully planned?
Of course, it doesn't absolutely mean that there will be women among the two of you in the future, who will be in charge of money? This is not absolute, you can either be together, or you can see which one is better at managing money.
It is necessary to negotiate this kind of thing in advance before marriage, so as not to cause discord after marriage because of the management of economic power, let alone the phenomenon of AA system after marriage.
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Summary. It's likely that my boyfriend's father is more capable, and his mother happens to be the kind of person who doesn't like to worry.
My boyfriend's mother doesn't care who cares about the money.
This is also normal in general, as some people have fatherly relationships in their families.
Boyfriend's dad takes care of the money.
Manage money. It's likely that my boyfriend's father is more capable, and his mother happens to be the kind of person who doesn't like to worry.
In this case, you can find out whether his father is very strong.
It was once a meal with his parents, and the restaurant proprietress said that a woman she knew didn't care about money, and then my boyfriend's mother said that she was like that, and then the proprietress said that men would become bad if they were rich, and then her boyfriend's mother said that it was too troublesome to manage money, and there was too much money to count, and then her boyfriend's father said that she wanted to give her a hundred for a long time, and then his mother was a little embarrassed and said to his father to get out.
Then I said that we don't care about the money, and we can still receive gifts from my husband during the holidays.
My boyfriend's mom doesn't care about money, probably because it's troublesome.
Then his mother smiled and said, "If I take care of the money, I won't be able to receive gifts."
Do you think I'm right to say that?
That's right. Helping his mother out of the way.
No problem kissing.
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I'm glad to answer for you: My boyfriend cheated that he never spent his parents' money, but he actually asked his parents for money, dear, your boyfriend said in front of you that he never spent his parents' money in order to give you a sense of security, let you know that he is a capable person, has the ability to support himself, and has the ability to continue your future, and I don't want you to look at him partially, if you accidentally know, he should now be looking for a reason to tell you, consultation record · on 2022-10-30
The boyfriend cheats that he never spends his parents' money, but he actually asks his parents for money.
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I'm glad to answer for you: Your boyfriend cheats that he never spends his parents' money, but he actually asks his parents for money, dear, your boyfriend said in front of you that he never spends his parents' money in order to give you a sense of security, let you know that he is a capable person, has the ability to support himself, and has the ability to continue your future, and I don't want you to look at him too much, if you accidentally know, he should now be looking for a reason to tell you,
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