What is it like to have a first love?

It is said that the first love is innocent and beautiful, but it is difficult for many people to stick to this relationship to the end, so they have regrets about this relationship in their hearts. After many people get married and have children, their married life can basically be described as beautiful, but there will still be an unforgettable situation of their first love, and they don't know where such thoughts come from, and they feel a little confused.

If a crush is like a person, walking a road with only a glimmer of light, cautious and slightly flustered, lonely but as if the whole world belongs to him, then first love is like two boats floating in the sea at night and sailing in different directions without knowing at which moment.

Everyone will experience that hazy, youthful love dream, love dream. Weave a love story as if there is only you and me in the world, and no one else can replace it. Who knows that the world is like chess, but many people can't go together with their first love to establish a marriage relationship, so they have the word "first love" synonymously.

Human thinking is very complex, and with the passage of time, the tempering of the years gradually becomes a person's inherent thoughts, independent personality. As the so-called radish, green vegetables have their own love. Although he is in love with his wife, deep in his heart, he will touch the nerves from time to time and the beauty of his first love will emerge.

But the reality is a thousand miles of marriage, who knows the true meaning of this sentence.

First love is painful, because each other is in love for the first time, has no experience, and may often quarrel and get angry over trivial things. Because the first love of each other is not very understanding, very young, ignorant state. So much so that sometimes it hurts the other person's heart, and I don't know how to ask for forgiveness.

For example, if you have a crush on someone, you are shy, but you don't know how to express it, this pain is estimated to be more or less experienced by many relatives, of course, except for a blank piece of paper.

I think the nostalgia for my first love is largely due to the fact that life is relatively monotonous and closed now, and there are not many excellent girls in contact. If a person has a closed life and a single emotional life, it is easy to miss his first love. If the richness of a person's life is compared to the starry sky, when there are few stars to see, we will obsessively stare at the brightest star, even if it will no longer shine.

Pay more attention to your career, participate in more social activities, play more sports, make more friends, meet new people of the opposite sex, and discover more of the wonderful world.

When you were having dinner and chatting with friends one day, you laughed and talked about the past, and you said that the person you liked at that time was always good, no matter how many times you quarreled and deceived in the Cold War, you can force yourself to forgive, but after all, the human heart is a thing that is flesh and blood, and when despair forces you to have no way out, you have to wake yourself up, and then your eyes are red, choked up and said, those days may be the most ridiculous and brave in my life, and the hardest days I lived.

I often think of him inexplicably, I think of him when I walk down the street together, I think of him when I eat what he likes, I think of him when I eat what I like, I think of him when I see other couples, in short, everything will have his shadow. Maybe after a long time, you will forget about it.

Hello, first love is beautiful, is pure emotion, first love for me means a kind of beautiful and unforgettable, everyone has their own first love, first love when ignorance, there is a kind of mystery and longing for love. He is the very beginning stage of a person's love germination, and it can also be said that a person tastes love for the first time, so the impression left by the first love on people is often profound, and it will even be remembered in your mind for a lifetime. But first love is not irreplaceable, and many people's final marriage partner is not their first love, which shows that first love is completely replaceable.

First love is unique, this sentence is true, when the first love happens to us, it itself has a sweet charm, and at the same time has a bit of green color. Not only because it is the first time you have really come into contact with a person of the opposite sex, but also because you think that adolescence is the best period for a person, we can look forward to tomorrow without worry, and we can also enjoy today without fun.

Later, no one wants to grow up, and then fall in love after maturity, that is love in the real sense, I think the first love of the first love is not real love. True love is the kind of love we talk about as adults.

At that time, Shanbi also knew how to talk about love, and we were also adults, at this time of love, we hoped to have a good result, hoping to enter the palace of marriage with each other and form a family. So slowly, this kind of love replaces more beautiful imagination of first love. First love has become people's best memories and treasures them in the bottom of their hearts.

First love has three layers.

First, the name is called: heart.

The heart is alive, and the heart is moving for thousands of miles. The beginning of the dust starts from the heart. In our life, at the moment of birth is accompanied by a lifetime of heartbeat, all emotions will go through the heartbeat to prove the facts, so it is the most direct way of expression, human heart throbbing, through the autonomic nerve and control the expression of the heartbeat, autonomic memory.

The beginning of emotions is first love. Because of the ignorance of youth, it is difficult to feel family and friendship. Therefore, the beginning of emotional shaping is the beginning of first love, and the heartwarming memory comes from first love.

Second, the name is called: thinking.

The growth of people lies in the growth of thinking. It can be called memory, knowledge can be named, and experience can be named. But all summed up is a kind of precipitation and accumulation of thinking.

All the frivolity of years ago is a kind of leap accumulation of ideas, and forget about precipitation. First love is like a door to open memories and a stepping stone. Therefore, it will not be forgotten until death, and the dust will linger for a long time.

It can also be regarded as the beginning of a kind of future path, and finally the heart, contemplation.

Third, the name is called: love.

The reason why people are higher than other things is that they have rich emotions, and they also have the accumulation of life and the feelings of thinking. People have emotions, so people live for a lifetime and do not have an empty return. However, when people live, the difference lies in the blending of emotions, and the beginning of emotions is the first love, because of the ignorance of youth, who can speak of family, love, or friendship.

So first love is like a door that opens the door to emotion. It is also the beginning of life.

The feeling of first love is the first love complex (I think so), and the feeling of first love is evocative and even unforgettable. Why? Perhaps because it is an "unfinished" and "unsuccessful" event, it is even more memorable, which is the so-called "Checoni effect".

Western psychologist Checconi has done many interesting experiments and found that ordinary people are very easy to forget the things that have been completed and have been achieved, but the things that have been interrupted, unfinished, and have not reached the goal are always fresh in their recollection. Most of the beautiful moments and scenes in the unfruitful first love are deeply imprinted in the minds of lovers, making them unforgettable for the rest of their lives. This psychological phenomenon can be cited in many ways.

For example, if you have to answer 100 questions in a math test, and 99 of them are completed well, it is that question that stumps you and does not complete it, and you do not come up with an answer. The bell rings after class, you walk out of the examination room after handing in the papers, and the answers with your classmates are correct, and the 99 questions have correct results, and the unfinished question, your classmates tell you the answer. Since then, the unfinished question has been remembered by you deeply and for a long time, while the 99 questions have been thrown out of the sky by you.

In the future, if there is a question that you did not complete, you will never make a mistake again, because it is firmly engraved in your mind.

People forget things a lot! Don't forget your first love!