Lost 20 in the sophomore year of high school, lost in the second year of high school

It's that you're thinking too much, and I'm going to take the college entrance examination in 2010. Take it easy, in fact, the college entrance examination is not a big deal, you think you are powerless mainly because of your study method, as long as we study correctly, we can easily improve our grades.

There is still time, I feel that I have re-studied for three years in my third year of high school, and I did well in the exam. Quit something, like a computer or something. Make a plan for what to do each day and what improvements you want to make each month. You don't have to deliberately do extracurricular questions, just assign the teacher to complete them carefully.

When you're tired of studying, take a break, go out to breathe, don't watch TV, play computer for fun...

You still have a year to go, and as long as you want to learn during this period, you can learn in many ways, mainly to find your interest and cultivate your hobby in learning.

Actually, I don't think it's very promising--

It's not that I poured cold water on you, high school life is really fast.

By the time you are still hesitating whether to study hard, you are already about to take the college entrance examination.

That's how I am, easier said than done.

Same as me!! I'm also a sophomore in high school now! I've never heard of it in class!

It's too late to work hard! As long as you wake up.

It's okay to start working on it now.

I'm 2011, and I'm going to start too.

Child. The college entrance examination is largely a test of your ability to withstand pressure, so you have to exercise yourself more now, and to be honest, there is no need to think about what your parents and teachers expect (this is an invisible pressure on yourself, on the contrary, you should think more of them as your strong backing and your motivation to move forward). In addition, you should find a time to calm down and think about what you want, what kind of university you want to spend four years in, and plan for yourself.

I always believe that this kind of thing can only achieve good results if the person concerned knows its importance, and of course it is a good score for you. That's right, because after all, it is you who walks into the exam room, faces the test, and faces the exam papers at the end of the day! Come on!!

I hope you will face your studies with the spirit of Ryoma in the Year of the Dragon and achieve satisfactory results!!

According to the point of view of developmental psychology, about 17 years old in the second year of high school, is a critical stage of adolescent development, children in this period have become physically mature, but the psychology is still in the transition stage, so it is easy to produce various emotional problems, the key is that adolescent children subconsciously think that they have matured and can be responsible for themselves, but in fact, you can not fully predict the development of things, so there are various contradictions that lead to various problems.

It's also very simple to solve, the key is that you recognize that the fundamental difference between minors and mature adults is – self-discipline!

So what you have to do is to determine a scientific schedule for yourself, which must be strictly implemented, so as to cultivate your self-discipline and successfully overcome the crisis of adolescence.

Relax your mind! Don't overthink it! Be yourself! Don't be arrogant, you have to think about it, the college entrance examination is coming soon, prove it to others, you can!

Let's talk about getting into college first College can do a lot of things you want to do.

That's because you lack a firm heart, and you ask yourself, do you want to try to change your destiny? Looking at your description above, I don't think you have turned your grief and anger into motivation at all, you want to be motivated is to think about it occasionally, more often you mess around, you don't really come up with actual behavior, you really want to be motivated, first understand what your own shortcomings are, and then talk to the teacher about how to improve, if you know how to do it, it's best, I don't know how to ask the teacher, make a learning improvement plan. It is recommended to read the book The World's Greatest Salesman, write some words of encouragement by yourself, and motivate yourself by shouting slogans every day.

Try to love someone. Giving may not necessarily be rewarded; If you don't give, you won't get anything, and don't expect miracles.

After reading your analysis, I feel that you have a certain level of understanding of your own problem, so why not try to solve it if you understand the problem? You are now in your second year of high school, and it is still so long before the college entrance examination.

In mathematics, I will be proficient in what I can do, and I still have more than 130 points if I put down the two most difficult questions.

Physics, about mechanics, you have to start with analysis, if you really can't draw a diagram (force analysis diagram), when you encounter a force, you can draw a diagram, and you can see it at a glance when you usually draw more for the exam.

Biology, if you look at the table of contents of the textbook, look at each point and draw a table, and fill in which section is about the same.

There is no best way to learn, only the most suitable, I didn't understand this truth when I was a sophomore in high school, I took a lot of detours, and it was too late to understand, you are only a sophomore in high school now, and it is still too late, I hope this experience can help you!

Looking at your description, you know that your heart is very anxious, and you can't improve if you're in a hurry, so learn how to calm down in yoga.

Do you study art? If you learn, I don't know if Tongji wants to take the school exam

Everyone has learning habits that are suitable for everyone, I personally believe that it is very important to do what you like to do, learning, but soon you will find that you have lost a lot of things, but you can never make up for it, personal advice, you should play, you should learn to learn, of course, you should do it in the state you like, when you like to play, don't force yourself to learn, don't force yourself to play when you like to learn, but you must learn to self-control, learn to match reasonably, don't just like to play, or just like to learn. That's a lot of pressure.

Although I work very hard in school, I can't work hard behind the scenes, learning is like eating, it is impossible to achieve good results with last-minute effort, and it must be accumulated bit by bit. You can set a goal to finish the assignment in four days and have parents supervise it, and that's what I did, I've done it.

No, it won't. Rest assured.

Work in the classroom. Play when you need to.

No, it won't.

However, it is necessary to arrange the time for study and rest reasonably.

It is the most important thing in the school classroom, and it is more effective than writing 100 questions yourself, "learning without thinking is useless, thinking without learning is dead", so it is efficient to learn and think at the same time.

Time is squeezed out by yourself. There's no need to just learn and not play at school, just play and not learn at home.

At home, you should also combine work and rest, such as making a plan for yourself, studying in the morning and resting in the afternoon.

Arrange it according to your actual situation.

I wish you all the best in your studies!

The precious time wasted will not come back, and there is no regret in the world to take medicine.

I don't know if you're setting your goals too far. Such a character of yours. I suggest that you study in the future and don't think about your dream goals or anything.

You start by taking the time to make a weekly schedule for yourself and follow the plan every day. But you have to stick to your plan. Divide your time strictly, and then you can tell your mom and let your mom supervise.

Either others force you to grow, or you force yourself to grow.

First of all, you can spend more time with those good students and feel their learning atmosphere. Consciously put a few post-it notes in front of yourself such as studying hard in a conspicuous place. Force yourself to read books and study.

After a long time, you will get used to it. Or plan a **. There is no need to be too strict, and when you get used to it, you can increase your efforts.

Couldn't agree with you more!

You have to understand that there are too many college students now, in fact, in my eyes, only one student and some students with two books can be called college students, those with three books and less than three books, in fact, many of them have not learned anything at all in 4 years, so they can't find a job at all, and they only find the lowest level of jobs, so what's the difference between them and those who haven't studied?

One is the faculty, those schools can't hire good teachers at all, and many people who have just graduated from a bachelor's degree go to become teachers, like in a school, there are very few master's degrees, and the vast majority of teachers are doctors. The second is that the learning atmosphere is poor, it can be said that there is basically no learning atmosphere, even if you want to learn in that environment, you can't calm down to learn. Your parents think that college students are excellent talents, so the people in this circle are very good, but they don't know how big the gap between college students is.

I have a relative who studied medicine, but many of her classmates came out and didn't work in this industry, and others didn't want it at all. Some go to be masseurs. With a salary of 1,000 yuan a month, many people who don't study and come out early to work hard are better than them.

Everyone has their own direction, and "only reading high" is a completely wrong view. Only what suits you is the best. In this way, you will be happy and willing to work hard for it.

If you can get into one or two books, I would suggest you go to college, but if you are going to go to college, I say, don't waste your youth and your parents' money, go on your own favorite path!

As for whether your parents will listen to you, I think communication is the most important thing, as long as you explain the situation to them, explain the current situation of college students, and tell them that your dream when you were in the army is something you like, I think they will respect your choice. Moreover, you should go and communicate with your teacher, he knows your situation best, and you can ask your parents to listen to the teacher's opinion.

At present, the state encourages enlistment in the army in order to solve the employment problem, and those with subsidies can be up to 10,000. In fact, if you really don't study so well, it's really better to do something you like, and you can also reduce the burden on your family.

I just finished the college entrance examination and know that you are confused. In fact, the college entrance examination is not suitable for everyone, I think you are not suitable for which category. In fact, only a few people who have read so many books are really connected with the market, and the market needs more practice and experience, not just theory.

I approve of your approach and wish you an early attainment of your goals.

The parents' opinion is also good, the parents definitely hope that you can go to a good university, after all, the university is the best choice for us, but everything still has to be based on your actual situation, not everyone can be admitted to the university, you know your own situation best, if you think you still have hope, there is still a chance in the remaining year, then try not to drop out. If you really think that even if you are in vain, then your method is still feasible, discuss it with your parents, your parents hope to hope, but when you really face your future, they will still think deeply, listen to your parents' opinions, they have experienced a lot, and will not point you to a detour. Hope come on!

First of all, you need to ask yourself, what is the purpose of studying? What exactly is your goal? How do you want to spend your life in the future?

Although the efforts and sacrifices you make now may not be 100% rewarding in the future, at least you have worked hard, struggled, and many things in the world are involuntarily, we have to adapt to society, and society will not adapt to you, understand? Learning now is only a means to success, you know, if you are so decadent, your future will inevitably be mediocre, are you willing to play? In the face of the unknown future, what we can do is to increase the possibility of success in the future through various ways and pays, I know that now you are a little repulsed and tired of this kind of learning life, everyone is a person from the past, I also understand, but it is better to resist negatively than to be willing to accept, now you only have to adapt to it, into it, although the same is learning, the same is to improve grades, but your learning methods and processes can be unique, you can live more happily than others, relaxed, And get the same return, everything is in your mastery and discovery, learn to enjoy learning, enjoy life, enjoy the excitement of life, remember that before my sophomore year of high school, English never passed, later, with my unique learning methods and different starting points, I scored more than 100 points in the third year of high school, and I passed 120 in the two mock exams before the college entrance examination, hehe, doubled, cow, quite a sense of achievement, and the process is not hard, easy, hehe, everything is in their own control, As long as you don't waste your time in vain, you have worked hard and worked hard, and you will have no regrets in life, no one will blame you, that can only be said to be a matter of luck, but continue to be decadent, first of all, the most sorry thing is of course the parents and relatives and friends who worked hard to raise you, as well as your future family, understand?

Think about it, young man, I hope you have some insights and can live a fulfilling and happy life in the future!