How can you find a circle that suits you?

1. Let go of yourself, if you are an introvert, you must learn to start letting go of yourself and let yourself slowly integrate into the circle you want to integrate. Get in touch with the people in this circle, believe that the world is kind, and believe that you are slowly improving!

2. Learning skills, everyone has a process from not knowing to knowing, from not knowing to knowing, and never knowing the familiar ......

A circle that suits you must be based on an in-depth understanding of yourself to understand what kind of friends and what kind of circle you are suitable for.

In life and work, you can try to contact the people you want to enter the circle, such as colleagues, netizens who write about interest groups, or some friends around you.

If you are a cheerful person, it will be relatively easier to integrate into some circles! Extroverts will take the initiative to attract friends with similar interests to do things and have fun together.

I remember before, out of the need to add a friend in a WeChat group, through the subsequent communication, and found that everyone is interested in food, after a few conversations, the two of them together to mobilize their friends and surrounding relationships, find a lot of mixed food circles and communities, everyone tastes food together, and occasionally writes about the tasting of food, after a long time, it is also considered to be a little famous in the circle.

In fact, many things are man-made, stuck in their own little world, and they can't see the scenery outside or the people outside. Let go of yourself, learn to communicate and find, that is, as long as you work hard and hard, you will definitely find a circle that suits you and can bloom your own light!

According to your own interests and hobbies, find some QQ groups, post bars, forums and other communication circles on the Internet. Then get to know each other with the people in these circles to see if your interests and hobbies are really suitable for you, and whether you have the confidence to stick to your interests.

If, after communicating with them, you feel that you can really like your interests and hobbies like them, then even if you have a group of like-minded friends on the Internet, it can be regarded as a suitable circle for you.

At this time, you can communicate and learn from them first, and when you are also one of the big bulls, you can create a group that can only be added by people who are attached to it, so that gradually you will gather people with the same interests and hobbies around you, which can be regarded as a circle suitable for you.

If you add it to the exchange, you find that you don't have the confidence to stick to these hobbies or these are not your hobbies. Then look for other things that you can stick to and have the confidence to do. Then get to know yourself first, as above, and then decide if it's right for you and whether you want to develop offline to find a circle that suits you.

It is very important to find a circle that suits your life! The first thing to do is to decide on your career. What do you do?

What do you like to do? And then in this profession, which ones are you willing to do! What are you not willing to do?

We have to find like-minded people together so that we can form our own little circles. In our own small circle, we have our own friends, brothers and sisters, so that we can form our own unique circle culture!

After having our own circle, we will bring out all the positive energy in the circle! For example, we are a running circle, and every Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday we organize people to do some sports, which are very good circles. Here it can help us improve our physical fitness!

Sometimes, we need to build our own cultural circle, for example, we can participate in some poetry recitals, and regularly present ourselves or other people's works to everyone! To perceive the changes in life, taste the warmth and coldness of the world, and let yourself get the bloom and sustenance of the soul!

In general, our classmates or good friends are our circle of life. In this circle, we need to maintain our relationships so that we can live, play and work together! What kind of troubles you usually have, you can resolve them in your own life circle; If you have anything you can't think of, you can also make up for it in the circle through everyone's strength!

The circle of classmates is one of our most important life circles!

If you don't have a circle of your own, then hurry up and create your own circle! The person you like, the lifestyle you like, combined! Then work together to run your own cultural circle, so that you are a group of very hard working people!

As the saying goes, "things gather in kind, people in groups", we are all social animals, therefore, in our daily life, there will always be our own circle, and the circle suitable for ourselves will help to continuously improve ourselves, and in the process of mutual communication, we will constantly update ourselves.

What is a circle, a circle is a group of like-minded, have a common hobby or a common purpose of a group of friends composed of a circle of friends, in this circle of friends, you can talk to them about each other's common topics, you can also work together ** you are interested in current affairs, everyone is together because of the common point. <>

So, how can you find a circle that suits you? First of all, you need to do a basic understanding and assessment of yourself. There are thousands of psychological tests on the market, which can help you better analyze yourself and dig into what you don't know.

Through the evaluation of your relatives and your own feelings, you will come to a relatively accurate perception and judgment of yourself. Understanding yourself can help you accurately identify what kind of friends you need and what kind of circle you are suitable for communication in. The second is that when you get along with friends in the circle, you must handle the relationship with everyone well, and don't dig your heart into everyone as soon as you enter a circle, because not everyone is honest with each other. Therefore, when you are not sure whether the circle you meet is suitable for you, don't trust others too easily, learn to observe more, listen more, and in the process of listening and observing words and feelings, measure whether it is in line with the circle of friends you need; Finally, to find a circle that suits you, the easiest thing is that you are motivated or decadent in this circle, to make yourself more and more excellent in the circle rather than more and more decadent in the circle, the circle that suits you must have the shining points you like and the advantages that are worth joining.

1.Find by interest skills.

For a while, I was obsessed with getting up early, thinking that it was too difficult for a person to change, so I searched for circles through various platforms, and then found an early check-in group in the QQ group. Every morning at 7 o'clock, a large group of people check in by "signing in" in the group, which is counted by a special person, and the last person who does not punch in will be punished with red envelopes. The same goes for the following:

Photography, painting, hip-hop, piano and more.

2.Find out by training.

The training course is a great place to bring together a group of people with similar interests and want to improve, but of course, there are drawbacks - it costs a certain amount of money. Nowadays, there are endless training classes, such as writing classes, English classes, cooking classes, operation classes, etc., as long as you want to learn, there is no class that you can't find. For example, if you like to take pictures, but you can't find a model or a friend to learn and communicate with, then joining a photography class must be the right choice.

3.Assemble your own.

It's not easy to find a suitable circle and then join it, but some small circles can be formed by yourself, for example, if you and your friends and colleagues are foodies, then you can form a foodie circle, and you can go out together to find food and cook food every time you have a break. Or if you are a photography master, you can also gather a group of friends who like photography to form a small photography circle, train them and deepen their understanding of photography.

Looking for a circle is actually looking for rules, people are a kind of social animals, and we have grown up in various circles since we were young. For example: tablemates, roommates, classmates, etc., although it is not a circle of our own choice, we all live according to the rules of this circle.

As soon as I graduated, the circle was scattered, and the rules in the circle fell apart! A lot of people are also completely out of control. Therefore, looking for a circle is actually looking for rules, and looking for a circle that suits you is also looking for the rules you want.

First of all, you have to really understand yourself, understand what kind of person you are, whether you have a violent temper, or a good temper, can you endure things when you encounter them, or can't help it? Only by understanding yourself correctly can you know which circle is suitable for you. For example, if you are a detail-oriented person, then you are suitable for finding a detail-oriented person to make friends, if you find someone from Madahar to make friends, then you will definitely not be used to many of her places, and he will not look down on many of your places, and over time, there will be a lot of conflicts between you.

Therefore, you must truly understand your personality, preferences, goals, and ideals in order to know which circle is suitable for you.

I'm not usually a talkative person, once I thought that I was looking for a friend who loves to talk to me to talk more, but the reality proved me wrong, I followed them, at first it was fine, and then I found that they were so able to talk, I didn't want to listen to it, but the other party was still enthusiastic to speak, I interrupted not to interrupt or not, it was very annoying, so I knew that I was not suitable for people who love to talk together, otherwise the good feeling at the beginning will be slowly consumed. But for example, if I am a lazy person, the circle that suits me is the one who is more diligent in doing things, and I should move closer to that circle, if I still find a lazy and lazy circle, then I can only be lazier. Therefore, the most important thing is to clearly understand what you want, know what you want to understand the direction of progress, and know which organization to move closer to, so as to quickly and accurately find the right circle for yourself.

To find a circle that suits you, you have to give yourself an accurate positioning, such as who are you? What do you like from? What do you have?

It is said that people are grouped by clusters, and different people are not suitable for dealing together. The teacher used to tell us the story of the wolf child. It's a little girl who grew up living with a wolf who raised her.

Every day the wolf eats whatever he eats, and howls like a wolf. In the end, although she was rescued, she couldn't play like a normal person at all. Because she can't speak, she can't even eat like a basic person.

You say that such a person, how can he be with our circle. <>

Some people have always wanted to squeeze into the upper class, envy that kind of life, and want to turn themselves into that kind of person. But you only have an ordinary family background, and you have nothing to do with other people's lives.

I used to watch a TV show that was the daughter of an upstart who desperately wanted to squeeze into the upper class. But it doesn't fit in with the ladies of others, no matter what she says, deeds, or wears, she reveals that she is the daughter of a pig farmer.

I think it's better for her to live before and have her own circle of friends. Those friends are just as kind as her, less sophisticated, and less tired of their own lives.

So I think it's almost as good as finding someone who is similar to you to find your own circle. My friends now are pretty much the same, they're all ordinary people. It's just that the good friends I play with have very good academic performance, but I'm the only one.

My mom asked me a question, and she said that your friends have such good grades, how do you play with them? This is really my own mother.

I have had similar issues before, and I will express my views again today.

For example, I like to play football, I want to find a circle, I can play games, or I want to watch the game together, get together, chat, or find friends who like the same team, these demands are different, and will determine the methods and strategies you use later.

But to analyze this problem from a broad perspective, and to consider it logically, where the circle is, we will go, this is the most basic idea.

The word fit is the core of all our circle search actions, and only you know what is suitable for you, so you also need to consider the four aspects of interests, hobbies, work, and study, and finally look for a circle online or offline according to this point.

Most of the current circles are based on the above four aspects, and there are a large number of people with the same attributes, so through a certain social platform, there is an opportunity to find a circle that meets your own, such as WeChat, QQ, various communities or circles of friends to publish and seek information.

In addition, the circle itself also needs traffic, and new people need to enter constantly, so they will do some propaganda and first-class work independently, so we can basically find them when we find channels for circle publicity. For example, offline event publishing platforms such as interactive bar and activity line have a large number of various types of offline activities, which can also be filtered according to geography, and also support search by keyword.

Then there are very traditional channels, such as post bars, local forums, etc., which can also find some circle information.

Of course, the famous circles don't need much publicity, just pay attention to their official channels, such as Logical Thinking and Wu Xiaobo's Book Club.

Finally, people in the Internet era must have a circle to learn, communicate, and help each other, only in this way can you grow rapidly, make contacts, and do things, and you are bound to be one step ahead!