Why am I still single? Why am I still single?

There are many reasons why I am single, and after sorting out a few points, I feel that it is still difficult to get rid of my singles.

Except for work, I basically stay at home.

Think about your life, in addition to going to work, you go home, you basically stay at home after work, you basically stay at home on weekends, and even on holidays. So home, no party, no date, no opportunity to meet other people, such a key journey, no one knows a few, how can it be so easy to get off the list.

People who come and go are of the same sex, and instinctively refuse to approach the opposite sex.

There are very few friends around him, and all of them are of the same sex, and whenever the opposite sex approaches him, he instinctively refuses and directly rejects them thousands of miles away. I felt that I didn't need friends of the opposite sex, that kind of relationship was too dangerous, and as a result, I didn't have any friends of the opposite sex, and I didn't have any chance to say goodbye to being single.

Not good at words, don't know how to get along with the opposite sex.

In front of the same sex, he is obviously so talkative, and Liang Feng is so free to speak, but as soon as he gets to the opposite sex, he becomes completely overwhelmed, he doesn't know what to say, and he doesn't know how to interact with them. As a result, the opposite sex, which was already so rare and finally met, missed the opportunity because of his own confusion. His own conditions are average, but he has high requirements for his other half.

It's understandable that everyone wants to marry better, or marry better, but only if you look at your own conditions. is a poor man with an ugly job, but he is bent on finding a person with a good family background, good looks and a good career, that stool is indeed a bit wishful thinking, and he deserves to be single, after all, no one is blind.

<> the reason why most people have never been in love with trembling and patience is that they have no self-confidence in the first place; secondly, my own conditions are difficult, and I don't want to affect others; is more ambitious, and has no time to focus on love; I always feel that I am so great, and this is how wrong my youth is to take the hole orange. I think if you don't fall in love all the time, it's still hard to wait for someone who is very good.

Nowadays, many people don't fall in love because they don't have self-confidence, their personalities are too honest and honest, and they don't try to beat around the bush when chatting. The three words of Gao Fushuai have nothing to do with themselves, thinking about the various requirements of the girl to eliminate the group now, even if she has the heart, she is powerless.

Some people dropped out of school at a young age to go out to work, and they received a hard salary of seven or eight thousand a month on the construction site. Most of the money had to be transferred to the family, because the family's situation was not very good. It is precisely because of their own difficult conditions that they don't want to burden others.

Many men and women, whether they are ambitious, don't want to spend all their attention on love. It is more appropriate to use your time in this way than to spend your time on your career.

One of my cousins is like this, almost thirty years old is still single, and he has never been in love. The family kept urging him, but he was indifferent. I always feel that I am amazing, and I have never had a suitable plan not to get married for the rest of my life.

Every single person has their own reasons behind it, and the reasons why I am still single so far, after thinking about it carefully, I summarized that there are three reasons.

1. No time to socializeNo time to socialize, I believe this is a common problem for many single people. For example, I get up early from Monday to Friday to work, and then I face a day of high-intensity work, and I am finally busy until I get off work, dragging an exhausted body, and I don't want to participate in any social activities at all, I just want to go back to my nest early to rest. And on the weekend, either you need to face the can't help but cover the state class, or you want to sleep well, so, just like that, you don't have time to socialize, but you are more and more afraid of socializing.

2. Lack of confidence to manage a good marriage When the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, especially when many celebrities and celebrities are divorced, for single people who have not yet entered marriage, it becomes a question whether they can manage their marriage well. Personally, whenever I see a celebrity who once showed affection divorced, I will be confused about the rush of marriage, I will feel that I have no confidence in managing a marriage well, and I don't want to experience the experience of marriage failure, so I will be afraid of marriage.

3. Worry about not being able to bear the financial pressureMany single people who live in first-tier cities like me will inevitably worry that they and their future partner may not be able to bear the economic pressure of a family trying to gain a firm foothold in a first-tier city. And this worry is not groundless, but a reality. Try to calculate an account, when it comes to marriage, it will inevitably involve a house, but the housing prices in first-tier cities are beyond the reach of us working class, and then raising children after the house is a high-cost problem, so not to mention the car and various expenses in life, the house and children alone have made me retreat from marriage.

The above three reasons are the reasons that I personally think are the reasons why I am single, although it seems to be very sad, but they are also real.

As an older youth, it's mainly because I like to be quiet. The personality is more introverted and does not like to go out to make friends, so it leads to being single at an older age. In fact, there are many ways to solve this problem, let's take a look.

1. Expand the inherent circle and get to know strangers. Many single men and women have a common characteristic, that is, the life circle is very small, two o'clock a day, and they stay at home except for work. Social activities are almost non-existent, and even former classmates and friends rarely contact and see each other.

When your circle is too small, your space for choosing a mate will also become very small, only by stepping out of your own circle, meeting strangers more, and participating in more social activities, it is possible for more people to enter your circle of noisy children. Of course, knowing strangers does not mean going to the street to meet casually, this method is too demanding for people's abilities, and it is not suitable for everyone, the simple way is to expand outward from the field you are familiar with. For example, attending a party organized by a colleague, having the opportunity to meet friends brought by a colleague, or participating in some organizations that interest you.

People who like to read books can participate in some reading clubs, and those who like sports can find some clubs that they are good at sports, so that they have common interests and topics, and it is easier to integrate. Only if there are enough people in your world can it be possible to bring you the right person. A friend met an aunt when she was in a cooking class, and the two took several classes together, and then the aunt introduced her nephew to her, and now the two have reached the point of talking about marriage.

The more people you know, the more information and resources you get, and even if you don't get out of the list in the end, you will gain a lot. 2. People who like people should take the initiative, and people like to give them opportunities. Some people are single because there has always been a person in their hearts who can't forget, but they feel that there is no possibility for the two, so they can only wait and consume, and the result of this is that the years have been wasted.

If you really want to get off the list, you must be brave, don't have too many concerns, get close to the person you like, pursue it, of course you are happy if you succeed, if you fail, at least you have worked hard, and you can also let it go calmly. If you don't try, you never know what the result will be. There are also some people who are single and have no favorite person in their hearts, and they have no goals, but they are just passively waiting for the person who is suitable for self-bending, and the most important thing for such a person is to learn to give opportunities to the person they like.

When someone takes the initiative to approach you, don't rush to conclusions, reject the other party, and don't be too indifferent, as long as you don't dislike the other party, try to understand more, contact first, and then make a decision. Some people may feel that they are not suitable for each other after a few contacts, but some people may not feel anything when they first come into contact, they just don't like or hate them, but as they get to know each other, they can find a lot of surprises.

Being single does not mean that you are alone and helpless, in fact, being single can bring a lot of joy and benefits. Here are some moments when I really felt the joy and benefits of being single:

Freedom: As a single person, I have the freedom to organize my own time and itinerary without having to consider the opinions or needs of others. I can travel whenever and wherever I want, or enjoy my own space at home.

Independence: I can improve my ability and confidence by solving problems independently. I can also live my life according to my own wishes and values, without being limited and constrained by others.

Healthy and energetic: Not having a partner doesn't mean I can't stay healthy and energetic. I can travel, play sports, go on adventures, enjoy the fun of life, and keep my health healthy.

Reduces stress: Not having a partner doesn't mean I can't cope with the stresses and challenges in my life. I can rely on my own strength to solve problems, and I can also seek help and support from others, but in the end, I have to deal with it on my own.