My boyfriend lied to me, but he actually wanted to go out to a bar with his friends, and said that h

Maybe he thinks you don't agree or is afraid that there will be a woman at the time, and you will misunderstand. Such mistakes can be forgiven, and you also give him more space, let him understand that you will not mind these things, let him understand that you will not let him go, and will not misunderstand or anything. As long as he explains it to you.

If there is such a thing in the future, let him take the initiative to explain it to you.

I'm a man. I also often make up panic words to deceive horses.

Any idea why this is done. It's also forced.。。 It always doesn't give us a little bit of freedom.

I have to go home from work. I have to play with you when I rest. Our own circle of friends is gone.

A friend asks out for dinner. If you drink some wine or something, you have to make up lies and lie to lie before you can get out.

If you have time for friends to go out for a drink or something, you have to go along.,I don't want your daughter to go.,You're still angry.。。 Can we not make up lies to deceive you? If you give us some freedom to our male compatriots, can we do this?

It's all forced out by your daughters.

It's nothing, man, he has to go out to have fun after all, don't worry, he will come back to you when he gets tired of playing, you'd better leave him alone, then he'll go even more.

You should give him a little freedom, give him a little more warmth when he is there, and he will naturally be inseparable from you.

Hehe, a common problem for women

Men also need their own freedom, but you should let him know if you are nervous, because men also like their women to be nervous about him, but don't limit him too much, it will be offensive

It's the same to give him freedom, but you'll have to criticize him this time!

It's okay to go out, but lying is a mistake!

You can tell him [it's not that you won't be allowed to go, why are you lying] or something.

Let's see for yourself.

There are many ways to solve this problem, depending on what you think.

In order for your relationship to last, you still need to forgive him. But he deceived you and was not honest with you, which is a very serious problem between the two. If he makes a mistake, he should be criticized and let him remember it for a long time.

So, although you have to forgive him in the end, you have to act angry and angry at the beginning so that he understands that you take his deception very seriously. If he truly loves you, he will try his best to get your forgiveness and promise to be honest with you in the future, then you can give him a step down and forgive him.

No one else can judge for you. Your boyfriend cheated on you, you feel uncomfortable, when the decision is in your own hands, love is all about your own feelings, if you care about him very much, then communicate well, as long as the other party recognizes the mistake and corrects it, if you always linger on it, then you don't have to forgive, after all, love is forced by the will of both parties.

Tell him that there is one and the other, and you also reflect on yourself that when you fall in love, you don't mean that you only have a girlfriend in your life, but also give him some time to socialize with male friends.

You shouldn't forgive him, one is one, but you should also reflect on whether you are too strict with yourself.

Bars don't seem to me to be anything, because going to bars doesn't have to be bad people, so I don't think it's anything. Now he may go to the bar, but it doesn't mean that he doesn't love me, doesn't spoil me, treats me badly or anything like that.

It could just be a habit of his or his playful nature, which is normal, so I don't think it's okay.

Of course, I can allow him to go to the bar, but I don't allow him to hide it from me, because if he hides it from me, I think it is disrespectful to our feelings, a kind of irresponsibility to us. I still don't like him going to hide from me.

I'm not much against going to a bar, because I think everyone loves to have fun. The bar can sometimes release our mood, make our mood more comfortable, and relieve the fatigue of our day. I support him going to the bar, but I don't support going to the bar without telling me!

If you hide from me going to the bar, I still can't accept it. Because to hide it is equivalent to a deceptive nature, and it is a little bit the same as a deceptive nature to deceive you into doing something.

The bar could have been a place to relieve stress. But if he hides it from me, I may think he wants to go to the hotel bar and spend all his time, so I feel that if he doesn't hide it, I can still talk about the past. If he hid it from me, I felt like I had been deceived.

I can't accept it.

I can accept my boyfriend going to the bar! Actually, I think the bar is a messy place, but as long as my boyfriend is in the bar, don't mess around.

It's acceptable for me not to do something very excessive, in fact, I'm not a very tolerant girlfriend, but I'm a girlfriend who is relatively understanding of others.

Actually, I'm definitely not boasting, I mean, I want my boyfriend to have his own space and his own time to do what he loves.

As long as he doesn't do anything to be sorry for me, I'm okay with that, because everyone has something they like, and even if I don't like it, I can't force him to change himself and make him the same person as me.

Everyone is born a single person, they are all different, so we should also respect other people's preferences, even if this person is my boyfriend, the two of us are very close, but I can't do anything to sway his opinion because of my thoughts.

Many times we should also know a truth, that is, don't push your boyfriend or girlfriend too hard, otherwise it will gradually make people feel that you are very annoying.

I feel that it will be very hard to be with you, I need to change my preferences, I need to do a lot of moderation on my own, if you want to go on with him all the time, if you love him very much, please give him a little space.

A boy as a girl's boyfriend, hide his girlfriend to go to the bar, at this time as a girl must be calm, not rash, to ask the boyfriend to hide his own reasons, when the girl hears the boyfriend's reason, if you feel that the boyfriend is hiding his own troubles, then accept it. If the boyfriend just doesn't want you to know and has no valid reason, then the boy must have something wrong to hide from you, and the girl must not accept it.

If your boyfriend has the habit of going to a bar to flirt with a girl before he meets you, and promises you never to go to a bar again after knowing you, and then you find out that he is going to a bar without you, then it must not be forgiven, and he may have only one purpose for going to the bar, which is to flirt with your sister. Don't listen to his explanations, don't listen to his promise that I will never go again, the most important thing between couples is trust, he treats the most important things as child's play, which shows your place in his heart.

If your boyfriend is just trying to socialize with the leader, but he is afraid that you will be worried, so he hides it from you, then it is forgivable, because his intentions are good, just to not worry you, and you have no reason to criticize him.

The same thing, if the motive is different, will not be the same. Different motives lead to the same result, if you don't figure out the motives, make your own judgment, such judgments are certainly not rational, objective, lies are divided into good intentions and bad intentions, we have to learn to distinguish, if your boyfriend does have something unspeakable, not deliberately hiding from you, it is acceptable, forgivable.

If your boyfriend is doing it on purpose, then it is unforgivable, unacceptable, and don't give him a good look anymore.

In fact, different girls have different opinions on this issue, but I can't accept my boyfriend going to the bar without me for the following reasons:

1. The people in the bar are more mixed, it is easy to get hooked on some kind of drugs or alcohol, and it is easy to make friends with a lot of people in society, for a long time, not only do you waste your studies, but also may not dare to ask for money from your parents because you have no money, but to use a high loan, and in the end you can't pay it back, which not only brings a lot of trouble to yourself, but also brings a lot of harm to the family.

2. The noise of the bar is relatively loud, it is easy to hurt the ears, and the most serious ones will cause hearing damage, the most important reason is that the wine in the bar is not necessarily pure alcohol, it may be blended through a large number of chemical elements, and drinking such wine for a long time can harm our body, and staying in the bar for too long will change our mental outlook, which is not conducive to our physical and mental health.

You can talk to your boyfriend about the dangers of going to a bar, and if he loves you, he will follow your advice.

I couldn't stand my boyfriend doing something abnormal from me, because those things made me feel that he was insincere and disrespectful to my feelings. I don't like to be really cuckolded by my boyfriend. If he hides from me to the bar, I'll be suspicious all day long.

And will such feelings last long? Of course not. So unacceptable.

1.You ask this question, I think, it means that you don't want to break up with him yet.

2.It's his fault to lie, but you have to analyze it from two angles:

1) He thinks that if you say it directly, you won't agree, but it's impossible for a man to fall in love and stop hanging out with his friends.

2) You mentioned that you want to play with a girl, in fact, he can take you there, but the nightclub is a more dangerous place, and he doesn't worry about you, but a few big men must go out to play with girls, as long as he doesn't pedal two boats, because you can't guarantee that there will be no opposite sex in your life.

When two people are together, they must be considerate of each other, they can't just ask each other to be good to themselves from their own point of view, and they don't pay anything, and communication is the most important, to grasp their own happiness, don't always lose it to know that you regret it and want to redeem it, if you think about his good, and then also be good to him, what else can't be solved, I hope you are happy together.

It's better not to be with this kind of man! Delay your youth, and not single-minded.

Don't be with him, it's going to ruin you.

It doesn't matter!. Do you know him as a person, do you believe in his character? It's just that I'm afraid that you're worried so I don't dare to say it, my friend pulls it together, if you say it's afraid that your girlfriend will be unhappy, it's a very faceless thing, tracheitis.

If you like him, join him, don't break up easily, don't make trouble if it's okay, let him tell the truth in the future.

Maybe he's lying to you so he doesn't worry you. Maybe he's the real one, and he's hiding it from you. But I think you should continue to believe in him now.

There can be no doubt in love, and if there is, love is full of depression and pain. You should have faith in him, in yourself.

Isn't it a bit too much to trust him if you go to a nightclub Although I understand your feelings, I personally think that it is normal for men to like to hang out with their friends, and it is necessary to go to a nightclub without telling you, do you imagine that if he goes to a nightclub with a friend and then tells you that I go to a nightclub with a friend, can you accept it?

Actually, it's not a lie, is it? Relax! ~

The decision is really up to you - there are many men in the world, and if you are not good, you will change it every day.