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From elementary school to junior high school, from junior high school to high school, high school to university and even junior college, you will meet new classmates and new teachers at every step, so how can you become good friends with these "strange" classmates?
As the saying goes: things gather by like, and people are grouped. You don't have a common hobby or topic that makes you good friends, as you might like
Student A likes to drink Coke, and you like to drink Coke, so when you are together, you can discuss what Coke is and why you like Coke, (I'm just giving you an example of discovering more topics from the chat.)
You must have a skill (handsome and good at learning) to attract the attention of others, when you overshadow others, the people around you will unconsciously move closer to you, learn well others will depend on your learning often ask you questions, over time will naturally become a good friend who depends on you, so having a skill is a person's way of making friends.
Good words and deeds and morality, communicate with people to be informal, try to help in everything, don't talk too much, simple and clear, humorous and witty, for example: you borrow money from others, try to repay it before the agreed time, so that others have a sense of trust in you. Don't make fun of other people's shortcomings, try to be gregarious.
What you promise to others must be done, or don't just say yes.
Or take an alternative style, so that others think that you are a very different person, in order to attract the attention of others is that the other party has a sense of mystery about you, wants to understand you and become friends with you. However, this method is a bit extreme, and most people will not use this method to become friends with others.
In addition, your family is very rich, "money can make ghosts grind", who doesn't want to know rich people, teachers will sell you three points of thin noodles, occasionally invite people to eat together, invite people to drink. I believe that everyone will unconsciously become good friends with such a person.
The last one is that you are always trendy, whether it is the clothes you wear or the games you play, they are always the latest and most popular, and you will slowly influence the people around you to imitate you. When you reach this point, it proves that you already have a common topic and have gradually become friends.
Rely on yourself in everything, neither humble nor arrogant, and don't bother others with anything, I hope this article can help you and make you have a good time with your new classmates.
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When you start school, if you want to make new friends, you have to get along with your classmates and choose people who share your interests.
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"The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of villains is sweet".
When it comes to making friends, I think the first thing you should understand is what the position of a friend is, whether it is someone who knows and greets people, people who go to and from school and eat together, or people who can stand the test of time and still see each other at first sight and talk about everything. Different kinds of friends require different amounts of time and energy.
There are friends who accompany you through each stage, but the process of making friends is roughly the same: acquaintance, acquaintance, separation; When we get acquainted, we have to consider whether the personalities match, whether the interests and hobbies are the same, when we know each other, we have to consider whether the other party's small vices can accept quarrels and contradictions, whether we can tolerate them, and wish you good when we are separated.
**Come and shoot with your hand.
In general, making friends requires initiative, recognition, tolerance, respect, keeping a certain distance, helping each other, and finally leaving some time to witness your relationship.
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If you don't know how to make new friends, you also need to have a circle to make new friends, such as work, study, and you can make friends. The new friend depends on what kind of attitude you have and what kind of friendship you have. If you can, take the initiative to say hello to the other person, and find some topics to talk about, and slowly become friends.
As long as you are enthusiastic, take the initiative to greet your classmates in the dormitory and class.