When I was young, my parents quarreled and divorced.

Updated on parenting 2024-05-26
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    We have similar experiences in a sense, and I thought it would be useful to consider opening up with your dad, although that might be hard. You are still in school, no matter what happens, the most important thing is to keep your roots, to work hard, to be strong, to make yourself strong, only then can you protect your mother and protect those who love you. As for your father, no matter what the reason is, after all, he is old, he is the person your mother loves deeply, and he is also your irreplaceable father, so the best solution is to talk about it and strive for a more happy ending.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You can do to others as you would like to others, and it is enough to be lukewarm. It's just that his father still has to communicate more, after all, blood is thicker than water.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You are kind. My dad was also a cruel man, I was raised by my mom, and my mom was sick too. Very serious illness.

    You don't want to be related by blood. Sympathy, and ** Lao, if you have a family relationship with your dad. Save him.

    for he has given you life. But a word of advice. To the cold-blooded people.

    Someone who has hurt you. Think about it if it's worth it. Lost a kidney.

    There is still one left, and the lost family affection will not be complete again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Communicate with them more and let them know that you love them.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can go to the local neighborhood committee or village committee for mediation, of course, it is best if you can negotiate.

    The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother. The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents.

    After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother. After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

    After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children. Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that if one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

    1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

    2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

    4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

    5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

    Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

    Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

    Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that the relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

    After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

    In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Parents quarrel and divorce first to distinguish whether the marital status of both parties is irreconcilable, if so, it is necessary to respect the parents' hospital; If it is not an irreconcilable conflict, the child can play a role in alleviating it.

    Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The marriage relationship is dissolved when the divorce registration is completed, or the divorce judgment or mediation document takes effect.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. When parents quarrel and want to divorce, many children will inevitably be in a hurry. Remember, at this time, don't panic. Because once you mess up, then you can't intermediate your parents.

    Suffice it to say, this is a problem that only you can solve, so you need to keep your composure.

    2. Analyze and decompose the reasons for the parents' quarrels and find out the problem. Find out who is right and who is wrong, where is right and who is wrong.

    3. Talk to your parents, don't talk with fear, keep a fair heart, and persuade both parties. Let's talk about the reasons just dissected, so that parents know that they are wrong.

    4. Of course, parents quarrel and want to divorce, which cannot be solved in a day or two, which requires us to persuade for a long time and not give up. You have to understand that since your parents can come together, then there must still be some feelings between them, as long as you take your time, then, you will eventually succeed!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello. What to do if your parents quarrel and want a divorce.

    1. Absolute neutrality.

    At this time, it is necessary to remain neutral, wait for the parents to quarrel, and then do ideological work, first affirm their respective right, and then say the wrong party, so that the parents know the truth that a slap does not make a sound, so that there may not be a divorce.

    2. Don't pull the bias frame.

    Don't keep impulsively pulling the shelf, this will only add fuel to the fire, and it may be that your intentional favoritism will make the parents' war out of the original track and become out of control.

    3. Be coquettish.

    If you are still relatively young, you can use coquettishness to extinguish the fire, tell your parents that you are afraid of quarreling, so that your parents will consider your feelings and slowly become calm, but you must have enough coquettish and cute talents to pretend to be pitiful.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, I think they should be used to quarreling and arguing, because both sides have strong personalities, and if they don't like one party's will, they will quarrel. But they have quarreled for so long and have not divorced, and they should not be separated in the future. must be old, divorce is still a mental obstacle for their people.

    I also know that the ** is to vent your emotions, and to make you feel his importance! You have to care about her (him), just coax a little.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your parents quarreled and divorced, and from below, I think they are used to arguing, and if they want to leave early. After you left the college entrance examination, they left, and if they didn't leave, I don't think they would leave again. You can persuade the two of them to be tolerant of each other.

    It's already so big, and they all know each other's problems and interests, so there's no need to really go to the divorce step, and then explain the stakes of the divorce to them clearly, I believe they won't make such a fuss.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can ask your dad to go to your place to communicate with your dad and ask what the reason is, and then, after asking your mom to go to you to communicate, find out the reason and solve the problem!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If your parents often quarrel. There is almost no emotion, to the point where you hate each other, it's better to let the two of them divorce, so that you will live a more comfortable and happy life in your old age. The first half of my life was barely together for you.

    You're old enough to work and earn your own money! If you belong to your own family, your parents should unload your responsibilities and find your own life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My parents are dissatisfied with their divorce for a long time, and I go with them. Even though we are related, I still feel like we are all individuals. You have your married life, I have mine.

    As long as it doesn't get hurt physically, I won't care as a child. Because I can't manage it, and more importantly, I don't want to manage it. They also need to vent.

    Then vent in moderation. It is undeniable that children are really disgusted with quarrelsome parents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, Mom and Dad are in their 50s, and even if they divorce, it will be difficult for them to find it again, so they should not divorce if they think carefully, don't worry. If you are really worried, you can find a day to talk to them, express your thoughts to them, and finally respect their choice.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Mom and Dad often quarrel and quarrel, and divorce hurts the children the most. If it's not a matter of principle, you can help them save the marriage. Try to create opportunities for them to be together and create a family atmosphere. If it's a matter of principle, you can't help it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The affairs of the elders can only be handled by themselves, they are all adults, and any decision they make should be carefully considered, and there must be a certain reason for separation, so they can only follow fate.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Mom and Dad are definitely not going to divorce overnight, they can't live together, choosing to separate, it's a relief for them, it's a pain for you, but you can't change their minds, you can only think about who you choose to live with.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's up to them to make their own decisions.

    Children respect their decisions. If your parents have been making do and are unhappy, you can live according to your own ideas. Children support their ideas and want them to live the life they want to live.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As children, you can only persuade them, and ask them, have you considered the impact on your children?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's normal, many parents around me are like this, but this is just talking, and people who can live together until they are in their 50s generally won't get divorced.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

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    First of all, when you encounter such a thing, don't worry, I hope you will sort out your mood and adjust your state. Because parents quarrel from time to time, this is also a relatively normal thing. You can talk to your family directly as a son or daughter.

    The importance of family actually hopes that you don't have too much depression in your heart.

    The main thing is to communicate with your mother, I think she must love you very much. Because after all, you came out of her belly, and she endured the pain.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is just their way of expression, if they leave early, if they don't leave, they won't leave.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Many of the parents' generation have been noisy all their lives, and sometimes it will make us feel very embarrassed as children, and some parents will even get divorced if they quarrel so much.

    As children we should do this:

    1.First of all, it is necessary to find out the reason for their quarrel, whether it is a matter of criterion; Whether it is because of physical well-being, whether it is that the parents are about to go through menopause, this is something that they themselves cannot control; There are still reasons for work, too much pressure, no one understands, etc., and it is good to make a clear reason.

    2.There are a lot of trivial things in every family's life, and you can't divorce if you have problems, and you have to tell them that the family should understand more, understand more, and accommodate more. If you have a problem, find a way to deal with it, and divorce if you can't quarrel.

    3.Let your parents start from their own problems, don't condemn others for doing wrong, so that you can realize your mistakes, the family is likely to be able to save, you have to talk to your mother, women can't be too strong, they must be docile, they can't be tempered, they can't talk all day long, it's not over, it's hard for people to bear, don't be better than other people's men, and I'm better than others.

    4.The two of them have been together for twenty or thirty years, and their lives have been like boiled water, and they have not noticed the need to add condiments to it. If you can add some condiments to it, so that both people have something to do, and there is no time to argue, can you still quarrel?

    For example, throw them a little child and keep them busy every day.

    5.You are the child of your parents, and you should resolutely defend your family, no matter how noisy your parents are, you should persuade them to make peace! For this purpose, you should understand the grievances of both parties, communicate with each other in two lives, think about each other from the standpoint of losing money, and think about each other!

    Both parties have children in common, so this is the greatest common good!

    Some couples have quarreled all their lives, and they have said that they have divorced several times during this period, and they have not divorced in the end. The score is clear, the child is also the conciliator of the two, you should persuade each other, listen to their voices, couples of this age, if you really want to come to this point, it may be a little serious, but as long as you have children, reconcile from the middle.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think that children, as the regulator of parents' emotions, can be brought forward by children to let parents sit down and talk, understand the most real thoughts of parents, understand the contradictions between them, and then guide them and adjust them, so that they can avoid going to the point of divorce.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Be sure to calm your mind, strengthen communication, understand the thoughts of both parties, don't be too sad, and respect your parents' decisions.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    As a child, you should persuade your parents not to divorce, because divorce is a big blow to your children.

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