My boyfriend has a poor ex girlfriend, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, you don't have to worry too much, it's not so easy to say that if you don't come and go, you won't come and go, and it's really because there is a reason for it, this is not a reason for contact, but the only place where the girl can rely on. She really deserves pity.

    Believe your boyfriend, since he still insists on breaking up after four years, then he naturally knows what he is doing now. He doesn't want to make you uncomfortable, and he doesn't want to do too much to his ex-girlfriend, and he is also very embarrassed, you can try not to care, and let him know that you are empathetic and considerate, and it is inevitable that you will feel uncomfortable, but it will make you get more.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The poor will have pity! Your boyfriend is just her ex-boyfriend, no matter how much she owes, she doesn't have to look for your boyfriend for everything, and no one owes anyone anything about feelings! If your boyfriend is always like this, it is not only him who suffers, you will also be very painful!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Trust him. Let him decide his affairs, this kind of desire to capture and indulge is better for a man than to watch him to death, the person who can watch him, can't look at his heart, if he catches it too hard, it will make your boyfriend feel restrained again, but it is not good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This man has a problem in his heart. The four-year relationship is broken?

    And what he said isn't necessarily true, can you be sure he didn't lie to you?

    Since you can't give up on others, you shouldn't separate.

    Since they are separated, and there are new ones, they shouldn't be so messy all the time.

    Live your own life, leave him alone, alienate him during this time, and let him go if he wants to.

    This kind of man who will only cause you trouble is not worth it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Accept this woman with your boyfriend, become a friend, be generous and trust your boyfriend, help this ex-girlfriend find a home, wait until everything is stable, and cut off contact.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Comfort her, persuade her or ignore her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After all, that girl was in love with us at the beginning, but there was no way to spend the rest of our lives with him. So when I saw my ex-girlfriend walking with other men, I felt so sad and helpless in my heart. There was once a sincere love in front of me, but I didn't cherish it, and I didn't regret it until I lost my leg.

    How many young couples have made the mistake of breaking up because of their youthful ignorance and impulsiveness. When years later I see you holding hands with another him, talking and laughing on the street. This logic is strange and unreasonable, but many people have it.

    After breaking up, I saw that others started a new relationship, and I felt how he was like this, so quickly let go.

    Now you have to understand that she is already an ex-girlfriend, whether she falls in love with someone else or falls in love, it is normal, it has nothing to do with you, it has nothing to do with you, it has nothing to do with you, it has nothing to do with Zheng Qi, and important things are said three times. Most of the reason why people suffer is because they think too much. And some pursuits, although beautiful, cannot be realized.

    The pain lies in knowing that it is difficult to have a result but not willing to give up, still persistently waiting, fantasizing, and seeking.

    It's important to adjust your mindset. Some questions are never answered, and some stories have no ending. When the heart is big, the things will be small, the bitterness will be light, and the sky will be eye-catching.

    Have a good attitude, understand tolerance, and be able to change positions in everything; Good mentality, less entanglement, more objective perspective; Have a good attitude, be more compassionate, and be more lenient with others; Have a good attitude, look at your strengths, and live a happier life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It can only be said that you have not completely let go of your ex, and you still have feelings for her, but you have a new relationship with her, but you have a new relationship with her, and your heart is still entangled, and you can't accept this reality calmly, and you are very sad. That is to say, she has not forgotten her, but she has long forgotten you, and she feels uncomfortable. I guess it's just a little bit more lost.

    Maybe people are selfish, even if they break up, they still want to remember themselves.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A little uncomfortable means that you still care, and you still can't let go of her after the breakup, but since it's an ex-girlfriend and she has a new boyfriend, then you have to let go of her, and you can't keep thinking about her, because she has started a new life, maybe she has let go of the relationship between you, which means that her mentality is better than yours, but it doesn't mean that she didn't love you before.

    So I think the best thing to do at this time is to stop paying attention to her, stop watching any of her dynamics, break it cleanly, and adjust your mentality to get yourself out of this relationship as soon as possibleGo make new friends and get in touch with the outside world, don't be depressed because of a breakup, there are still many beautiful things waiting for you ahead, so don't think about her anymore, there will be no possibility of getting back together at this time.

    However, I can also understand that giving up a person is not such a simple thing, and it is not something that can be done by saying itSo you need to have strong self-control, and if you decide to give up, don't care about her anymore, she has a new boyfriend, which proves that she can also let go of you, also started a new relationship of his own, at this time you may feel that she doesn't care about you, how can you start a new relationship so quickly, butYou also have to know why you broke up, and there must be something that made you get to this pointThe woman may also be too disappointed, knowing that there is no need for your relationship to continue, so she sees it very openly, and she will not be trapped in a relationship for a long time and can't get out.

    So at this time, you should spend more time and energy on yourself, stop thinking about these meaningless things, and do more things that you like.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find yourself another girlfriend, she's just a passerby in your life. If you really can't rest assured, then try to chase her back.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The two broke out of the relationship.

    They are all free people.

    So both parties have the freedom and right to start a new relationship.

    On the one hand, you have to look at this matter normally.

    There is nothing remarkable about having objects.

    On the other hand, you have to be calm.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You've broken up with someone else, and you're still remembering someone else! Why are you happy that others are pursuing his happiness? What kind of vinegar do you eat.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's already divided, don't live in the shadow of the past, I believe that tomorrow I will find the person who belongs to me.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you still haven't forgotten her, you should let go of it, you can renew your relationship,

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since minutes are people's freedom, why don't you find a girlfriend instead!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What are you worried about after you break up, you will have a new girlfriend in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Put away your memories with her and put them in a notebook.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You're looking for a girlfriend and you're going to forget about her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm not balanced, right?! You think she's hers before you find it, right?! Hehe!

    Actually, you shouldn't think so, it's just luck, she just hit her new goal one step earlier. You'll run into it sooner or later! It's just a matter of time or time.

    After all, you've broken up completely, and she's absolutely right to do that!

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