I can t say it, what should I do??

Updated on psychology 2024-05-11
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Success depends on your belief in how much you love her! The stronger the belief, the more success you can achieve! It's not too hard to confess!

    If a big man doesn't say anything to the woman he likes, it's impossible for people to ask you, do you like me!?You tell me? I'm afraid that's a pipe dream!

    Love is to have the courage to confess and strive for it! As long as you say it, the chance of success will rise to 90% all of a sudden, you guys! Say it or not, you can see it for yourself!

    Let's not talk about it, just wait until everyone is slowly tormented by this crush! After all, the process of crush is sweet, but the feeling is very bitter! Yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Communicate more, and don't be nervous if you talk more! Communication is the foundation of love, so be bold and chase it! If you don't say it, you'll never have hope!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I have a feeling she must have been kind of interesting to you, otherwise she wouldn't have said those things to you. Girl, after all, I'm a little embarrassed, maybe, her words are the way to confess to you, she is hinting at you, it depends on whether you have the courage or not. Imagine, what if you all have the same mentality, as a man, you must be brave to confess, come on!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your problem is nervousness, right? It's human. Teach you how.

    I also think she might have a crush on you. Boldly confess on QQ. After all, face-to-face is better than facing a computer, right?

    I love you! i lvoe y!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Give yourself confidence and be brave to chase it. Everyone else has done this, which can be regarded as a hint. You also said that you have a crush on someone's family, and you even remember their profession wrongly, and you don't seem to care much about her!

    A crush on someone should know a lot about her situation and care about it. You're not a good crush....Haha....

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, I like you, what you need most now is to pluck up the courage to tell her that you like her, don't be cowardly if you don't want to regret it, don't say it now and wait for others to say it, and then it's too late to regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Call ** to him to communicate homework problems or other things Talk about other people's rights and wrongs Interesting things around you Don't confess Determine the relationship Sometimes it only takes a look.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not time to confess, you just follow what she said, contact her, and confess when the time is ripe. Otherwise, people don't have any feelings for you and won't agree to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Confess, support you, don't miss the opportunity, the time will not come again! It's too late for the slow people to grab it

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't chase it quickly, it's over! It was snatched away by others! It doesn't matter if it's right or wrong! Go ahead!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You have a chance! It's clear she's hinting at you, she's giving you a chance. If you don't grasp it, you'll lose it. If it's a man, be brave.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is. Be confident. Multi-** contact.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The previous ones have said everything that should be said and what should not be said.

    All I can say is. Good luck.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's a man who shows it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love is not a subtle piece of prose, it's better to get to the point.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1.First of all, I will explain to you that you are a special state in a specific period, you don't feel inferior, this is an introvert, a common trait of people with mucous or depressive qualities, and I clearly tell you that this can be solved, I used to be like this, the main solution to this is to relax the mood, participate in more communication, encourage yourself through autosuggestion, and gradually get better, through your own subjective efforts, After actively participating in social networking, I am not nervous about talking anywhere now, and I believe that you will be like me, slowly getting better! Certain psychiatric disorders, such as social disorders, dissociative conversion disorder, need to be excluded.

    Suggestions: I used to be like this, the main thing to solve this is to relax your mind, participate in communication more, encourage yourself through self-suggestion, and gradually get better, through your own subjective efforts, to actively participate in communication, I am not nervous to talk anywhere now, I believe you will be like me, slowly get better!

    2.In my opinion, it can be initially considered to be due to strong personality traits. This may be due to your personal growth experience, so that you have a strong sensitive, suspicious and introverted personality traits, because of practical reasons, so that you have not been well perfected, so that when you are asked questions in class or other occasions need to speak, you are prone to excessive tension, anxiety and even fear and other negative emotions, these strong negative emotions are easy to produce the feelings or symptoms you describe are speechless.

    Therefore, I suggest that what you need to consider at present is to help yourself try to do a good job of self-psychological adjustment, further improve your personality characteristics, learn to understand and accept, learn to communicate effectively with the people around you, and enhance the sense of mutual trust with the people around you, so as to gain more understanding and support from the people around you, so that you can gradually return to normal learning, interpersonal communication and mental state.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Many times we have a lot of words that we can't say, whether it's to strangers or the people closest to us.

    Wasn't this a very normal phenomenon in my previous opinion? There is no big problem, and often only when something goes wrong does you know the seriousness of the matter. What about me?

    In the past, I was afraid to talk to people and didn't dare to express my thoughts, but when I saw others express their thoughts so easily and directly, to be honest, I really wanted to learn and change myself.

    I'm just reflecting and looking for my own problems ......and so on, but what? Sometimes, when it doesn't work as it should, I wonder if I'm really trying to change myself. Will there really be good results?

    I try to express my thoughts through my own life outside, and I will express myself more with my family, which is much better than before, but sometimes I am still very nervous, and I still can't say the words.

    You don't think you've made any progress. It is relatively easy to say some simple words, and when it comes to some key issues, it takes a few days to say them, which has troubled me for a long time. I will still overcome this problem and have the courage to express my thoughts.

    Those unspoken words are often the truest thoughts in our hearts. You still have to try to speak up more, and when you say it, you can feel more relaxed and your family feel more at ease.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. Hello, I am happy to serve you and give you the following answer: If a friend says "a little unspeakable", you can comfort your friend first, express your understanding, and then give some advice.

    First of all, you can advise your friends to relax their emotions and express their thoughts in words. Sometimes, once a friend has a new idea, it feels overwhelming. It's okay to suggest that a friend write down their thoughts and express them slowly.

    Second, you can suggest a friend to ask for help. If a friend is nervous, you can suggest that the friend find a friend or family member to confide in him and express his thoughts. This will reduce the tension of the friend and also help the friend to express his thoughts better.

    Finally, you can suggest that your friends participate in more communication skills training to master some communication skills so that they can better express their ideas. In this way, friends can better express their ideas and can also improve their communication skills.

    My friend said "a little unspeakable" how to reply.

    Hello, I am happy to serve you and give you the following answer: If a friend says "a little unspeakable", you can comfort your friend first, express your understanding, and then give some advice. First of all, you can advise your friends to relax their emotions and express their thoughts in words.

    Sometimes, once a friend has a new idea, it feels overwhelming. It's okay to suggest that a friend write down their thoughts and express them slowly. Second, you can suggest a friend to ask for help.

    If a friend is nervous, you can suggest that the friend find a friend or family member to confide in him and express his thoughts. This will reduce the tension of the friend and also help the friend to express his thoughts better. Finally, you can suggest that your friends participate in more communication skills training to master some communication skills so that they can better express their ideas.

    In this way, friends can better express their ideas and can also improve their communication skills.

    You've done a great job! Can you elaborate on that?

    Hello, I am happy to serve you and give you the following answer: If a friend says "a little unspeakable", you can comfort your friend first, express your understanding, and then give some advice. First of all, you can advise your friends to relax their emotions and express their thoughts in words.

    Sometimes, once a friend has a new idea, it feels overwhelming. It's okay to suggest that a friend write down their thoughts and express them slowly. Second, you can suggest a friend to ask for help.

    If a friend is nervous, you can suggest that the friend find a friend or family member to confide in him and express his thoughts. This will reduce the tension of the friend and also help the friend to express his thoughts better. Finally, you can suggest that your friends participate in more communication skills training to master some communication skills so that they can better express their ideas.

    In this way, friends can better express their ideas and can also improve their communication skills.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm a person who can't hide my emotions, and every time I feel uncomfortable, I show it on my face. I think most people are like me, when you're sad, you expect someone to ask you "what's wrong", or someone who is willing to sit next to you quietly and listen to you complain for a while.

    But sometimes, there is some helplessness, which is unspeakable.

    Later, even if we are tired from work, we will finish it on time, and even if we break up sadly, we will eat well. Because I will know that only by taking care of myself can I have the strength to take care of the people around me.

    In this life, there will always be a particularly difficult time. You're going to fall out of love, you're going to lose your job, you're going to lose some friends, you're going to lose some happiness, maybe in that moment, you're going to feel the hardship. But did you know that when you get through that time, you will definitely meet new people to love you, and you will also find a new job and work hard.

    No matter what you're going through right now, you always have to believe that

    All the gray and ugly moments in life will pass and pass, and those brilliant and beautiful moments will eventually come and meet. What you need to do is to be warm and gentle, you just have to work hard, God has its own arrangement.

    In this world, everyone who lives seriously deserves to be treated well by life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Psychoanalysis: The last sentence has already stated your reasons. "It's like doing it for someone else."

    I believe that you are usually with close friends, and such a problem may not arise. For example, if your friend is in trouble, you will definitely go back to help, but if you have some "friends" at work, you will not help.

    Why can't you say some good things?

    Because it's not sincere.

    It is undeniable that good communication skills can help us attract attention, build up contacts, and capture success more easily in a short period of time.

    But I don't know when we have relied more and more on these exaggerated communication skills to manage interpersonal relationships, and we must praise when we meet, whether it is true or not.

    Sincerity in the heart, it will be able to form outside", sincere praise is far better than profitable boasting.

    It may be that we have an aversion to the inflamed sycophants in our hearts, which may be related to the subtle influence of your growth environment. When we equate these words with "sycophancy" in our hearts, we naturally can't accept these behaviors on our own.

    Next time, try to remind yourself to tell whether this is a "sincere compliment" or a "slap in the face." When you want to praise others, you can try to find the shining point of others, and [sincerely] can say it better

Related questions
18 answers2024-05-11

It may be that his love for you, without your depth, that kind of person, I only have one sentence, that is, stingy, in love, how can there be no **, what kind of love is not **, if it is me, I will not choose to break up, otherwise it will be myself who will suffer in the future, because he holds a kind of indifferent mentality, you better think about it! Such people cannot be kept.

12 answers2024-05-11

Hey, Li Liming, who do you love? Can't speak?

30 answers2024-05-11

Love to speak out loud.

To have such a person who deserves your love. >>>More

34 answers2024-05-11

Obviously, I don't have a problem with such a thing, but the more hesitant you are, the more difficult it will be! >>>More

11 answers2024-05-11

I love you and you can't say it.

Singer: Yu Quan. >>>More