I ve broken up 3 times and now I want to get back together Is it possible?

Updated on amusement 2024-05-26
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Anything is possible. The so-called lovers will eventually become married! You're just going to be in a little tantrum with each other.

    Just like your second and third breakups. None of that is a problem. To be honest, your first breakup, what you did was really not a thing, that was the most dangerous one.

    There should be a good chance that it will get back together this time. Bless you as well. You can see that there is a long time between you.

    It's not easy. Cherish it! At the same time, it also reminds you to play less of this breakup game in the future.

    If you keep playing, there will always be someone who will get tired. At that time, there was really no help.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since you really love it, let's go for it. You will be happy. I believe that it will be reconciled.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't divide it, what point is it?

    Can be together from time to time good yards?

    Why can we be together, not together, but separated.

    Unless the two of you are not together

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Dude, let me tell you a word.

    It is impossible for a person to step into the same river twice, and how many times have you been married, and if you get married, you will do this for the nth time??

    Fun to play?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I have a friend (female) who has broken up with her boyfriend no less than ten times, each time for a day or two, and you try to make it feel like you can't do without her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think if it's a real personality and don't come, it's better to be good to you and her.

    I've got a problem with that, too.

    We didn't say anything, we just kept arguing, and I really didn't know what to do.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Stand! ~!Is that fun?

    You'd better let her go!

    Even if it's your first love, you can't do this to her!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Are you playing?

    It's like a child's house.

    Don't play anymore.

    Forget it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What may definitely become but does not rule out a 4th breakup.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it is an inconsequential reason and breaks up by chance, even if you miss each other after a few years, then most of them will go on according to the previous emotional journey after reuniting, and finally usher in a good marriage. But if the breakup was inevitable at the beginning, that is, one or both parties felt hurt, then if you want to be together again now, you should still think about it, and the "prospects" of your future relationship are really worrying. As long as the other party does not have the idea that you couldn't look down on at the beginning and make you unattainable today, and thank the other party for encouraging and changing himself in extreme ways back then, this kind of reunion can also enter the palace of marriage.

    After breaking up, as time goes by, but the impression of the other party staying in the heart cannot be erased, and meeting and reuniting after a few years is undoubtedly the rebirth of love, life and death depend on each other, and it is inevitable to come together. Although there are many objects between the two parties after the breakup, none of them agree, either physically and mentally exhausted, or bruised all over the body. Both parties are over the age of marriage and childbirth, and they are barely reunited and come together, which has become a pot of rice for the future, even if they enter the marriage, their lives will still be spent in bumps and bumps, or there is no future.

    It is not recommended to get back together a few years after a breakup, but if you still love each other deeply and really have enough courage to love again, then you must think about it when you get back together, whether the contradictions that caused the two to break up have been resolved, and whether the pain caused to each other has been healed? If these problems are not solved, I am afraid that they will repeat the mistakes of the past.

    If you are not equal in the relationship, then you really won't go too far, even if you get married, the probability of divorce is still very high, especially in this world where the pace of life is so fast, few people can calm down and maintain their feelings! It's not scary to break up, it's scary to have another person grab your heart and treat you like a spare tire.

    That's the scariest thing to do. If it is an inconsequential reason and breaks up by chance, even if you miss each other after a few years, then most of them will go on according to the previous emotional journey after reuniting, and finally usher in a good marriage.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is scientifically proven that the probability of breaking up after getting back together with an ex is 97%.

    What probability teaches us is to forget about pain, and of course it's free to do whatever you want.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not too. Because there are very few examples of getting back together after a breakup and then breaking up again, and I have hardly ever found such an example, I think the probability is very small.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Personally, I think that the probability of this is generally more than 80%, because as long as there is a breakup, it means that there is a crack in the relationship between two people.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's very probable, because the problems that existed before will still exist. These problems will still cause you to break up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The probability of getting back together after half a year of breakup is based on the feelings between the two parties, if the feelings of both parties are very deep and the two parties can't leave, then the probability of getting back together is very large, if it's because of the problem, then the probability of getting back together is very low. When men and women are in love, they must establish correct love ideas and values, communicate with each other sincerely, do not hide it, and fool each other and deceive each other, these are all undesirable love behaviors. As the saying goes, "lies will eventually be exposed one day", everyone must pay attention, especially in the early stages of a relationship, and be honest with each other to introduce their true situation.

    In order not to say that you cheated on him (her) in the future, you will also break up because of this, even if the other party thinks that your conditions are not good or so on, it doesn't matter, at least it won't waste time and energy. The most important thing during the love period between men and women is not to be half-hearted, and to have the idea of going forward and twilight, which is a big taboo for men and women to fall in love. At the same time, after determining the relationship between men and women, they must know how to keep some distance from colleagues of the opposite sex or ordinary friends of the opposite sex, because feelings are selfish, and it is easy to be jealous and quarrel, which affects everyone's emotional development.

    I hope you will pay attention to this important point. The third most important point of love is to know how to care and be considerate of the love object, especially in life, to care about each other, to use practical actions to help each other, such as when the girlfriend is inconvenient, but also to care for each other, make some delicious nutritious meals for each other, love breakfast and so on. As a boy, you must understand that girls often need to be cared for and cared for, and boys should take the initiative to put themselves in the shoes of girls to do more practical things.

    Especially when it is inconvenient for girls, they really want their boyfriends to be by their side. Everyone must pay attention to and don't ignore these key details.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is a chance of getting back together after a breakup, but not all breakup situations will have a chance to get back together. The specific probability depends on the specific situation of the two people, as well as the reason for the breakup.

    If you want to try to get back together, you can consider communicating with the other person to see if they have the same idea. You can show your sincerity and sincerity and hope to start over. At the same time, you should also be mentally prepared because the other person may not want to get back together, or there are other reasons why you can't get back together.

    If you don't want to get back together, you can also consider communicating with the other person and telling them what you think and feel. You can show respect and understanding, but also be prepared that the other person may want to get back together.

    In conclusion, when communicating, you should be sincere and respectful, and at the same time, be mentally prepared to prevent unnecessary harm.

    The key is your change, whether you become better in half a year.

    If you become excellent.

    If you want to invite someone out to a get-together, you can say:

    Hello, we used to be so close, but then we didn't get in touch. I'd love to know how you've been doing lately and if you have time to hang out? I want to get to know you again, watch movies, drink coffee, eat, sing, etc., with you, and see if I can make an appointment with you. ”

    Hello, I'd love to go out with you, are you free? I want to get to know you again Watching movies, drinking coffee, eating, singing, etc., do you have any favorite activities or places? We can go together. ”

    Hello, I've been very idle lately and want to go out for a walk, do you have time to hang out together? I want to get to know you again Watching movies, drinking coffee, eating, singing, etc. with you, are you interested? We can arrange a wonderful weekend together. ”

    You can arrange activities based on the other person's interests and preferences, and give alternatives. At the same time, also pay attention to the other person's schedule and don't force the other person to accept your invitation.

    Hopefully, these suggestions will help you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Half a year after the breakup, the probability of reuniting is high. Because two people have just separated, they are in the period of missing each other and reviewing each other, if it is not for one party to hurt the other half deeply, it is very likely to reunite, but I think that the breakup must be considered clearly, because once the breakup hurts each other greatly, even if it is reunited in the future, there will still be a certain shadow, so I hope you try not to break up easily.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The probability of getting back together after half a year of a breakup varies from person to person and depends on many factors, such as the reason for the breakup, the changes in the lives of both parties after the breakup, the communication and emotions between each other, and so on.

    In some cases, the breakup is caused by a temporary misunderstanding or quarrel, and after a period of calm thinking and communication, it is possible to come back together. However, if the breakup is due to irreconcilable disagreements or emotional betrayal, then getting back together is less likely.

    In addition to this, the changes in the lives of both parties after the breakup will also affect the probability of getting back together. For example, if you and your ex have more positive life and work changes, as well as a more independent and mature mindset after a breakup, the likelihood of getting back together increases. On the contrary, if your life has not changed much since the breakup, and you are still stuck in past emotions, then the likelihood of getting back together will be reduced.

    Finally, the reconstruction of communication and emotion is also an important factor affecting the composite probability. If you and your ex are able to communicate openly and honestly and rebuild mutual trust and affection, the likelihood of getting back together increases. But if you can't communicate effectively, or if there are still too many scars and bumps emotionally, then the likelihood of getting back together will be reduced.

    Therefore, it is difficult to determine the probability of getting back together after half a year of breakup, and it needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. If you really want to get back together with your ex, it is recommended that you reflect on the reasons for the breakup before trying to communicate with your ex to understand each other's current situation and emotions.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The odds of getting back together depend on the willingness and effort of both parties, as well as the psychological and behavioral states of each other. If both parties are willing and can accept each other's differences, then the chances of getting back together will be higher. Half a year after the breakup, both parties may already have new ideas or may have different ideas, depending on the psychological and behavioral state of both parties.

    Therefore, in order to get back together, both parties must have the will and strive to understand each other and accept each other's differences, so as to increase the chances of getting back together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When we talk about relationship problems, we must not forget a question of probability. According to my consulting experience over the years, there is a probability of about 60% that it is not easy to get back together after half a year. Because whether it is the feeling or inertia of love, it has been broken from the objective conditions.

    But there is still a 40% probability that it can be reunited after half a year of breakup. There is a saying that I don't know if you have heard of it, it is called the former crying, and the current one must lose. In fact, there are some couples, although they are separated, but it is not an unsolvable contradiction.

    And there is still a primitive attraction to each other, which can actually be reunited after a long time apart.

    And there are still quite a few people here who really insist on saving a person for about half a year, and finally succeed.

    You must know that in fact, saving a relationship is a false proposition, because love is not something you can get through "pursuit".

    Relationship is not a marathon, nor should it be a relay sprint, it is not that you desperately try to take a few steps forward and the other person can return to you.

    The best way to save a relationship is to be yourself.

    In the initial communication, in fact, the probability of instant recovery is still very low. Because the contradiction between the two people in the early stage of recovery is bound to be more serious. It doesn't have to be serious, but it's certain.

    In the early days, we didn't talk much with each other. Most of it is about comfort.

    Maybe it's the first month to occasionally take the initiative to chat with the other party, and talk about it once or twice when there is something ......That is to say, don't look for something if you have nothing to do, talk about something, understand the other party's current emotions with the frequency and scale of an ordinary friend, and let the other party understand their own changes, especially the changes in the relationship and emotional cognition of two people, talk about their joys and troubles, and talk about each other's joys and fears, ** ideals and life ...... of both partiesFinally, let's talk about the reason for the separation ......... each other

    Many people will have a question: is the frequency of chatting several times a month too low, don't chat, but let the other party have no emotional inertia about themselves.

    In fact, if you think about this question carefully, you can understand that if the other party is willing to talk to you, or if you seize the opportunity well, it is natural to talk about your past and why you separated, and you may know the more considerable reasons why the other party separated from you in the first place. At this time, if you can make the other person feel that you have a different understanding of these issues. Even solutions to similar problems and contradictions are given.

    So is your relationship a big step forward all at once? I like you a hundred times at a time, compared to the kind of boredom and harassment that has nothing to do, after chatting three or two times, will the relationship between you enter the ambiguous stage, and can you increase the frequency after that? That's what I often call koi .........The meaning of deep communication.

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