Why Daddy Doesn t Understand Me 10

It's not that Dad doesn't understand you, it's because he loves you, maybe you haven't experienced some things now, you can't realize it, the only people in this world who really love you and care about you and will never abandon you anytime and anywhere are your parents.

When you grow up, you will understand that Dad won't let you play with the computer because he doesn't understand what the computer is all about, because he is not from the same era as us! She's just afraid that you will affect your homework, so you can ask your dad to play with the computer! Why don't you give it a try?

Maybe you'll have a fun day!

If you feel that your dad is always in charge of you and you are always annoying to him, it means that you have a very close relationship. I don't know how old you are, if you are a middle school student, this situation is normal, after a few years, the feeling will change, if you are over 20 years old, it is recommended that you talk to a counselor to see if there are some things that need to be adjusted and changed.

Parents don't care about you, no one cares about you.

You'll be like a child on the road, how pitiful.

As for computers, there are real harms, so allocate your time well. Let me tell your dad that in the computer age, you should learn the basic operation of the computer.

However, then again, it doesn't matter if you don't study now, but if you delay your study because of this, it doesn't matter, it's a lifelong thing.

Whether children are good or bad depends on communication and care.

I don't think so, it's just that we don't know much about our fathers. When I was younger, I was beaten a lot! Because it was common to be beaten in the countryside, I was naughty at that time, I didn't like to study, I was often greedy for fun, and I ran to ** wherever it was dangerous, so when I was a child, I always became the target of beating!

My father is also a person who has a hard life, and he lost his mother when he was young! I also don't like to read, this is what my grandfather told me when I was a child, in my grandfather's eyes, my father is a child grinding vertically, and the rural child married my mother at the age of twenty! Twenty-one years old with me!

My mother said that my father didn't hug me much when I was very young, and then my father said that he must have hugged me, I chose to believe it, my father in my memory was very strict, and I also experienced many ways of beating and scolding when I was naughty! And I love to cry, boy! The more I cried, the more I fought, I was also stubborn, I didn't know how to turn and be soft, and I made myself like an enemy with my father.

I remember when I was ten years old, because my family was poor, my parents had to go out to work to earn money, my sister and I boarded at my aunt's house for two years, when I was in the fourth grade of primary school, and my grades were average, but my father never moved a finger to me, and my temper was not small, but fortunately I didn't cause any big trouble, but I rarely communicated with my father!

My father is a pig breeder to support a large family, engaged in this industry for more than 20 years, it is also very remarkable, there was a time when I regarded my father as my idol, because I felt that he could do everything, he could do anything, in short, during this period of adolescence I was a good child in the eyes of others, and I didn't let my parents worry too much!

Because of his poor results in the college entrance examination, he chose to study in an agricultural school, and he came out as a pig, and he didn't spend less money in four years, and his parents were about to get out! And I chose to go out to experience it, do sales alone, my father is also supportive, and in the past few years when I have been running a business blind model, he has been planning my lifelong events, built a big house in the village, and asked someone to help me find a daughter-in-law!

And I can only support myself alone, in the eyes of the village people I am an obedient child, yes, I chose a blind date, got married, had children, formed a new family, and at the same time took the initiative to take on the responsibility of supporting the family, my father is also trying his best to help, and life is passable!

In the blink of an eye, my child is four years old, and my father is over half a hundred years old! I had to serve the old, because I didn't want to work outside, and I wanted to find a pig farm to work, so I followed me in the current pig farm, became my colleague, everything was the best arrangement, let me see a heart-wrenching old father, I can only try my best to help him, protect him, take him, in order to live!

I don't mean anything else by saying this, I just want to talk about my inner feelings, I just want him to be able to do what he likes, maybe I have too high requirements for him, but I will change, I also have to accept the fact that my father is slowly aging, and do a good job as a son! I hope my father will be in good health and have a good job!

I think my dad has more and more prejudices against me now, and so does my mom. I was angry, even though I was lazy and didn't do well in my studies, I felt that I didn't have any dignity in front of them. It's as if they're big, they're right.

My dad always looked down on me, and today because I'm playing with my grandson again, you also know that my nephew has been bullied and scared by me since he was a child, so every time I lean over, he cries when he sees my dad as a backer, so my dad scolds me every time. Today I just went over and played with him.,I know I didn't do that right.,I really tried to have a good time with him.,But he doesn't like it.。。。 My dad started scolding me again, sometimes it's not my fault, as long as he cries after hearing him with me, he must think that I bullied him and scold me.

Today he even said to me, "Without me, you are worthless." "It seems that I am very bad at being a human being, so I will only touch his light.

I never used my home as a bragging rights, and I was angry and talked back to my dad. I really can't stand it, my mother sometimes thinks I'm not good, that's bad, my personality is not good, my hair is bad, my clothes are sloppy,,, I can't stand it, I think my image is very good. My dad always said that when I met my nephew and he cried, he would take the exam and say that I was not good, that was not good.

I couldn't stand my father's contemptuous eyes, it seemed to be a contempt for me, and I couldn't tolerate it.

It was as if I was so small in the eyes of my parents, like a loser. Damn, damn it, I don't believe I can't succeed, I must impress them.

I can't stand their words, their eyes...

Here's a trick for you:

Play the emotional card, complain to your mother, and let your mother check and balance your dad (treating the symptoms but not the root cause) to talk to your dad directly, and say it directly, you criticize me like this makes me feel unconfident, compared to xx's parents, say that other people's parents are encouraging children, this process must not be impatient, let your dad know that you are serious (the effect is obvious).

Confrontation head-on, being criticized, just say sorry, loud, when you say it, you must be expressionless, your eyes wide, and then no matter what your dad says, just be silent, and then walk away directly in 2 minutes, if your dad is a sane person, it will improve a few times, if your dad is more impatient, it is not recommended to use.

Hold a family meeting, at a time when everyone has nothing to do, explain your confusion, say more seriously, say that there is no hope in life now, self-confidence and self-esteem are seriously affected, often ridiculed by people around you, etc., generally after listening to your words, your mother will give you as a strong support, you can say some examples, directly let your dad know the seriousness, deter him.

The good news is that maybe you're not as stupid as your dad or yourself think you are. But the bad news is that, as hard as it is to say, maybe your dad doesn't love you very much.

Father is to bear a lot of family pressure, he is also looking forward to the son Jackie Chan and the daughter to become a phoenix, I think the best thing for you is to use your academic performance to prove yourself, good academic performance is now for you in his heart status of the promotion, for the future is the foundation of your future struggle, think calmly about life.

Play more chess or Go with him, the focus is on playing quietly, and you can go fishing if you have nothing to do.

Patience, patience, out of society.

Dad always frowned, why is this? Oh, so dad doesn't have a sense of humor. I asked my dad to peel an egg, but my dad wouldn't peel it, why is that?

Oh, so it seems, this egg has a scar. Then why wouldn't Dad peel it? Oh, it sees, this egg stinks again.

Then I don't dare to peel it, why is that? Oh, it turns out that I'm also afraid of "rotten eggs". No one peeled this "rotten egg", why is that?

Oh, it turns out that others are also afraid of "rotten eggs". So who will peel this "rotten egg"? Oh, it turns out that you can let Daddy's Daddy peel it.

Grandpa, please peel an egg! I said from afar. "I'm coming!

Grandpa is here. Grandpa is not afraid of "rotten eggs", why is that? Oh, it turns out that grandpa has seen a lot of the world.

Grandpa peeled the eggs, why is that? Oh, so grandpa is bold! "Thank you Grandpa!

I say this sincerely. "No need! Grandpa said generously.

Daddy, this is a good bastard! I said happily. "He's a good guy.

You can't eat alone, I'll help you eat a little. Dad said with a wicked smile. Why did Dad smile and tell me?

Oh, so dad's sense of humor is back! Looking at his father, there were more crow's feet in the corners of his eyes, and he was already smiling, and the pressure of life pressed his shoulders wider, but he was clearly trembling. I've never heard him sing "Why am I always the one who gets hurt, what did I do wrong?"

But deep down in his heart, how could he not have been tired? Dad's smile is really rare. When he relaxes, I will always record this expression in the album and in my heart!

Why is that? "What kind of mood, what kind of age, what kind of joy, what kind of crying. "It's just because of my beloved father.

Helpful for me!

1. Feeling uncomfortable.

I don't understand, I don't understand.

2 It is ethical for us to win the lottery and get a car.

3. Claim the winning car as your own or return it to Cooper.

4 The father called Cooper and gave the car back.