I don t have a goal, I don t know what I m fighting for, I m at a loss, what should I do?

Our generation is really at a loss It seems that all the paths we take seem to have been prescribed, and if you get into college, get a good job, start a family, such a life goal is not a life goal I was quite at a loss before Now I almost know what I want to do It is recommended that you find your own hobbies and find a hobby that you will not complain about even if you are tired Everyone has such a goal It's just a matter of time and time It's always going to find it Don't worry, take your time It's easy to find a goal when you find a hobby There is also a way to see what kind of path your personality is suitable for, and choose the general direction according to your personality At this stage, you can set small goals first, such as what kind of book to read, or try to do anything as long as you are interested in Also, don't be too pessimistic, be optimistic, even if you do what you don't want to do every day, don't be too confused or give up on yourself Mentality is the most important.

People are like this, when they understand the meaning of life, they immediately find their goals, and they will be very motivated to move towards them. So, what is the meaning of life? Many people have this experience, after the summer vacation of elementary school, the teacher will ask the classmates what meaningful things they did during the vacation?

Some students will say that they help their mothers with housework at home; Some students will say that they have participated in some public welfare activities, cleaned in public places, washed clothes for the elderly in nursing homes, folded quilts or chatted with the elderly. Look at these meaningful things, they are all selfless in nature and have a spirit of dedication.

Why don't you know what to do? Why can't I find a job that suits me? Lust and selfishness cover the eyes and the mind.

When work is seen as a bargaining chip in exchange for rewards, there is less dedication and enthusiasm for work; Or they can apply for jobs that are beyond their ability to get higher returns in a wild imagination, and then work becomes a floating cloud.

If you think about it from another angle; What are my abilities? I know exactly what I need to do or what kind of job I can look for.

Don't think about the results, think about the small tasks at hand, and write a small note to encourage yourself.

We are all travelers on the road of life, carrying a book and a pen and inkstone. Perhaps, we will be lost, a kind of inner displacement. However, we have no choice but to fight for our dreams, although we may not succeed, but at least we will not become a nightmare in our hearts, and we have no regrets in this life.

It's like this at night, and when the sun rises, the light will guide you on the way you should be.

Why do you want to do so much, live happily in the moment, and love yourself well.

It's good to surf the Internet at home, sleep freely, and be free...

No, set yourself a goal for the time being.

Death is the best relief.

。。。Pick the one you once wanted to do and work first.

You're great, after all, you're now realizing that you're living without a purpose.

Everyone will have this feeling, some people find it early, some people realize it late, so what can we do to improve this situation? In general, everyone has a different way of dealing with it. You just have to find the right one for you.

1.First of all, relax for a few days, that is, do whatever you like, watch dramas, play games, watch movies, date anything, do whatever you want for a few days, generally we realize that we will be very confused if we have no goal, but the more confused we are, the more I don't know where to start to improve, so I am more irritable, so I don't want to do anything at the beginning, and relax for a few days (set a time point for yourself, you don't want to relax all the time, then it will become a dead loop).

2.Try more, write down all the things you want to do at the moment, and then find out the 3 most important ones, start planning to do it, don't be afraid to know how to do it! On the Internet, in books, the resources of people who have come over are very rich, just search for them and find them.

Isn't that just busy? What should I do if I find that I don't like it and don't suit me? It's okay, just throw it away and start over with the next favorite!

You're still young, and you have the opportunity to try and make mistakes! These trial and error experience will also become your wealth in the future, things to pay attention to: you have to take every trial and error hobby seriously, serious practice, so that it can become experience, don't because boring, tedious, tired, just three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, so you can't accumulate experience!

3.What if you can't think of a favorite hobby for a while? So what kind of person do you want to be in five years?

Want to be a leader? Start your own business? Being a teacher?

Painter? For example, if you want to be the leader of a company, what skills do you need to be a leader? If you become the leader of a company in the 5th year, do you need to be in the position of supervisor in the 4th year?

Is it necessary to be in the position of team leader in the third year? Do you have to be a good employee in the second year? Do you have to go to that company in the first year, and do you need to find out what that company is asking for now, and then try to lean yourself in that direction?

And so on, and you have a goal.

4.If you can't do the above suggestions, then do a good job of the moment, study hard in professional classes, don't skip classes, sort out your graduation **, find an internship company, that is, do what you do every day seriously, don't set any goals, columnist Lian Yue once said: "I don't care if you have a blueprint to transform the world."

I prefer to believe in observations from small things: do you have the patience to read a book, can you control your weight, and dare to keep running? The little things are done well, and this person will not be too bad.

Everyone wants to do big things, but no big thing can be done all at once, it is all accumulated by countless small things. Whether it's the workplace or life, there are not so many big things

Life is inevitably confused! If you don't have a goal, do 3 things first! At least don't waste your time, people live in this world, if there are too many goals, he will be anxious; But if a person loses his purpose, then he is lost.

A person's worldview, outlook on life, and values are all in the process of being gradually formed.

Stabilize your life first, and then tell yourself what you want.

Are you in school or out of society?