Why do friends always feel different when they get together than they think?

Imagination is just to satisfy your senses about something you don't want to face Sometimes imagination can satisfy your vanity, but reality is cruel Now there are always a lot of boys and girls who often complain Why is the book different from reality The book is just written according to the author's personal ideological theme, so that we can calm down on things that are difficult to encounter in life, when we go to read this book, we can think of ourselves as the main character in the book, and let our brains use our imagination as if we have experienced it ourselves But when we put this book down, we have to accept the reality that everybody has their own thoughts, ways of thinking and how they live, because you are you, he's him, and try not to let your brain imagine things, and you should learn to live in a normal way, in a natural way, not to think too much, and to give your brain a proper rest.

We always imagine our friends as we are, and hope that they follow our train of thought Of course, people are different, and of course ideas and practices are different! This is where time is always ahead of us, so-called, plans can't keep up with changes!! Time is always quietly changing when we don't know it, don't always care about your feelings, it's important to communicate with friends!

Time is ticking, and people change as time passes, so when you get together again, it will be different from what you think.

Imagination is just to satisfy your senses about something you don't want to face Sometimes imagination can satisfy your vanity, but reality is cruel Now there are always a lot of boys and girls who often complain Why is the book different from reality The book is just written according to the author's personal ideological theme, so that we can calm down on things that are difficult to encounter in life, when we go to read this book, we can think of ourselves as the main character in the book, and let our brains use our imagination as if we have experienced it ourselves But when we put this book down, we have to accept the reality that everybody has their own thoughts, ways of thinking and how they live, because you are you, he's him, and try not to let your brain imagine things, and you should learn to live in a normal way, in a natural way, not to think too much, and to give your brain a proper rest.

I haven't seen each other for a long time, I don't know each other, and there is no topic to talk about together, of course, it feels completely different, and if I stay together for a long time, this idea will not be adopted.

No matter how strong a man is, he also has a vulnerable side, at that time, it was just because of what happened to him that he had to forgive you temporarily, and now after the incident, he will naturally feel very painful in his heart, not just being cuckolded, just ask which man can endure his woman being like others, and still be indifferent?! No! Even if you are not voluntary, but that will cause him a big psychological shadow, in his subconscious you betrayed him, so he will deliberately snub you, want to talk to you but pretend not to care because of the man's face problem, he thinks that you are wrong, why should he talk to you first, but you, should take the initiative, be positive, let him feel that you are still sad for the last time, sad, in this way, the man will have the nature of pity, maybe it will eliminate the gap between you...

Of course, the above premise is that you still love him and don't want to be separated from him, if not, just break up and have fun!

How many years did your classmate get sentenced? If he is sentenced to prison normally, this is his fault, stay away from him; If not, that's your fault, stay away from him!

He actually minds very much in his heart, that incident is not your fault, your boyfriend does not protect you and care about you from now on, but is indifferent to you, which means that he doesn't love you at all, change your love, he is not the only one who can be good to you in this world. In addition, pay more attention to friends of the opposite sex in the future.

He has a card in his heart, he can't get over, give him more time, usually you still have to care about him, let him know your existence, but don't stick to him too much, give him some space.

It's so sad that I don't think he can take this kind of blow.

He has a shadow psychologically, it's basically impossible for you, break up early.

In Chinese mainland, it is very important to mix people like dogs, have connections, opportunities, diligence and wisdom, and look at their words and deeds. For a long time, things that were widely exposed were mixed in officialdom, and the reason was that they could also speak and have a strong ability to work, which was an inevitable phenomenon.

It has a lot to do with personality, status, etc., and of course your own relationship.

Girlfriends, or iron buddies.

There are many reasons, the first may be that you are afraid of spending money, and the second is the most important, it may be because your current life is not very good, and your classmates will bring you pressure at the party.

It is estimated that your current grades are not as good as others (work and study).

I'm afraid that others will see it all over.

Or maybe you don't know them very well because you don't have to be nervous to meet your best friends.

Yes, it's probably rare to get a party, and you're afraid you'll make a fool of yourself.

I also have it, every time I am nervous to death, the main thing is to get together once and vomit once! No exceptions!

I'm a little bit too! With so many ladies present, looking at you with ambiguous eyes, can you not be nervous!

Nope. It was only gathered the day before yesterday. What are you nervous about, do you want to drink?

You're shy!

Those friends haven't seen each other in a long time.

It's a stranger.

So you're shy when you meet strangers. Normal!

I also think, and those gatherings are really hypocritical.

But pull it down, I'll get together once, regret it once, and be hypocritical.

Don't change back to the original.

What are you living for? Not for them.

Introverts are not good, cheerful people are good. I'm cheerful myself.

Just get used to it, are you as silent as everything else, how much will you talk?

I guess not, it's because you talk less, and everyone is used to it.

They just don't fit in, just get used to it.

People are meant to change, and it's hard to change back.

Just keep it as it is and be confident.

Looking at your words, I don't think you're confident enough.

I like cheerful people very much, people are silent, I said for a long time that no one me, strange boring.

Old friends do not forget, new friends are constant, this is the foundation of life.

I think you can be more silent and open up your conversation when they don't talk much. Being cheerful is a good thing, but being cheerful is not endlessly said either. There is a good saying that "when you see people, you talk about people, and when you see ghosts, you can keep some reservations in your words" when you are with your past friends, and you can say it when you need to, so that everyone always has a topic, I think this will help you communicate and enhance your relationship.

No, it's better to talk more, what we need to do now is to improve the quality of the words, such as being more vivid and humorous. They'll love it.

You don't need to change for anyone, besides, it's better to be cheerful than silent, and it will slowly adapt to you, why should you change, don't let them adapt to you, it's too kind!

Hehe, what's so changeable about this!

Isn't everyone changing?

It's just the degree of change.

Kailang is very good, it's just that they don't adapt to it, and it will be fine in the future, the environment affects people, and Kailang is right.

Of course not, how can you deliberately change your good side for others. It's good to wait for everyone to get used to this kind of thing.

There is nothing set in stone, back to the original, the kind of character is not good, everyone changes with the environment.

Don't blindly choose friends, friends must resonate with each other to get spiritual communication.

I think the most feared thing in the world is distance.

If, when a friend is alienated from me, I will find problems from myself, see if I am not doing well, learn to empathize, learn to be tolerant, you will not have that feeling of loss......

Finally, bless you!

Get rid of this mentality as soon as possible, and don't keep getting along with your friends with this mentality.

Is it wearing soil, or talking soil, if he is snubbed by a friend, then he is not your friend, use your own way to communicate, don't deliberately change, hehe... Be confident.

You can dress up very fashionably, spend more time with friends, and try to do something for others first.

I think there's a difference between people, and if you think you're dirty, that's probably your friends.