I really like her, but I m in her past, and I want to break up with her, what should I say?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    That's kind of a favorite! Are you adding to her "past"?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Brother, I'm the same kind of man as you, I will also care a lot about my girlfriend's past, others say that we are backward is not to understand us, when a person has experienced a failed love, and then together there is no heartbeat like the original, many things feel different!

    That's why I haven't found a girlfriend at 26 years old now. This doesn't mean that you don't love her, but we belong to possessive people, and liking a woman is completely our own, and this kind of person will love her life responsibly! But we can't care too much about a girl's past, after all, girls are made of water, and they are easily touched by evil wolves!

    The advice to you is: just tell her directly, you said that you want to find a more innocent girl, you are not suitable together, you see how she reacts. If she doesn't make a sound, then you should break up, so that she is numb, and you will not be happy together; If she cries and begs you for forgiveness and says that she loves you very much, then you stay with her, such a woman is rare, has experienced failed love, and still does not give up on true love, stay!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Everyone is not perfect, what has passed is history, and it cannot be changed. If you really like her and love her, then you should think more about how to be with her in the future to be happier and happier. In the past, whether you care or not, she can't change her past, the only thing she can do is how to spend the future days with you, how to love you, how to be happy with you, happy to go on...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What you care about may not be entirely her past, but the impact of past events on the present that bothers you, you can snub her first, test her, and test yourself, what is the state of leaving the other party, think about it after a while, and then calm down and talk about it, maybe there is a misunderstanding or something, you have to be calm in everything.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People often feel that what has been obtained is not the best, and whenever there is an opportunity to pass by, they want to seize it and create a miracle. But real opportunities are rare, and people may only have one or two in their lifetimes.

    Life is a hard journey, we need to trek, can be with you, through the wind and rain, can only be one. Work together with each other in family and career, share joy and success, and bear difficulties and misfortunes together.

    However, what you need to realize is that there will be no smooth road in love, love only has ups and downs, only tribulations, and then it is still flat, and then it can be happy. Only by sharing weal and woe can we recess to the existence of each other and the needs of each other.

    If it's love, it's a false love. Love and hate, there is no right and wrong, there is no gain and loss, in fact, there is no love, so there is hatred? If you love, why hate?

    To love someone is to love his or her shortcomings, strengths, love everything he or she has, and also learn to tolerate and understand each other; Stretching out your hands to have each other, it should be that while owning each other, you should work together with each other to cultivate your family and career, share joy and success, bear difficulties and misfortunes together, and tide over the wind and rain together. In this way, the love between the two parties will last for a long time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I would like to ask lz, you didn't go over?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Mind if you break up with her, it's best to train from kindergarten when you find a girlfriend in the future.

    To be very pure, to have no past

    It's good for you, and it hurts a few girls less

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really like her, and her past is not unbearable, just endure it, a man needs to endure a lot for a woman, and a woman's happiness depends on the broadness of her man's heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love her, like her, don't care about her past.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you care about her past, you don't like her, just talk to her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Everyone has a past, as long as it's good to you now... A long-term problem.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Why does love still say break up? If you break up, don't break the thread, but you know that if you go on like this, you can hurt each other, and your feelings can't be dragged out

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    See what causes the breakup and if possible, it can still be reunited.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love her to the fullest, life is not as long as we think, God does not give us many opportunities, and it is difficult to miss it again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you love each other, don't break up easily, learn to cherish it!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Now figure out her thoughts, if you still love each other, you have to work hard to be together, if she doesn't love you anymore, you should choose to let go, love is not selfish, real love is to hope that the other party is happy, isn't it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    So why break up? Girls、It's good to coax、

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Is it a point, or is it not a point, and if it is, how can it be the same as before...

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Suffer silently, the world seems to no longer belong to you ... Let's be warm to each other and get through the pain together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You deserve it, if you really change, really change, then prove it to him with actions.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Explain the situation to him sincerely.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Let's coax it.

    Guarantee to change the past.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Women? Coax, kiss it just But, how old is the past??? Brilliant for sure

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If it's your original sentence, it should be:

    i will say goodbye to the past from tomorrow!

    The same can be said for this:

    it's time to say goodbye to my past!

    It's time to say goodbye to my past.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    from now on,i bade farewell to my past!

    farewell, farewell, goodbye, never again.

    I think it's more appropriate to use it!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    My dear, if you read some articles or friends next to you, you will find that boys are basically easier to let go of a relationship than girls, boys are more rational, and girls are emotional. I remember a saying that said: love is the spice of men and the necessities of women.

    It's in the nature of men to have such situations, don't dwell on these. It is often the women who are injured.

    In addition, my dear, it's been 3 months since we broke up, it's the end of the relationship, life is going forward, he went out, you have to work hard. The best revenge for a man is to live better, sunnier, and more brilliant.

    Time is the medicine for everything.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    To put it down is to let it go, it's just that you haven't let go yet. From another angle, I let go of you so quickly, and you don't have to be nostalgic anymore, the other party doesn't understand your good, and doesn't remember your past, do you still need to be concerned?!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Maybe the landlord doesn't realize a problem: the personalities of men and women are different, and men will not easily say that they break up, because they will have a sense of responsibility more or less, but once they say it, they can't stand it anymore, and there is no drama; Women always say that they are scattered, but they always want to make amends, and they are returned to him, which makes him laugh.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Love is love, and not love is not love. He's been put down, are you still going to put yourself in a cage?! Look away, learn to let go, and you'll meet your true destiny.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Maybe it's not that he let go, he just wants to heal this wound with another relationship. Feelings are too hard to say.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hehe. That means that you are right, you and her are different, maybe you are more emotional.

    And he is very open, even if you are injured together, it may be you in the future.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Memories have no value

    But memories have a lot of power!

    I don't think you should mind his past with her, even if you do. In fact, the final decision is still made by him, isn't it?

    This is also the time to test the love between you!

    If your love is broken because of her reappearance!

    Then it means that your love is vulnerable!!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    A person's first love is the most unforgettable memory of his life, why can't people who love each other be together?

    If the person is very nice to you, you should smile at this opportunity, everyone has a secret of memory in their hearts, which is difficult to forget.

    I can see that the woman likes your boyfriend a lot, and there is no way, maybe the other party also has some unspeakable hardships. Look at the person you love, but you can't love.

    Your boyfriend is very good, and you shouldn't worry about such a thing.

    Adjust your mindset.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I don't think I need to talk to that girl.

    Because when two women talk about a man, it always gets more and more messy.

    If what I should do now is to give the man time and let him make a choice, of course, after all, you are dating now, of course, you have to take out the power of your current girlfriend, and you can't be convinced, if he finally chooses his ex, it can only mean that you have no fate, since he is not the one you hit, he can only let go.

    I know you can't bear it, but let it go and give other men a chance to love you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Sister, from your point of view, you should really find a way to help you save this relationship, because you can see that you care about him very much, but many things, especially feelings, are not enough to work hard alone.

    From the perspective of a bystander, I will help you analyze it: First of all, I don't approve of you talking to that girl, do you want to ask her how she can leave your boyfriend or tell her to wish them happiness? It's not a rational choice, you're a very kind girl, you don't want to hurt others, but when someone hurts you, you don't want to fight back, you just want to do your best to minimize the damage to yourself, think about it, now your boyfriend doesn't part with you because he feels unfair to you and wants to be responsible for you, or is it really because he loves you? And I think the answer is very clear to you, it's just that you don't want to face reality.

    And then about them, do you know why that girl disappeared, because she had a new relationship, because she was hiding from your boyfriend, or did she really have a last resort? But I think if two people really love each other, even if something happens, it won't disappear for half a year, at least she is not very sincere in her feelings for your boyfriend, and now it appears again, her purpose is to only be your boyfriend's good friend, or do you want to reconcile with him, you better understand this question as well, the only way you can do it now is to have a good talk with your boyfriend, let him know that if the girl really loved him, he wouldn't have disappeared in the first place, let him know that you are more sincere than her, if you can feel that they are still in love, then don't waste your efforts There will be a better life in the future and someone who is more suitable for you Remember a sentence Barely come anything is boring The only person who helps you is yourself Smart people know how to let go This will leave a good impression on him At least he knows that he owes you But if you just love him Don't want to lose him and blindly possess him Do you think there will be any good results in a love that doesn't get your heart Don't end up branding a crime that delays him The result will still be lost Ask your boyfriend Is it love you or is responsible for you Also ask yourself Do you want someone who loves you or someone who is just responsible for you.

    Don't be sad Time will be the best way to heal I have tried to be sad countless times In the end, the more frustrated I am, when I have experienced all the sadness, I will not be hurt again When I know how to put my mind at peace, I have got the love that really belongs to me So now, I can calmly answer questions for many friends who have love troubles here, I hope to help you.

    Remember, no one deserves your grief and the only one who can hurt you is yourself.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    What to talk about? If you don't want to give up, let the man choose. If he loses, then he is not worthy of your love.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Cherishing is not a comparison with the present nor nostalgia for the old, but a true feeling in the heart.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think it's better for him to give up if his heart is not on you!

    You're dragging all three of you like this, it's painful!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    They are in the past, and you are his present and future, grasp.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Let the man make the choice.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If your man really misses that woman in his heart, I suggest you break up The twisted melon is not sweet.

    What's the point of talking to that woman is mainly about who your man values in his heart.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You're so pathetic, I think that woman is too good.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You can't give him happiness, but I can, I don't know the reason for your separation, but I know the reason why I'm together.

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