I don t want to think so much about how I can do it

Sometimes it's not your problem, or it's not your problem, or it's not something you can solve

Shouldn't you let him know what you think? Let's talk about it calmly

Either because you care too much about him, or because you have the same personality, or because he makes you insecure, or because you don't have confidence in yourself. Maybe it's a little bit of both

These things may not be your fault, really, it's just that emotional things are the authorities' mystery, and the only way is to wait for it to pass, for the future to come, and when you grow, everything will be relieved

So the conclusion is, if you put things in order and then make a choice to drag it out, things will be more upsetting and you will miss out on the good results that could have been obtained

I don't want to think so much about how to do it, since I choose to live a good life, I have to give, and there will inevitably be contradictions between paying.

Think about it from another angle, it is because you have the people you love and love around you, and your efforts are also for you and them, why get rid of such concerns?

Look at everything a little, believe in life, believe in the sun of tomorrow, you live up to life, and life will not treat you badly!

Think about the consequences. What happens when you think about the little things? What's interesting? If the answer is uninteresting. So why bother?

Life is happy, so why bother doing unhappy things for a day. Huh

Cultivation is a long process.

I don't want to care so much, but I still care, maybe it's a hormone problem.

I'm sad to say it now

I don't think he's a good fit for you.

First, take a deep breath and then change your position: if you are sitting or lying down, stand up and walk around; Second, find someone to talk to, it's okay to talk about anything, just don't talk about what you're thinking; Third, daydream about the thing you're thinking about, and assume what I have.

Thinking about a person, missing a person, it is impossible to forget and forget to say that you don't want to think about it. People must be emotional, and liking from the heart is of course hard to forget. If you feel that the outcome of things is not as good as you think, let it go, because you know that it is impossible, convince yourself not to think about it, and if you think about it again, will it be useful for you?

Is it good for you? So, forget the past, start all over again, find something to do, time is the best medicine.

A lot of times, cranky thinking happens because there's nothing to do. Or if you are too concerned or anxious about something, the most effective way to solve the anxiety is to take action and develop a business hobby and skills. Or go do something that interests you.

In short, if you make yourself happy, you will stop thinking cranky.

If you forget about unhappiness and think about happy things, I think you will be happy. Maybe you will ask how to forget the unhappy things, I give you the answer to the thing, the unified method, it depends on what kind of thing, if it is a relationship, because of the breakup of men and women or something, then completely think about the bad side of the party, don't think about the good with him and her, maybe it will be much better, things at work will be even more annoying, without this job, the next job will be a new beginning for you, how good, think about it and be happy to say to yourself when you get up" Today I will definitely be able to meet a noble person, maybe I can pick up a wallet" I have tried very successfully, and most of the general dictionary definition of happiness is:

Feel fulfilled and happy. The German philosopher Immanuel Kant believed that "happiness is the satisfaction of our needs".

Indeed, happiness is a beautiful condition, that is, there are no bad or painful things, and you feel that you are good as a person and the world around you. How can you get it?

1. Take the initiative to seek and pursue with your heart to get the way to pursue happiness, there is a big premise: that is, to understand that happiness is not easy to obtain. It is neither a gift nor a right; You have to take the initiative to find out

Pursue hard to get it. When you realize that you can't sit there and wait for happiness to come, you've taken a big step forward in your pursuit of happiness.

What do you think? Doesn't it feel bad, does it? Don't be happy, but after you've completed the other nine steps, you'll be able to reach the true state of happiness.

2. Expand the field of life and try new things When you are willing to try new activities and take on new challenges, you will be pleasantly surprised to discover a new dimension of life.

Learning new technologies and opening up new ways can bring new satisfaction. Unfortunately, many people tend to ignore this and lose the opportunity to reach their potential and be happy. Many people think that they should wait for an appropriate moment to forge ahead in a safe way.

This is an overly conservative idea, because the right time may never come. No one's life is a well-designed, error-free computer program, so you should have the courage to be ready to take on the challenge.

The way not to think about it:

1. Spit out the old and embrace the new.

2. Cut through the mess with a quick knife.

3. Find a new way.

4. Swim in the water.

5. Start anew.

Sad and sad are not easy to forget, but you can think of happy memories and suppress them for a while. The most important thing is to adjust your own psychology, no matter what, life has to go on.

If you plan and fulfill what you should do every day, do everything well, and don't have anything unrelated to it in the process, you won't be cranky.

For each of us, things that annoy and worry about us are also unexpected, and it is inevitable. But we can try to put it aside and do something else, whatever you want, and personally, I suggest that when you think about those irritating things, you can exercise and listen to some rap, which can be uplifting and positive, but don't listen to those lyrical, sad and other songs.

Find more things to do, such as housework, exercise, etc., to make yourself full every day.

Take a deep breath to calm yourself down, and at the same time do something you like to make yourself happy, or go to exercise, and when you are tired from exercise, you naturally don't have the heart to think about it.

Distracting from chores such as doing chores.

Let go of yourself, go for a break, and go abroad for a while.

Laugh and be in a good mood.

You need a friend who speaks from the heart.

I was like you, and I dropped out of school.

Divert your attention to something else· For example, watch TV, listen to **, or do what you usually like to do the most to relieve your mood

You should think for yourself about what will happen if you go on like this! Actually, I'm also a person who thinks a lot, maybe our personality is like this! But don't bother thinking too much! It's better to go with the flow!

Although the sun you see every day is the same, but the sunshine is different, every day you will meet different people, and the things you have to face are also different, as long as you are doing well today, how will you know what will happen tomorrow? Not to mention those yesterdays that have become history.

Sometimes I feel that I have an inexplicable emotion, and I have never been able to reach the so-called "not happy with things and not sad with myself". At any time, the mood will be affected by the surrounding environment, and it is easy to be happy and sad. You may also be shaken by a little bit of what you have always insisted on.

Sometimes I don't understand what I'm pursuing, and I don't know what kind of state of mind I'm in my heart. The people or things around me are so harmonious, but I clearly feel some inexplicable sadness spreading, and the blue melancholy seems to have always existed in the depths of my heart, but occasionally it is covered by other colors.

I don't like my sentimentality, I don't like tears for no reason, I don't like to have insomnia in the dead of night with my eyes closed.

I want to forget something, but the memory is more profound; I want to remember something, but I can't find an entrance to the memory. I want to pretend that I don't care about anything, I want to run away from all the things that I am unhappy about, I want to let the confusion numb my awake nerves, I don't want to let my heart breathe deeply, I want to...

Thinking too much and doing too little is doomed to be inextricable; Doing too much, thinking too little, but not the way I like it. Where to go, how to detach? There is no trace of troubles, and mediocrities are looking for themselves.

Maybe one day when I am no longer attached, no longer serious, no longer have faith, and no longer care about gains and losses, I will be able to make my life easier! ”

This is a casual impression I saw on my blog, and my heart was very touched.

I don't know how to make you not think too much, everyone's state of mind is different, and how to adjust it can't be specific.

I can only give you some advice, listen more**, relax yourself, play more with friends, and laugh.

Let yourself live to the fullest, and if you don't have time to think about it, it's just natural.

Emotional matters, it is impossible to be desireless, you can only let yourself not be too greedy. Don't overthink it. It's good to cherish the present.

What you are talking about are congenital factors, and congenital factors cannot be changed, and we can only make up for our own shortcomings through acquired efforts.

It doesn't matter if there is no beautiful appearance or good family background, the real charm is those who speak and behave elegantly, have ideals, ambitions, a sense of responsibility, and are erudite.

First of all, every morning when I wake up I say to myself that I am the best, give yourself a smile.

Secondly, we should read more books, read books with connotations, improve our self-cultivation from books, and broaden our minds.

Third, establish lofty ideals and advance towards the goal; Make a plan for yourself every day to keep yourself busy so that you don't have time to worry about things.

Fourth, don't compare yourself with others, you are you, you are unique in this world; Remember: you can see the light of the moon, but don't forget that behind the light is the shadow.

Fifth, you don't have to look up to others, you are also the scenery; While you envy others, some people will silently envy you. There are many times when we don't know that when we are appreciating others, we are also becoming the scenery in the eyes of others. In fact, life is like a thick book, and some books have no protagonist because we ignore ourselves; Some books have no clues because we lose ourselves; Some books have no content because we bury our self-......

Think about it, as long as people can live in good health, even the flowers and plants, the stars and the moon, the mountains and rivers on the earth. It's not all yours. Think about the people who just left, how much you seem to have.

No matter where you are in any situation, your heart is still free, you can have it all, and you have a better chance of having it ...

External factors are powerless to change, and what can be changed can also change yourself;

First: read more books, books can make people quiet, and can improve self-cultivation;

Second: You have a goal in life, you have a dream in life, so you will have such troubles, calm down, think about this aspect, think clearly, you will have a direction, and you will no longer have time to dwell on these meaningless questions;