I m pregnant, should I tell my parents I m still a student

Updated on parenting 2024-05-12
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't tell your parents, don't tell anyone, just do it secretly! Do a good job of contraception in the future, don't have an accident, and study hard.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you have the ability to solve this problem yourself, try to minimize the harm to your parents, and if you are not able to solve it, be honest with your parents, at least, don't let yourself be hurt again. In the future, it is necessary to pay more attention to protective measures.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello: If you are still a student, it is better to tell your parents about this situation.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you are old enough to get married, you still have to tell your parents, and if you are young, take measures...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should tell your parents and wait for both parents to sort it out.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If the man has enough money, let him out, don't tell his parents, if the man is not a person, no matter you, you must tell your parents, so as not to get sick and suffer yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forget it, if you can take care of yourself, it's better not to say it, don't let your parents worry !

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ay. I don't think it's better to say it. (if you can take care of yourself).

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Either tell or shut up, if you dare to do it, why don't you dare to say it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whoever did it asked you to find a way to go, if you can solve it yourself, you won't come to ask everyone, what can you do, you have no choice but to find your parents.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Alas, don't say it, I don't have a good life, and my parents are sad!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you can solve it yourself, you can solve it yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I suggest that you tell your parents truthfully, because you are still a child now, and your social experience is not enough, so let your father and mother give you some advice, so I suggest that you be brave enough to speak out.

    First of all, you have to judge whether your parents' ideological concepts are feudal, and whether they will think that unmarried pregnancy is unethical and unruly, and people can't afford to tremble.

    If yes, then it is advisable to discuss it with your boyfriend and let him talk to your parents. A responsible man should be willing to face it with you, and if your boyfriend withdraws away and doesn't even ask, then you happen to see him clearly.

    If you feel that your parents are open-minded and love you very much, and you need their support and comfort, then you can also talk to them directly.

    Then after the parents know, they should prepare for marriage.

    In today's society, unmarried pregnancy is already a common thing, and some parents even feel that this matter is even more soJoy on joy.

    Finally, I wish you happiness!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How to tell your parents when you are still young and pregnant, let's find out together!

    1. When you find out that you are pregnant, the first thing to do is to tell your parents. You can talk to your parents about your experiences with your boyfriend and tell them what you think. The next step is to talk to your parents and listen to their opinions.

    2. Because your parents are from the past, they will generally understand your unmarried pregnancy. But if your parents don't agree with you getting married, then you have to decide whether to keep your children according to your own inner thoughts and the opinions of those around you.

    3. Finally, although it is not good to get pregnant before marriage, because the child is innocent, women must ensure the safety of the child as much as possible no matter what. If conditions permit, you can also discuss the source file with your boyfriend's parents, and I believe they will give you a good solution.

    Why are pregnancies so common out of wedlock now?

    1. The openness of the concept of men and women.

    Everyone can see how open the social atmosphere is today, many men and women are very open in this matter, and it is also common for unmarried people to live together. Some of the two are not ready to get married, and the arrival of the child has accelerated the process of marriage between the two. Therefore, there are two kinds of unmarried pregnancy for the two, the first is the expected "surprise" and the other is the unexpected "fright".

    If both of them are ready to spend their lives together, the early arrival of the child may be the expected surprise.

    But for some men who haven't played enough, this is an unexpected "fright". There are many reasons why men don't want to get married, but the most important one must be that they haven't played enough, and they haven't taken on the responsibility of a family, because they haven't played enough, so the unplanned children may be a disaster in their lives, either they want women to give up their children, or they marry their children for various reasons, which will lay hidden dangers for the future.

    2. The sky-high bride price is the trouble.

    With the opening of the social atmosphere comes the sky-high bride price, which refreshes the record again and again, and it was also said in the news before that there is a man who wants a bride price of 200,000 yuan because of his mother-in-law, and his own conditions are really unable to come out.

    I knew that I had made a mistake when I was pregnant before marriage, but there was still room for redemption when I confessed to my parents earlier. If a person has not yet thought about becoming a parent, and still does not know what the future life will be like, it is very panicked and afraid to have a child suddenly. At this time, you should discuss with your parents and let someone with experience tell you what to do.

    The above is the sharing, I hope it can help everyone.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Our education method makes it difficult for us to say some things to our parents, such as falling in love, pregnancy and other things, maybe boys don't have much feeling in this regard, but most girls are embarrassed to take the initiative to talk to their parents about these things, so if it's really a big thing like pregnancy, how to talk to their parents?

    What I have to do now is to communicate with my boyfriend first, whether I want this child, if I want this child, tell my parents, Xiaozhi has to say with affection, after all, you are pregnant now, and your parents will not beat you, but you are pregnant before marriage, and you can't run away after being scolded. Tell your parents to let your parents slowly accept this fact, if your boyfriend has met with your parents first, and your parents are very satisfied with your boyfriend, so your parents should not have much opinion, if your boyfriend is not very pleasant to meet your parents in advance, and your parents don't like your boyfriend very much, then your parents must have said in front of you how he is, not good, then you take your boyfriend home, let him say solemnly in front of his parents, he will definitely be good to you in this life, will only be good to you alone, will take care of you and the baby, will not let you and the baby follow him to suffer, will not let you and the baby be wronged, try to persuade the parents, let the parents accept him, agree that you get married and give birth to a baby, after all, it is a small life. If the negotiation confirms ** or medical abortion, please go to a regular hospital for surgery accompanied by your family members.

    The best time to do **** is around 35-50 days after pregnancy. Doing it at the best time is more beneficial to a woman's body than doing it too early or too late. If performed too early**, the gestational sac may not be visible during the ultrasound examination, and there may be empty or leaky aspiration during the procedure, resulting in surgical failure.

    1. If you want to give birth to a child, just say it, but the parents should be surprised or angry.

    2. If you don't want this child, you can just ** amuse it, don't tell your parents, otherwise your parents will still be surprised or angry.

    3. If, if the two of you are not married, if the two of you really love each other, then get married, and then give birth to the child (**After all, it is not good for the woman's body, body and mind, and it will seriously affect the second pregnancy, and even hang up with heavy bleeding).

    4. If, if the two of you are already married, it is advisable to leave the child and give birth. The husband should be instructed to understand the psychology of the pregnant woman and solve her most worrying problems, which is often better than the best medicine.

    In addition to the husband's care, relatives and friends around should also care, so that the pregnant woman feels that living in this family and social environment is very warm.

    5. If you already have a child, and this time it is just an unexpected pregnancy, then you can use your discretion**.

    6. If you don't know who the father of this child is? Suggestion: **, and then reflect on your own worldview.

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