How to choose the path of life! 5. How to choose the road of life!

There are many reasons, and there is only one direction that suits you.

Lao Tzu said: less is gained, more is confused.

The Yongzheng Dynasty has seen it, and the Yongzheng in it said: Half of ambition is patience.

It's often things that change people, and people can't change things.

There are more people with successful aspirations and ambitions, there is no shortage of you, the key is whether a person can succeed in his life, it depends on the situation, the so-called manipulation of people, that is, there are some things that we can interfere with artificially; But a large part of it is in the sky, there is no time and place, no matter how strong a person's ability is, he is at most a talent, if he wants to do great things, he must have the life to do great things, as long as he does what he should do, he will be worthy of himself. Who do you say is more capable than Xiang Yu or Liu Bang? ?

It must be Xiang Yu, right?

But why did Liu Bang win the world? ?

It's not that Liu Bang is more capable than Xiang Yu, but that Liu Bang can make people admire him from the heart, this is virtue, not the meaning of simple morality, it is a kind of leadership. As the saying goes, the invincibility is flat on the outside, and the mountains are on the inside. Liu Bang is the kind of person who hides the edge in the empty valley.

In fact, many leaders are such people, the inferior are the top, and the resistant is the bottom; Retreat is the table, and conquest is the inside; These have little to do with academic qualifications, in fact, you can find that people with real high academic qualifications are working as secretaries, consultants, and so on for leaders.

And what kind of books you see such as thick black studies, there are only the editors' misunderstandings (personal opinions) about the historical parties, and some things cannot be verified at all, only the parties understand in their hearts, and some things are done, and they originally thought they were good, but as a result, some people will think that they are evil and ruthless. So you see, the I Ching reads a lot of great men and good people, and also reads wicked people and bad guys.

Everyone's understanding of life is different, and there is no need to look for a trajectory from others, let alone gain any experience from others. Experiences from others will always be words to you.

And the real experience is what you get after going through a painful ordeal.

Confucius said: "Righteousness, boldness, simplicity, and taciturn are close to benevolence." ”

Lao Tzu said: "Great achievements are like having defects, and its function is not to decay; Great fulfillment is like emptiness, and its function is not exhaustive. The great uprightness is like bending, the great flexibility is like clumsiness, the great excess is like inadequacy, and the great eloquence is like dullness.

Walking fast can overcome the cold, quiet can overcome the heat, and those who wish to be quiet and do nothing can become the ruler of the world. Lao Tzu's passage is similar to Confucius.

Du Yuesheng has a saying on his lips: Be careful to win the world, and be careless in Jingzhou.

There are two things that make a person live in the world, courage and wisdom.

After talking for a long time, in fact, some things are how they should be, and it is difficult to change personal ability.

If you really want to do great things, you must first do four words: high morality.

The last sentence: Many things can only wait, not create. (I just came up with this one).

Personally, I always believe that there are gains and losses in life, and there is happiness and sadness at the same time. Just like planting a fruit tree, the more you water, the more effort you put in, and the more you reap.

Everyone is indeed different, some are given by their parents, but in the end they are still in their own hands.

Mind if you can read some inspirational masterpieces and feel the experience, pain, and success of celebrities.

Have confidence in yourself, whether you study or work, you must have a good habit and goal, so that you can do it according to your goal every day, and over time, slowly, the more you accumulate, the more you will succeed...

My girlfriend is like that now, and so am I.

But I told her that I was now in the New Year and didn't want to be unhappy.

Two roads are walked by people You don't think you can create the road There are not many Bill three in the world Go with the flow The more you think about it, the heavens won't follow you Because we are all stubborn people!

In short, everyone believes in themselves that anything can be solved.

Choose your favorite path and don't force yourself.

Decide for yourself what you want.

Take what you think is the right path.

What are your interests? What kind of person did you ever want to be? What kind of knowledge do you feel good about and can be further developed? Have a general idea of your interests.

Personality determines what you are suitable for, and what are your interests in different jobs? What kind of person did you ever want to be? What kind of knowledge do you feel more like, can be deepened, and are suitable for people with different personalities.

Recognizing your personality is a very important step. Understand your personality traits before making a decision. What are your strengths and strengths?

What are some of the skills that can be used? What should I do about what I lack?

What weaknesses in your personality itself need to be overcome? Don't let weaknesses get in the way of your growth.

The first chapter of the book "Workplace Redemption - Written for the Grassroots in Confusion" also provides a more detailed and specific method, which is very helpful to you, and you can also go to the book to find the answer.