After the breakup, the ex boyfriend quickly found a reason for a very ordinary girl

I'll tell you why, it's because you're popular, you often don't know how to take care of his feelings, others have ordinary benefits, that's a merit that you can't find in you, so to tell you, maybe it's good, think that chasing you more, have a sense of superiority in front of your boyfriend, on the contrary, she is not. In fact, many times when you understand that a person's personality is more important than appearance in a relationship, and you choose a girl with a good personality. Then you will understand what the so-called love is.

In addition, I would like to ask, are you talking about popularity by being popular with boys or girls, and do you think it is popular with appearance or personality?

Because you're too popular.

He can be under a lot of pressure.

It's normal to say that I'm too tired.

Every day worry about whether you will be pried away by others.

And if his appearance is different from yours.

The pressure will be even greater.

Now I feel comfortable looking for someone who looks ordinary.

It's also more relaxed.

Because you are very popular, he must be very stressed when he loves you, and he finds a current one to explain that this current can make him feel at ease and not worry that she will be snatched away by others, it is this man who is afraid.

There are three situations that want to make you regret it. Two want to get revenge on you Three want to try if you don't care about him. I don't have a lot of words, but I'm telling the truth, don't believe the upstairs.

It's very simple, after the breakup, he wants you to see that he is better than you, happier than you, but that's not true feelings.

Men also need to feel safe! You're so popular that he doesn't have self-confidence!

Because he originally liked this type of girl, he went to find it like his ex-girlfriend, and I think it's normal, but in fact, he doesn't necessarily have deep feelings for his ex-girlfriend, but he likes this type of girl.

I know, because men are very emotional, and they also failed the previous girl, so when looking for girls, they will look for the same type.

I know. Because many men will think of their ex-girlfriends when they are looking for a partner, and they will also use their ex-girlfriends as a template.

Because many men have special feelings for their ex-girlfriends, they do this.

Even if a relationship breaks up, it doesn't necessarily mean that the relationship is over. Some people only find out how good their ex-girlfriend is after a breakup, so they may think about going back to their ex-girlfriend and getting back together with their ex-girlfriend. It's not surprising that men fall in love with their exes again after a breakup, so let's take a look at the circumstances under which men fall in love with their exes again.

Some men have a new love after breaking up with their ex, and some men go around and around for a long time after breaking up with their ex, and they have never met the right person. In fact, no matter what the case is, it doesn't mean that this man has really let go of his ex. Because for some men, only after dating a new love, will they find out that their ex-girlfriend is good under the backdrop of the new love.

This is a key point for men to go back and get back together with their ex.

Those good men who only find out their ex-girlfriends after a breakup may regret it after the breakup, and they may be eager to get back together with their ex. However, how can there be so many ways to turn back in a relationship? Sometimes being separated is being separated, and everyone has to pay for their impulsive mistakes in the relationship.

For men, getting a girlfriend is not buying something in the supermarket, when buying something in the supermarket, you can shop around, feel that the next product is not as good as the previous one, and you can also go back and choose the one that you missed. However, there is no such thing as shopping around when it comes to falling in love, and since you have chosen to break up with your girlfriend, you have to bear the consequences of your choice. If your ex no longer has any nostalgia for you, then even if you regret it, there is no way to go back to the past and get back together with your ex.

So no matter who it is, you must pay attention to every relationship, don't treat feelings as child's play, and don't play with the other half at every turn. The words that are said are like water spilled out, and everyone should say the feelings of breaking up for themselves and bear the consequences of the water.

I won't look for it completely according to the ex-girlfriend standard, but I will definitely adjust it according to my ex-girlfriend under my ideal standard. This adjustment may be more inclined to the ex-girlfriend, but it can also be the complete opposite.

may adjust the self-laughing self-smiling according to the ex-girlfriendCriteria for mate selectionPersonally, I think that after a man breaks up, whether he will choose a mate according to the criteria of his ex-girlfriend depends entirely on the depth of the relationship and the reason for the breakup. Suppose two people are in harmony and happy, but due to the pressure of reality and external interference, they have to separate. Then this man will most likely be unwilling and unforgettable.

Even if you know that there is no hope of getting back together, when looking for the next one, you will pay attention to whether the other party is similar to your predecessor, and want to find the warmth and love of the past, and smooth out the scars in your heart. But on the contrary, due to their incompatible personalities, the relationship between the two became weaker, and there were constant contradictions and disputes when they were in love.

And the choice of breakup, there will not be too much nostalgia. will even use this as a lesson, refuse to contact girls who have similar personalities and appearances to their ex-girlfriends, and choose to associate with people who are completely different from them.

No amount of standards can match the heartbeat。Before finding a girlfriend, men have more or less fantasies and high demands in their hearts. And has always rejected suitors with their own ideal standards.

As everyone knows, it's not because the other party doesn't meet the standards, it's just that it's not the person who is excited. When it comes time to actually feel it, these standards are redundant. Personally, I have a deep understanding when choosing a partner.

I used to have my own set of standards, and I liked men who were introverted and serious, and their actions were greater than words. In reality, I was attracted by a lively, cheerful, straightforward and frank man. I also doubted my own vision, but after really getting along, I found that with the nourishment of love, the two people get along very well.

I was completely able to accept the traits that I didn't like in the past, and I even had a new experience.

There is no way to find a partner in full accordance with the ideal standard, respect fate, cherish the feeling of heartbeat, and the best person is suitable.

Yes, of course. Because the male Duan Ruren thinks that his girlfriend is very good after breaking up, but he is unwilling to get back together for the sake of face, he will find someone of the same type as his ex-girlfriend. Hold the boy and dress up.

Not many men find a partner after breaking up, the standard is that the gap with their ex-girlfriends is relatively large, and it is the opposite.

Generally speaking, it is not, and it is okay to meet the right one, and it is not necessarily according to the previous standards.

This is a true story close to me.

That year, under the blue sky and the sun was warm, a 17-year-old girl was riding her bicycle to school and met a boy two years older than her. They fell in love with each other at first sight, strolling around the campus and chatting with each other, and from that day on, they became the best partners in their youth.

However, fate always comes and goes quickly, and after only two years, they have to take different paths because of their respective things. After a breakup, the girl always can't help but think of her first love, and she often goes to that coffee shop because that's where they like to visit when they're together, staring out the window and crying. When her friend found out about this, she encouraged her to reconnect with the boy, and one day they arrived in the same city.

The girl began to reach out to the boy and never let go of her past when greeting him. The boy sensed her complicated emotions, and gradually, the two of them began to talk awkwardly again, and the conversation became more and more frequent and longer. They are more mature than before, they know their thoughts better, and they cherish their feelings more.

Time will not be tired, and years will not fail people. The girl is now an excellent programmer, and the boy has become a successful architect, two years is enough time for them to grow with each other, learn to let go and cherish, and constantly share their life and growth experiences with each other.

Although they have not restarted their relationship, they have always maintained their status as friends, and they still greet each other often and share bits and pieces of life. According to the boy's words: "I once had something that could not be erased, but now she has become a better person, I am very proud of her, and I hope that she will realize her dreams in life." ”