How should I live in the future, how should I live?

It's hard for you to have a child, but fortunately, you're 16 years old.

There will never be anyone who can replace the position of your mother, but it seems that your stepmother is okay with you, and you can only accept the reality. You must not close yourself off, communicate more with your family, including your father and stepmother, mother and stepfather, because they are not very old, and there is still a long way to go in the future, and their two families are going to exist for a long time, so you have to try to accept these two families, as long as you are willing to take the initiative to communicate, everyone will like you, because it can be seen that you are a good child who is sensible.

You just let it go, as long as your stepmother is okay with you, you also try to kiss her, maybe you will find out that she is actually a good mother, you can also recognize your own mother, although you are not together, but your mother's heart will always love you, right, although your mother is not by your side, but she hopes that you will grow up healthy and happy, and I don't want to affect you because of their affairs. Don't be upset. Laugh at everyone, laugh at every day.

The most painful thing about the divorce of parents is the children, not that the life is hard, the key is the pain in the heart. "It's going to rain, my mother is going to get married" This is a reality that people can't change, you still try to ease the relationship between you and your stepmother, your relationship with her is good, she will care more about you in life, and at the same time will repair the pain in your heart. You have to study hard, strive to be self-reliant as soon as possible, and realize yourself.

Although you are only 16 years old, you should be able to face a lot of things, face them bravely, according to your meaning, your current parents still love you, you are still happy! If you think about those children who don't have parents, aren't you much happier than them? So I want to open up a little bit and face each day with a smile.

Since something happened, you have to face it, don't run away, although your mother is still your own mother, if your current mother is not bad to you, then you have to try to get along, if it's not good, then go to the natural schedule. I hope you get out of this situation soon.

You can offer to kiss your mother, and I think it's better for girls to follow their mother, unless your stepmother is very nice to you, then you can try to accept her. Maybe she also likes you in her heart, you can try to treat her as a relative

There is a play called"Who said I don't care"You can take a look. Alas. Don't say anything, the Ijing upstairs says so much.

Always running away is not the way to go, as the first floor said. What to do, it's up to you, best wishes!Trust you to do it.

Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life

What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing. Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much. You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm! I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself!

In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely. So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened?

Is that right? For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life? In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it. Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life!

Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired. There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made!

So much to the point. You should work harder to face life. Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :)

What am I going to do? The ex doesn't believe that you can change what to do?

You need to overcome your fears.

If you want two people to get along well, the most important thing is to understand each other, don't always be self-centered, don't consider each other's feelings, this is the biggest difficulty in the development process of two people, so thinking about what the other party thinks, thinking more about each other, is the way for two people to get along. Jujube excited.

As long as your heart is full of sunshine, you can use your own line of action to infect others, and life will get better day by day, you have to believe in yourself. If you still can't find the sunshine, then read some inspirational books, where I believe you can find your true soul home.

Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because he has been injured, he will be friends if he does not cheat; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.

What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what your stool tribe really engraves in their hearts.

There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

For those who don't love themselves, what they need most is to understand the disadvantages of dates, give up and bless. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

I've also played games and know that once you're addicted to it, it's hard to get back on track without a lot of determination or help from outside forces.

It is recommended that the landlord should first regularize the rhythm of life, go to bed early and get up early, take 30 minutes to go out for a walk every night, and take 30 minutes to read a book in the morning to maintain a happy mood;

Secondly, be confident, if you don't believe in yourself, who still believes in yourself? If you encounter a problem that you don't understand in your homework, you must read the question carefully three times, think about it carefully, you can generally do it yourself, you really can't do it, ask others the next day, and you must not be ashamed to consult others. The process of asking people is also a process of communicating with other students.

We must regain the confidence to score 90 points back then.

Again, it is recommended that you find a classmate with better grades, pay more attention to how she arranges her time, and think more about problems when you encounter them.

Finally, I wish the landlord to return to the right track as soon as possible, succeed in his studies, and return to the university as a beauty

Don't be discouraged, drop the computer first, it's okay to be reluctant to sell it, in short, don't play the first step and succeed. Be a tough guy, defeat yourself, and you will have no enemies.

I'm doing that too,

In fact, life is struggle and harvest, life is short, life should have a suitable goal, people always have to be a little spiritual, no matter what they do, they always have to make a difference. Life should be colorful. It should be:

Constant searching, constant pursuit, continuous struggle, although there is sweat on the way forward, there may be tears, but there will be happiness and enjoyment in success.

Time will make you mature. Self-confidence is important for a person, appropriate and correct choices are needed, and endurance for the process is necessary. Self-psychological adjustment must be frequent, and the struggle for success requires unremitting efforts. Happiness and joy are gained in constant success.

Time is of the essence. Time will not go back, cherish the present and strive for the future.

I always want to repay my parents for their nurturing kindness, but now that they are sick, I can't help much, blaming myself for being useless. I used to think that my mother was annoying me, so I wanted to go to a university far away, far away from her, to see if she would miss me. What's more, my brother said that he wouldn't go far, just around Beijing and Tianjin, so I could leave with confidence.

But what if we are not at home and they are all sick and have no one to take care of them? Thinking of this, a bleak picture comes to mind. I remembered the article "If I Didn't Read Books" again.

The young man walked out of poverty because of his studies, but he walked into regret - his parents fell ill for him to raise money, and his parents left him before he could fulfill his filial piety. "He wants to support himself but his relatives are not there", he said, if he had not studied, he would have been by his parents' side now, sharing the burden of life for them, and they would not have died early. It is the regret of his life that he did not fulfill his filial piety because of his study, so if he did not study, would it be the regret of his parents?

That night, I told my mother that I would let my brother take care of you in the future, and I would go for a walk in the distance. And my mother put her head into the quilt, and after a while she turned her head and said, "Do as you like, that's your business."

Although there was a smile on my face, the slight wetness of the corners of my eyes and eyelashes could not escape my eyes. No matter what I said, my mother was still reluctant, and I was secretly happy in my heart. Some people may say that I am cruel, but every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

As for myself, facing such a scene at home today, my mind is a little chaotic.

I've always been careful about my relationship with my family. I used to be a traditional obedient good boy, but these days, maybe earlier, I have changed a little, I like to watch "Blood Romance", I like Zhong Yuemin, and I want to live a happy life like him. Even if I sit on the side of the road and catch lice, even if I go to ask for food, it is very interesting, and I began to understand that it is possible to live like this, just seek the process, and see life as a game, and any difficult thing is a level of the game.

I remember that some people are against the game of life, but I think Zhong Yuemin's quiet life style is very good, he will only face life and will never escape. The attitude of game life is not traditional, but there is no right or wrong, it is just your own preference.

2008, the year of the Olympic Games, is also the year of my college entrance examination. Some people bet on the college entrance examination, what about me? Confused.

Understand that there is still a long way to go, and the future life is hidden by yourself, as my mother said, "You can do what you love, that's your business". Indeed, I plan to break through the wind and fire no matter what, even if I sleep in the open and in the wind and rain, this kind of life is interesting. My own affairs, don't affect my parents, I have to live well, so that they can rest assured and repay them.

I want to wander, as the name goes: wandering the world.

Although I don't know your specific situation, I can see that you are not integrated into each other's lives, or that most of your lives are self-contained. Of course, it is normal to have an independent space, but you also need to understand each other, which requires you to do in-depth communication, open each other's hearts, communicate with your heart, and make each other feel sincere and sincere, I think it will have a certain effect. You can be proactive!

What am I going to do? The ex doesn't believe that you can change what to do?

You need to overcome your fears.

Hello, after reading your situation, I would like to ask:

1. What are you asking.

2. What do you want.

3 What you can ask for.

In fact, when you ask yourself these slip questions, it's pretty much the same.

At work, we must be open, we don't have to dare to do it because we haven't done it, we were born to do nothing, but we have slowly learned so many things, I believe that each of us has potential. Failure can't stop success!

Emotionally, at the age of 26, he has reached a stage where his personal charm and the number of suitors have decreased from the peak to the bottom (of course, this is just a general rule). Men are afraid of crossing the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, at this time you should think clearly about what you want as soon as possible, and according to the actual situation, judge what level of excellent people you can "match". If you feel that you are not too "high", especially not "high" enough, it is recommended to lower your mentality and return to the old reality, because as a woman, compared to the social status and social height, age is more undesirable.

When a woman is older, even if she becomes a strong woman in her career, she is not as beautiful as she was back then, although this is cruel but true.

In addition, it is recommended not to be in a hurry, to prepare well before doing things, and to keep your thoughts clear. The so-called preparation is a process of accumulation of jujubes, and a little progress every day is very happy. I wish you success.