People in the dormitory often use their own things and don t know what to say

Talk to him head-on, let him buy a pair by himself, why do you wear you all the time, or just give him yours and buy a new one yourself.

Let's just say it in a joking way: for example, why do you wear my shoes again, and you are not afraid that I will infect you with athlete's foot!! If it's a boy, say wear my shoes again, I'll tell your wife to go, and ask your wife to buy it for me!!

If the girl's words are reversed, it's fine. And don't be confused yourself, it's a trivial matter, it's really worth hurting your body!!

Give him that pair and buy another pair for yourself.

Through the literal analysis of the landlord, you should be in the upper and lower bunk relationship, I have encountered similar things, there is a way, and the way not to destroy the harmonious relationship between classmates is to pretend to gay, disgusting him to return the other way.

Talk to him well, personal hygiene should still be taken care of.

Throw away the shoes directly in front of him, and then buy a new pair, and say: "The previous shoes are so dirty, now I feel comfortable", although a little ruthless, but if you don't do it ruthlessly, you will continue to be tortured, or you tell him directly, I am a person with a habit of cleanliness, it is best not to mess with my things, generally people with a habit of cleanliness are particularly particular about their habits, you have to show in front of him is a person who loves cleanliness, and make a sharp contrast with him, he will be very embarrassed, Maybe he will become a boy who loves cleanliness and pays attention to personal hygiene.

I used to say it directly to my roommate, and the next time I wear it, I'll say that the slippers are now cheap outside the school, so hurry up and buy them.

When he wore it again, he joked with him and told him not to wear it. Or you have to pay for wearing it again!

You can talk about your unaccustomed habits in occasional chats.

How can there be such a person and he directly said that he should pay attention to personal hygiene.

I don't think there's anything bad to say, since it's in the same bedroom, it can be said that it's an iron buddy, just say what you have, I believe that as long as you show your attitude, he should be understandable. On the other hand, being able to get along together is fate, and there is no need to be angry about a little thing! You say yes, right?

Finally, I hope you can take care of this!

You tell him that these are my shoes, you can buy a pair yourself, you don't like to be clean, and if you wear my shoes, I will get athlete's foot.

You have to find the right opportunity and be very honest with her. And being polite like a friend is a good attitude for her, not a mentality of disliking her.

You can talk to him and find the right opportunity to talk to him about it.

Actually, it's not a pull to use your stuff It doesn't matter if you use some stuff and you don't let others use it and lock it in the cabinet or so on, I'm like that

There are many people who like to be greedy for small and cheap, hey.

There are always some people who are unconscious and like to be cheap. But I'm all putting up with it, and we guys don't have anything to do with it anyway.

As long as it's not too much.

It's still acceptable.

If you try to talk about it in a joking tone, it will have an unexpected effect.

They probably think of you as a good friend. You're too stingy, aren't you?

I'm the same way. I quarreled with them.

This situation is very common among the boys of the student party, and it may have been good for everyone at the beginning, and they used their own personal ones and bought them when they ran out. But one day suddenly, one of them runs out, and then the money may be tight, or it may not want to buy at all, in your words, it is love to take advantage, reach out and use someone else's, use it to strength, anyway, don't want money, you can use it how you want, break through the mental defense, and the second person saw it, and learned, the third person saw it, and learned, and finally everyone learned, bad habits are contagious, and finally they all learned this bad habit. It's a good idea to lock it in a cupboard, but can you open it?

You can't stand others from asking you for it. I think it's better to bring 8 people to talk openly and unfairly, and talk about everything, so that there will be no knots. Put this bad thing one by one, one by one, share personal items, unhygienic, share soap is easy to infect ** disease, and sharing toothpaste is easy to cause oral problems.

You explain the relationship clearly, it's not that everyone can't afford it, but they don't want to buy it, if you don't buy it, I won't buy it, and who will use it in the end. You can't keep making me an honest man suffer. Being together is fate, and we have to leave an impression on each other, and it will be very sunny to recall in the future.

Move with emotion. I believe that everyone will get better. I've experienced this, it's the above method to get it, really, it's funny to talk about now...

It's not okay to lock yourself in the cupboard.

You lock it up a few times yourself, and others won't use it.

The first sentence must be polite, and it is usually "Hello classmates" or something like that.

The report is made within the first time of the incident, and the scene must be protected, no personnel are allowed to enter or leave, and the police must be at the scene to investigate.

Your belongings have been missing for a few weeks, and the scene is damaged and cannot be checked.

Hello If you have your own set of procedures, you will also conduct an investigation, but if the amount involved is not very large, it will generally not be done.

It's normal to lose things at school, but it's generally hard to find, and you can't rely on teachers or others to help you find them, and they're not easy to find, so you can only be careful in the future.

I don't know what you've felt that you've been touched. You can pay careful attention to the placement of things before you go out, and if there are indeed traces of passivity after you come back, communicate with your roommate and tell your roommate that you don't like your things to be touched at will, and you need your consent before using them. If you make it clear that you are unhappy, then everyone will pay attention.

Make some special marks to see if someone has really touched it, in fact, if the item is not very valuable, you don't need to worry too much, and you will have more friends if you are broad-minded.

The next time, he deliberately shouted that there was a thief in the dormitory, and the things were gone, scaring the people who were moving.

It's just a feeling that you don't trust your classmates and are suspicious of others in everything they do, and it's a matter of your good heart.

I've had it too, but I didn't take it to heart since.

Don't deliberately please others, treat your classmates with sincerity. School is a small society, and interpersonal problems do affect many aspects of each student's learning and life. We are bound to deal with the people around us every day, and there will be various contradictions or conflicts between them.

In this kind of conflict, if you want to deal with your relationship with society or other people, you first need to know yourself, which is the so-called "confidant". Extensive interpersonal communication can help you better know yourself, and better understand your connection with the outside world, and meet other people who are related to you, so that you can "know the other". If you can always think of consciously adjusting the relationship between your personal actions and the demands of society, and if you often think about your own relationship with others, you will be able to handle interpersonal relationships more easily.

Because only in this way can we face up to our own strengths and weaknesses, correctly respect the needs and wills of others, so that we can try to avoid putting ourselves in difficult situations. In the process of interpersonal communication, it is necessary to understand and observe the needs and feelings of others, if you can compare your heart to your heart, you will definitely be able to reduce a lot of unnecessary misunderstandings and unpleasant conflicts, which is also an important aspect of maintaining harmonious interpersonal relationships. The desire to be cared for and noticed by others is a need for each of us, and if a person feels that the people around him care about him, he gains a sense of security, and we ourselves desire the attention of others, and we should also think that others have the same needs.

In fact, the more you care about others, the more important you will become in their lives, and naturally he will turn to care about you, and the reaction of friends to your caring behavior will definitely bring you some satisfaction, and when you feel that you are still in the mood to care about others, your self-confidence will also increase. At the same time, if the other party feels that you are willing to accept him, he will have the confidence to associate with you, and the relationship between them will be more harmonious.

I'm a freshman in junior high school, and it's the same when I first get assigned to the dormitory, and others always ignore it. You don't have to please them. It takes a little time for everyone to get along.

Try to communicate with them, and express yourself when you encounter something that you agree on. Don't rush to change dormitories, try to communicate with them first. And oh, be sure to study hard, it's not for interpersonal purposes, it's for your own good.

Whether you adopt it or not, I want you to get along well with your roommate, I've made good friends in the dorm.

Don't try too much to please them, be your own opinion. After seeing the truth over time, like-minded people will definitely come together.

You can sit together, talk to them seriously, talk to them, say what is in your heart, and there is nothing that cannot be solved. That's the best way to go. Of course, you usually don't pay attention to your own reasons such as whether you usually speak.

If that doesn't work, I'd suggest you change dorms.

I had the worst grades in the dormitory, and that's definitely not why they don't want to engage with you. But you have to think about what is the reason for your worst grades, this reason must be found, and it can't be stopped is the real reason why you don't want to take the initiative to associate with you.

Of course, there is a deeper reason in there. It's about cause and effect. This is not easy to understand. Relationships between people are very delicate. Often, if you think about it, you can't get better; I can't run if I don't want to do well. Just go with the flow, don't ask too much, don't worry, just be yourself.

The problem is on your own, and moving out will still encounter such a situation.

Or let yourself be open-minded, some things really don't have to worry too much, especially the roommates in the dormitory, there will always be friction when living together, if you are careful, you are very tired, and a roommate in the dormitory will often become a good brother in life. You still cherish these brothers now.

You can cultivate a bond by adding a common language with them, believing that they don't like having a stranger in the dormitory either.

If you still find it difficult, you can first establish a good relationship with the people in the dormitory who are easier to talk to, and then go to play together, and slowly integrate into the group of four. You're only a sophomore, and you still have to remember.

I wish you a good harvest of a group of good brothers.

"It doesn't matter if they isolate me, but I can't stand the gossip of other people, and I really want to move out, and you tell me what to do."

Please, I'm not afraid of isolation, I'm afraid of gossip. If you are looking for an excuse, you have to find a better one. And "now since my sophomore year, I've been studying and preparing for exams, and they often go out to dinner with four of us, and if I'm not in the dormitory, I won't call ** or send a message to ask me, "It's impossible for you to take the initiative to communicate with others and always think about others looking for you."

Let's take the initiative to talk to others.

It's normal, you have different interests, you just want to find people who like to play as much as you do, and you like to play the same things.

There's no need to be like this if you don't get good grades

Did you inadvertently do something that disgusted them?

You don't deliberately please others, go with the flow

Maybe you've seen your dark side. It's just that you still know. =- =

I'm just like you, I don't know what's going on.

It's okay to communicate with them more, communicate.

Alarm. The police will sentence you to a fraction of the accident, and if you spend 100 in total, you and the other party will each be half responsible. Then you are out of 50

If you hit someone, you have to bear it!

Whoever strikes first will pay!

Go and kill him secretly after a while!

Hey, the brothers in the bedroom are in too much of a hurry.

One day as a roommate, never forget.

Whether it's worth it in your eyes or not, if it's not your own, you shouldn't touch it, you have to say hello in advance, there are many people in school who have that bad habit, that is, they can't allow others to touch their own things without saying hello, they are young and vigorous, and they are easy to be impulsive.

In your case, find an appropriate time for both parties to calm down and talk about it, first take the initiative to admit some of your mistakes, but also sincerely point out the mistakes of the other party, and then show the sincerity to solve the problem.

Strive for a peaceful settlement of disputes.

If this is not the most peaceful solution, consider applying for the help of the police, and then tell the police the ins and outs, let the police judge, and you all have to follow mediation (or not go to the police and go to the teacher).

After all, the brothers in the same bed, why bother so stiff? How many times did it affect the other brothers in the same bed, and how many years later, the impression you two gave to the other brothers was—oh! It's the impulsive animal that fought back then!

It makes it impossible for us to move together in the dormitory - how bad is it? Right.

Break a leg.

Take care of your own stuff, or report them, or warn them not to get too long on their hands.

Or tell them what to use next time.

Well, lock up your stuff so they can't get it, but you've got your stuff taken away, and you can ask them for it back.