I doubted my character all day long, and I began to wonder what kind of person I was.

First of all, I wonder if you think about yourself a lot, and it's repetitive!!

Then I'll tell you, don't worry about that!! The so-called extreme of things must be reversed 1!

You know your shortcomings and strengths, but human nature will make you think about your shortcomings all the time, so that you can't turn this thought around, and eventually kill yourself! 1

Well, who doesn't.

You said that many people have it!! Like you said: I've never done anything seriously to hurt others in my behavior... Now that you know that nothing serious was done!! So what do you want so much for!!

A person's life is about growing, and finally understanding something, everything is an experience, waiting for you to think and discover!!

Since you want to be promoted so much, I tell you, if you are still thinking about it, you will have a problem sooner or later!!

Don't think about it, everything develops naturally!!

Do your own thing!! And I found that you have a slight inferiority complex, and I hope you will integrate into life and study, talk and play more than others!!

This is life!! Remember, be happy and optimistic

Well, if you can look at yourself so objectively, it shows that your mind is still healthy and normal.

It's not that there is an old saying, "I have three provinces in my day".

Your personality, in my opinion, may be in a hurry to achieve results, or a rush to "perform" and want to be recognized by your peers around you. However, they often do things as they wish, occasionally offend the people around them, or cause misunderstandings and frictions that can be big or small.

In fact, there is no absolute quality of character, as long as you don't hurt others or abuse yourself, your character is good.

Well, maybe what I'm saying is a little unrealistic, but I still suggest that you first learn to listen to other people's suggestions, first learn how to listen, remember, you leave your last words to the other person.

The answer is: no.

Look at yourself and show that you want to do everything well.

If you can't face it, it means that you are afraid, and you dare not face it.

Study yourself, you see only a part of yourself.

It's simply your character, and you can only be brave in order to be yourself.

Character reflects a person's heart, it's just that you are afraid.

Definitely not, everyone will have incorrect ideas, some people put it into action, some people dispel incorrect thoughts, as long as you don't do things that hurt nature, you have a clear conscience! If you have a lot of experience, you will have a different view of life, be the most true yourself, maybe others just like you and others are different, don't deliberately imitate others!

Hello buddy, I make the following points about your character:

1. You are good at summarizing your own behavior and understanding your own character, which is completely nothing to do.

2. You may get something from some places that is closely related to your character and destiny that secretly misleads your behavior, 3. Summarizing yourself is too cumbersome and you lose your way.

To sum up, you are completely worried about some meaningless things, why don't you relax your mind.

In this way, people indirectly obtain the truth of being a person through reading, and interact with others to directly improve their character. Everyone goes through both paths. Your formulation is a bit general.

If you set a goal for yourself or look for a role model, I think it would be better.

Your character is evaluated by others, and character is measured by things, do what you should do, do your own good, in order to get praise from others!

It's not serious, it means that it has hurt others, most people in the world hold grudges, but it can't be done without offending everyone.

Excuse me, you are a sign of the Divine Horse.

I often wonder if I'm a god.

There are many times when I doubt that my character is very bad, because many times I will lack self-confidence, think too much, and feel that my ability is not enough.

I've always reminded myself to be confident. You can, you are a little girl who easily integrates into the group, you treat others and others will be bad. So I have been sticking to my good side.

Of course there is, I think most people have a stage where they will question their character and doubt their life.

In the past, I was a person who cared about my friends very much, not to mention sticking a knife in my friends' ribs, but also often habitually taking my friends' affairs as my own business, and I was very concerned.

In the past, I was the backbone of our sisters, and it was not that everyone listened to me, but that I always played the role of the organizer of the party and the maintainer of the sisterhood. When I used to go to school, I would organize a party on holidays whenever everyone was fine, and I didn't have much money at that time, but I would have a lot of fun when I found a small restaurant to eat and sing. My sisters also liked my arrangement, and I enjoyed it.

Later, when I worked, there were fewer and fewer opportunities for everyone to get together, and when I first started organizing, I was able to attend with all of us. With the increase of everyone's workload and their respective boyfriends, when the party was organized later, either this one did not come or that one did not go, so that in the end, the party of five people became an afternoon tea for two people.

What made me happiest was that in the past, I used to celebrate their birthdays, order cakes at a restaurant, and arrange a place for them to sing or have fun immediately after eating. No matter who has a birthday, even if we meet in the evening, as soon as I wake up early, my blessing text message will be delivered as soon as possible. I think it's a natural fit among friends, and I really don't want anyone to remember how good I am.

But when it came time for my birthday, no one took the initiative to organize a party for me, and I celebrated their birthday for many years, but I never ate a cake that they ordered for me. At this time, in addition to the cold or cold, I think the relationship between people should be progressive, in fact, I think too much.

For a while, I questioned my way of doing things, whether I was asking too much, and whether the gatherings I had organized in the past were just wishful thinking. If not, then I have made so much effort for the relationship between friends, I take the initiative to remember everyone's birthday, why is it my turn that everyone is silent.

Now I don't take friends as the top priority in my life anymore, in my opinion, true friends are in the details, those who keep telling me about the deep love of my sisters, I can only deal with the sneer.

Everyone's vision will always spread outward, and for themselves but rarely scrutinized, the so-called three provinces of my body, in fact, we need to often do more analysis of our own character, in order to make ourselves improve day by day, slowly become progressive, sometimes, we will find that we have some problems in some actions on weekdays, even related to character, then we need to analyze thoroughly, see yourself more important than anything else.

I once doubted my character, that was after I worked for two years, a friend borrowed money from me, I really didn't have much money at the time, so I simply rejected her, saying that I didn't have any money to spend, when I saw her disappointed look, I also felt a little uncomfortable in my heart, but I always had to think about myself, so I never wanted to lend her.

In the next few days, the more I thought about it, the more I didn't feel good, thinking that when we were in school before, she also bought socks for me, although it was not a valuable item, but it was also a touching thing, and then at that moment I began to doubt my character, and felt that I was too ruthless, and it seemed very impersonal, so I apologized to her, who knew that she was okay to comfort me, and said that my own things were all trivial, and they had been solved, and my heart slowly let go.

Another thing that made me doubt my character was when I was out with my friends, and we both carried a bag at the time, and her bag was heavier than mine, but I never realized it, and then we had lunch at a restaurant, and she took the bag off and said that she wanted me to carry it, maybe it was just a joke, but I didn't speak, because I felt that my arm had been broken, so I felt that she didn't understand me, and then after eating she carried the bag by herself, I felt that I might have thought too much about it, and I also had some doubts about my character, but with the support of the two of us, I slowly opened my heart.

First of all, don't doubt yourself at any time.

When you feel that anything is wrong, it is wrong, and if you feel that there is a problem with the way you behave in the world, then there is a problem, and if there is a problem, you should try to think about the cause of the problem.

If you find yourself saying something that may offend people, you should think about the situation at the time, why you said such things, and the consequences of these words, no one can be completely right when they do something for the first time, not to mention that it is impossible to completely learn in a lifetime, when you realize that your language habits are wrong, think about the consequences, and then keep these consequences in mind. Maybe every time you think about it, you will have some realization, and when you understand more and more, your personality will be more and more in line with yourself.

Maybe you can't be the best of all, but you can definitely be the right version of yourself.

ps.Honesty is actually someone else's evaluation, and you can't take other people's words to self-examine.

There is a saying in psychology that is to accept yourself.

A lot of things, you know yourself better, don't you know? Don't be too anxious to deny or reject something, feel that something is not good. Isn't it interesting if you just know "what to do" and end up making yourself a perfect wooden figure?

So this is an opportunity to get close to yourself.

It's normal for social reality to make you slowly change yourself unconsciously.

There are many moments that can make a young person recognizable, and here are some common reasons:

1.Behavior and Words: The actions and words of a traveler can clearly demonstrate their values, attitudes, and qualities.

For example, whether they are sincere, friendly, honest, trustworthy, etc. Young people may question a person's actions and words when they are inconsistent with their professed values or personality traits.

2.Ways of Responding to Difficulties and Stress: When a person is experiencing difficulties, setbacks, or stress, the way they cope can reveal their maturity, stability, and determination.

Some people may face a dilemma positively and seek solutions, while others may hold back, complain, or shirk responsibility.

3.Attitude towards others: How a person treats others can reflect their care, respect, and kindness.

Whether they are helpful, concerned about the needs of others, willing to listen to the difficulties and worries of others, etc. All of these can affect a young person's blind perception.

4.Consistency and reliability: Whether a person is consistent with his words and deeds, and who is able to keep his promises and take responsibility is also an important factor for young people to judge a person's trustworthiness and reliability.

If a person is constantly changing, not keeping promises, or unable to trust, young people may have doubts about their integrity.

5.Values and interests: When a person demonstrates their values and interests, young people can better understand their personal tastes, hobbies, and understanding and attitudes towards things. Shared values and interests can increase a young person's recognition of a person.

These moments are not absolute, but only provide a reference. Young people also need to get to know a person better through interaction and observation with others, as well as the accumulation of time.