The sorrow of not getting it or the pain of losing it, which is more terrible

There is nothing terrible or terrible, there is always a reason for it to happen, since it happened, then face it bravely, since they have left you, it means that they do not belong to you, the feeling of grief and pain, only you know best in your heart, the most feeling, people who have not experienced it can never imagine, others can't help you, only you can help you, the best way is to start a new relationship, use new feelings to dilute the grief and pain of the past, the best medicine for time therapy.

There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love can be happy. The above content reference.

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Look at your own heart. There is nothing to be sad about not getting it. The pain of losing is a little scary.

But oh, have you ever heard that? There is an ending and a process, and even I feel greedy if I entangle it. So, whether it's scary or not depends on your own ideas.

Sometimes it's good not to get it.

Which is more painful, the pain of getting and losing again, or the pain of not getting it in the first place.

Hello, based on what you said about this situation, I think it is more painful to get and lose again. Because if you have never gotten or have not had, then you will only have yearning and longing, such yearning will be a beautiful fantasy in your heart, even if you have not gotten it, but your heart will still retain this beauty. Once you have it, and at the same time experience the beauty of having and some of the happiness you get, then when you face the loss of your heart, there will be a lot of pain and reluctance, which is also the most painful from getting hope to despair after loss.

First of all, I personally feel that this is a very subjective question, because everyone's experience and feelings are different and cannot be generalized.

Some people may feel more regretful about having and losing, because they once had, had beautiful memories and experiences, and now losing it will make them feel very regretful and painful;

Others may feel more regretful because they have never experienced it, they cannot know what it feels and what they have experienced, and they may feel a sense of regret and regret. Stove Wang.

Therefore, the answer to this question will vary from person to person.

If you can't get the sadness, if you can't get it, I will always work hard. Often sometimes, love is not selfish, just be happy, and can't wait until the end.

But the pain of loss, the loss of hope.