There s an internet celebrity chasing me, but I think his circle is too chaotic, what should I do?

See if you like this person or not. It doesn't matter if the other party is an Internet celebrity or not, it doesn't matter the circle behind the other party, it's just a simple matter whether you like this person or not, if you like it, then you can be together, if you don't like it, then you can refuse, it's that simple. Because you fall in love because you like it, not because of the other party's identity background.

Of course, maybe it has something to do with the face, haha

In fact, when you choose the object of your relationship, what you choose is not the identity and conditions of the other party, but the character of the other party, the person you choose, if you feel that you have feelings for this person, like this person, and feel that this person is the person you want to live with the other person, then you can accept his pursuit.

I don't recommend that you accept or reject the other party just because the other party is an Internet celebrity, because the other party's life circle is more chaotic or because the other party's identity is more special and makes more money.

After all, Internet celebrities are also ordinary people and ordinary men, and he will also be tempted and want to fall in love.

What if you happen to be the right pair?

So my advice to you is that you try to get along with that man for a while first, see if you can feel in love with each other if you don't call each other, and if you can, then you can accept him. If you can't, you don't feel good for him, then you can reject him.

The most important thing in love is actually love, if you call each other, have feelings, and can produce love, then it doesn't matter who he is, what identity, whether he is an Internet celebrity, and the circle is chaotic, as long as you like each other, then you can be together. And if he really loves you, he will keep a clean circle of life, and he will also protect you from those chaos. So whether the other party is an Internet celebrity or not has little impact on the relationship between you.

We don't understand the world of Internet celebrities, but you have to distinguish between pursuit and love. If you are only interested in you because of your appearance, then don't want such a person, you should think about how you met, or what his emotional life is like. If your private life is too messy, don't think about it.

Today's Internet celebrities, they can do anything for the sake of popularity, to put it bluntly, they are some lazy people who want pie in the sky. Presumably you also have a certain understanding of him, what his job is, whether he sings or simply becomes popular because of his appearance, whether he has a talent that he is good at, and whether his personality is too open. That's all you need to look into.

Feelings are very sacred and cannot be perfunctory. All hypocrisy will be lost to time, you use time to test his sincerity, if he only chases you for a month or two, then you don't have to bother. If he persevers, contacts you every day to care for you, and can change some of his bad problems for you, then such a person is sincere to you.

There are also many clear streams among Internet celebrities, and they rely on their talents to make money. You should ask him, if he treats Internet celebrity as a kind of job, then you can ask him to change jobs for you, there are many opportunities for young people. If he likes to be an Internet celebrity and enjoy a glamorous life, then go his own way.

There is still a gap between ordinary people and Internet celebrities, you have to take care of all aspects, and you can't blindly fall in love. If you can't make a decision now, let time tell you the answer, whether he is your lover or not, depends on whether he has made changes for you. If you don't like the life of an Internet celebrity, you can tell him directly, and the relationship can't tolerate a little reluctance.

When encountering this kind of problem, the first thing you should think about is whether you like him or not, and whether you have a good impression of him? Everyone's lifestyle is different, the living environment is not the same, the other party is an Internet celebrity, then he has his own specific, living environment, and his circle of friends, his living environment is exactly his way of survival, if you like him and want to accept his confession, his pursuit, although you should take into account the circle in which he lives. But it's more important to think about your own heart, and if you really like him, then accept him.

You can try to get along, after all, what you like is him, and when you get along with him in the future, although you will inevitably touch his circle, you and him will always get along the most.

Since this circle has not changed his essence, and he also has a temperament that attracts you, then do not leave regrets for yourself. Try it, take her seriously, take his feelings seriously, if you really can't stand his life circle after being together, then it's not too late to break up at that time, because through this time of getting along, he knows that you are not suitable for him, and you also know that he is not suitable for you, and your relationship will be clearer. may be in the eyes of many people, the circle of Internet celebrities is so chaotic and complicated, but if we have not really been in contact, we should not jump to conclusions too early and make judgments easily.

If you really can't accept his circle of friends and his life circle due to some obstacles in your heart, then make it clear to him that it is his feelings and his pursuit. Don't let your relationship with him be in an ambiguous and ambiguous state, like to be clear, and refuse to be clear. In short, think about whether you like your true feelings in your heart, don't make a decision lightly, and don't hesitate to give an answer.

Don't ask an alternative perspective to look at him, we don't know this circle, and you haven't mixed in this circle, it's not clear to us whether it's chaotic or not, even if it's chaotic, you can't generalize it to partiality, maybe he's a clear stream in it! There are also many Internet celebrities who are quite sincere and have the principle of earning their own money, and Internet celebrities are now considered a profession. Some people simply do what they love and like to share with others.

If you happen to like him, you don't care about the career, you can get to know him well, see what his character is, maybe he is really suitable for your boyfriend, if you don't have a good impression of the profession of Internet celebrity, so you don't dare to say anything to him, and miss him, one day you will regret it, so you should still give him a chance to prove yourself, I believe he will not let you down.

If you are really affected by the negative news of the Internet celebrity and feel that it is really difficult for you to accept his job, then you can find an opportunity to explain your concerns to him, so that he can give you a good science about the nature of the job, and you will understand the job better. Maybe he might give up his job for you and change careers to something else, so you can be happy together.

Of course, if you don't like him, you don't have to worry about his industry anymore, you don't have to deal with him, he will slowly give up on you, after all, if you can be an Internet celebrity, you must be very sociable, and slowly he will find someone else, and you can also find the person who is destined to be, and the two of you don't bother each other.

If you don't like her, just reject him explicitly, keep your distance from him, and let him understand your intentions.

I'm chasing after you to see the situation, and if you don't pay attention to you, you can develop the next goal.

Take your time and don't rush it.

Give up, it means she doesn't like you!

Use your power to infect him, it.

Let it go, or you're just a spare tire.

Take it easy.. Don't worry, don't talk for the next few days.

Girls don't look at who they like, but whether they really like you, someone has 10,000, he spends 100 yuan for you by the way, or someone only has 100 yuan, but it's all for you, which one do you choose.

Age is not a problem, choose a good person, that way is more secure.

This little vanity hurts him, because you can show your cards in public at any time. I hope he will be more restrained, give you a free space, and give himself a chance not to be embarrassed. It is possible to give him a note in private, an ultimatum to him.

Of course, if you think he's good, don't ruin his reputation. If you don't want to, according to my approach, say publicly, "The other person is good, I don't deserve him." — Self-blackening often makes oneself whiter.

Absolutely, don't be a mother-in-law, the more you are like this, the more hope he feels.

Then it will only hurt your self-esteem.

You warn him that in this case I will tell the teacher, and if the teacher can't do anything about you, I will tell my family and let them deal with it.

He can be shameless, why do you have to worry about hurting his self-esteem?

It's because you don't dare to explicitly reject him in front of everyone, that's why he talks nonsense to others so shamelessly.

Because of other people's evaluations, the attitude towards a person changes, and only when you understand it yourself will you know what kind of person this person is.

It's good to ask the teacher for help.

It's normal to want to fall in love, and I often can't help but think about it.

Even if you try to try all kinds of different things to fill your free time, go dancing, reading books, traveling, there will still be so many people left, and you still can't escape the loneliness from head to toe, and you will really want to have a person, two people chatting, shopping in the supermarket, and watching movies together.

It's just because of loneliness.

However, the thought of falling in love to deal with daily relationships, taking care of the feelings of another person all the time, and not being so free and freewheeling, will make a step back.

The best state I can think of is that when I am with you, I am who I am, and I don't have to do a lot of things to get along with you, I don't have to talk to each other, and I don't have to be afraid that doing so will make me lose my money.

But this state is really too difficult, and it's really too difficult to meet someone like this who happens to like each other.

I almost wonder if I can only be single for the rest of my life, or I can only barely live with someone who has no love.

Send you four words, rather lack than abuse. First love is the best memory of your life, don't get rid of your single for the sake of wanting to get rid of it, if you meet someone unladylike, it will bring a devastating blow to your life.

If you really want to talk, then talk about it in a down-to-earth manner, look at people's character, look at people's morality, look at family background, see if they don't match your three views and hobbies, and talk about it for the purpose of getting married. All love that is not aimed at marriage is a hooligan.

You're not old enough to be eighteen, right? Personally, I think it is better for you to take care of your studies during this time and go to a good university. The surroundings are better, and the people you meet are better, what do you think?

Wishing you happiness!

Don't always say, "I think as long as it feels right, it's fine" feels like the most unreliable thing. Generally, the conditions are good in all aspects, but I can't always find a suitable one, and the reason is this.

It's not wrong to keep pursuing feelings, as long as you are persistent enough and die, maybe one day, the feeling will really come, but the probability is too small.

Don't surrender to loneliness. Women are usually afraid of loneliness, and many people will want to find it until they find the right man; A man transitions. If you are someone with low emotional intelligence and is too kind, it is advisable to prefer to be alone.

Don't let any man keep you company. Don't easily accept the kindness of men you don't know, and don't accept gifts (especially clothing and valuables) from men you don't like. You have to learn to enjoy loneliness.

When you linger on a man who is not suitable for you, the man who may be suitable for you will pass you by.

Decide to love someone, slow down and see if that person is really what you want. A beautiful encounter, that's a woman's fantasy. It depends on chance to meet someone, but it depends on hard work to continue to love someone! There's still a long way to go.

After a few relationships, women will find that the best men are not necessarily the right people for them. When I was young, my heart was higher than the sky, and I slowly became sober in the face of reality. This is a process that every woman must go through.

You have to understand that even if you fall in love, you can't just find one, that is irresponsible for your youth, love is a sacred thing, it will look at your whole life, if you really want to fall in love, just find someone who is not annoying and has the same personality.

When you fall in love, you should find a stable, mature, responsible, capable or skilled boy, slowly find it, and wait until the social circle expands to choose a better boy, don't be in a hurry to fall in love when you are hot-headed, you must choose the right person to fall in love.

It's not something you want to have in love.

Meet the right person at the right time. There is some truth to this statement. These boys you described, I think he is only suitable to be your friend.

You can't feel like yourself because of a momentary favorite. Moreover, the love you want is not between them, you have to step through them and meet more friends, instead of choosing between them. Love can't be in a hurry or slow, fate is very unreasonable.

Wait slowly for fate to come, and you will meet a better him.