I like why this girl always has no topic when they go out together

I've been in this situation before, and I don't think I'm a person who doesn't like to talk, but I always can't talk when girls go out. In the end, I thought of a way, that is, you can talk to her about some trivial things, talk about things that are closer to life, if she laughs lower, you can say something funny to her, and the other is that you want to let go, you can tell her about some interesting things that you have experienced or seen and heard, and you can also discuss with her the following recent events.

Say some jokes, but don't say some pornographic jokes at first, so that you can find some topics and laugh at them Collect more classic jokes With girls, don't be too macho yourself, try to show that you are happy and happy to be with her

Then go listen to it**, make games, don't go to quiet places, find your common interests and hobbies to do it together Natural topics are there

Dude, you have to learn to throw around the jade when you speak, and talk to her about something else first, such as what the weather is like today! Did you read the news yesterday? What did you eat this morning?

What are your hobbies? And then we will go into more detail based on these. After a long time, I can't even talk if I want to!

Cultivate it slowly, maybe it's just contact, and you can't let go of each other, and you don't know what to say.

You're too timid.

Don't dare to speak.

If that happens, the girl will leave you.

Do you want to talk together?

Take a look at some of the love stories online! Maybe it helps!

Just because you and the girl you like have a lot in common doesn't mean it's all smooth sailing, and there may be conflicts elsewhere. Just because you and the girl you like don't have much in common doesn't mean you can't make progress. I have always felt that everything should be viewed from the perspective of development and change.

1) Our attraction is just right, but we can't find it.

2) There are few common topics, do you try to understand what she likes, she likes Yishu's poetry, IKEA's home furnishing products, likes simple but exquisite life, likes strange words, and also likes Kangxi is coming. Have you ever taken a little bit of care to try to understand what she likes and then talk to her about what she likes? If the answer is no, then please give it a try.

I think it's too ideal to meet an unattainable love, so since you pursue a girl, you might as well think a little more.

3) There are more common topics, and then what?

It's not a problem that there are few common topics at all, the question is whether you can make some changes to break the ice.

It is very important to have high emotional intelligence, because knowing how to speak will not offend people, so as not to make the relationship between people stiff!

Understand her preferences, then exercise yourself, and also love her preferences, love the house and Wu, and do what she likes, naturally there will be common topics, talk about the weather, say tomorrow's thoughts, and you will find your answer.

You don't need any topics to go to the movies, just watch the movie honestly, take her to more crowded places, don't get along with 2 people alone, there will naturally be more topics, if it's not good, I'll teach you tricks.

What should I do if I chat with a girl I like and don't have a common topic? Start with these.

Don't have too much purpose, just like ordinary friends, take your time to understand, and naturally there will be more and more words.

Which proves that you only like her appearance, and her temperament attracts you.

Of course it will, there is nothing to say about being with someone you like, what do you think you feel.

If it's just for a single girl, then you should like her.

But if it's true for girls...It should be that you are not used to getting along with girls, and if you spend more time with them, your symptoms will be much better.

I'm such a boy, if I talk casually to the average girl, I'm not nervous at all.

You should be very introverted, otherwise the girl you like doesn't like to talk very much, otherwise the person you like won't have nothing to say.

Chat**, talk about literature, film and television, the most important thing is to know what hobbies the other party has, what you have in common, look for topics that can be easily chatted, and talk to each other's personalities according to the situation.

Follow your heart, just beat the leak.

Get to know her and talk more about topics that interest her, preferably both of them. To keep the conversation going, don't stop halfway.

You should be happy in front of the girl you like, and you can say anything. If you have to think about what to say and what not to say when you are with him, then it is not interesting to be together, it is better to be with ordinary friends. Boyfriends and girlfriends must have a common language together, and they will last long if they have something to say.

There are a few such examples, and the relationship with the former girlfriend was weakened because he had nothing to say, so he broke up.

Hey, it's usually us boys who find ways to find topics and think about how to make their girlfriends happy, but now it's the other way around! If only I were that man, oh, what if this didn't happen to me?

There are very few girls to decide! You are very shy, sometimes you are afraid to say the wrong thing, you don't know whether to say something or not, so you are very nervous and can't find a topic.

In fact, there are many topics, and you can associate many other things, such as what you have seen and heard, strange people and interesting things, etc.

Hmmm......It's a tough question. First of all, we must establish our own personal charm, and people should be witty and humorous. Anyway, it's all natural!

If you can't find common ground with her, it means that she is not suitable for you.

If you can't find a common topic with anyone, read as much as you can.

Although I can't teach you anything, I have to tell you that if you really care about her, change yourself appropriately and make yourself humorous, because even the quietest girl will like a boy with a little humor!

Try to understand the girl's favorite hobbies and topics, and ask yourself to cultivate that girl's hobbies, and try to supplement the relevant content about those topics, at least not to understand nothing, so that you don't understand her, you have to talk to her if you have something to do, when she has a problem, and you can solve the problem.

Warm words. My girlfriend tells me every day that I don't have a common language, but I am still very happy to be together for more than two years, the key is to see the relationship between you and him. If she loves you, saying this is to do something to you, and to say something can't complain a little, to make you treat her better; If I don't love you, I hate you, and it won't be long before there are bad signs.

Read the book and say it. It's not as good as your own soft experience, to be honest, a man with experience is like a book that can't be finished, you rely on reading a little topic to say, how long can you last, it's okay to deceive the little girl, and after a long time, the girl will find that you are just a strong outsider. So try to go through something.

If the gap between the three views is too big.

It's impossible to be together.

There are many contradictions.

If you are taking the initiative to chat all the time, and women are not looking for topics, it means that you can't move this and it's not your dish, it's all told to me by the woman who accompanies the circle Q.

Three universal topics teach you to break the embarrassment.

In fact, the question of chatting can never be finished, because everyone's situation is different, and the scheme used is also different. And everyone's questions are constantly being updated. So I'm going to talk about talking to girls.

Topic 1. Abnormal logical chat method.

What is Abnormal Logical Chat? You must know that in our work life, many brothers probably don't notice some very interesting things, they can always bring an atmosphere and effect of an overall ability. Generally, it is not a normal chat method, but there is such a principle in it.

First of all, the premise of using such a method is that you must have a good sense of humor, not that you have to be like Guo Degang. But the most basic thing is that you have to have such a mindset, otherwise how can you have such a playful effect?

For example, in the process of chatting with a girl, the girl may ask you Oh, there are so many beauties in your circle of friends! But that's what most of the brothers said, how can there be, not at all, but after saying this, you will find it particularly embarrassing, because you don't know that you have violated the boundaries of girls, and you have not passed such a waste test at all. Therefore, when faced with such a problem, you can say badly, are you indirectly boasting that you are a great beauty?

Or just admit it, hahaha, it's not much, you're the 101st. Such an exaggerated chat method brings a feeling to girls, which is very novel.

Topic 2. Phishing chat method.

So in such a process, you must know that everyone is curious, especially about things that are closely related to themselves, especially want to understand clearly. Therefore, in the process of chatting, you can first say a conclusion, and then, arouse a woman's curiosity about this matter, and then guide the girl, he will ask you questions, constantly extend more topics, and can express your humor, give you more knowledge.

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The key to not chatting is that there is too little to talk about, and my experience is not rich enough, so I have nothing to share with the other party. There are roughly 3 reasons: I usually don't like to read, and I don't learn some new knowledge in time.

I didn't organize my own stories that were suitable for sharing with others, or I didn't record the good stories I heard. If you don't pay attention to the current hot topics, it is easy to say the wrong thing, it is easy to be cold, and it is easy to end the topic; will not continue the topic, will not change the topic; lack of a sense of humor; You can solve these problems in a targeted manner, and basically you will be able to communicate with the other party normally. Hope it helps, come on!

In fact, chatting is all accumulated in ordinary life. There is a saying that nonsense is the first sentence of interpersonal relationships. Don't think it's pointless to talk nonsense, sometimes you need a bit of nonsense to motivate you.

You can even talk about what you did today, what you came across, ask her what she did today, and then you analyze some questions for her. Or, if someone tells you something, you can change it and tell it to her, and it doesn't matter. Anyway, as you remember, one of the main points of chatting is that there are questions and answers.

When people interact and communicate, they will gradually talk more and more, forming a virtuous circle.

To understand her interests and hobbies, if you have a common hobby, you are not afraid of no topic, such as impurities, movies, stars, clothing or something, you can also tell her what happened around you, it is also quite useful to see more jokes, the main language should be funny, almost.

When chatting with girls, you must first prepare the conversation material, secondly, you must clarify the purpose of your conversation, and finally, you must pay attention to maintaining a sense of security.

About talking points: At this point, first of all, we must understand, what is talking points? I've heard the saying that PUAs are very knowledgeable people, so if you want to be such a person, you must also have a certain amount of knowledge.

That's how to talk to girls, so what kind of knowledge is suitable for you and girls?

These are all things that we can use, of course, this is only a small part, and there are many more, so we will not go into them one by one.

Anything can be used as your topic, such as having a cigarette at hand now: when I was young, I always heard adults say that smoking is not good, and I heard friends say that Yuxi is a good cigarette, but it doesn't feel special when you smoke, eh, does your family smoke?

If you want to get into a deep chat with a girl, here's how to do it:

For example, my teacher often says to me, "Okay, okay.

She often sends me three commas when she finishes speaking, so we can imitate the way she speaks and talk to her (provided that it's on social media) Why do it, it's a little tiring, but it gives her the feeling that it's like she's talking to herself.

2. Elicit emotions and enter the heart: Introduce the story by mentioning something, tell your own story, seek the resonance of the other person, or vice versa. Remember, it is you who is the main speaker during this time, and it is recommended to start with 3:

1 conversation, but then it becomes 1:3.

The ability to chat with girls about the depth of the topic needs everyone's conversation, so I won't talk about it here, but I will share with you the most common: the story of a dwarf and the seven Snow Whites. It's a horror movie!

As soon as I say this name, girls will be happy to hear it, and now there is a girl who asks me to tell her, what is it about? Weave!