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It doesn't have to be so complicated, as the saying goes, "There are people in the world who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, despise me, despise me, hate me, and lie to me, just endure him, let him, let him, avoid him, tolerate him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years, and you will look at him."

When you meet this kind of person, what you want is not how to scold him but ignore it, the more you pay attention to it, the more you wander around, you can't bite you and bite it back!

It's cool over there, old ancestor, you walk slowly.

If you were a literate and civilized person with whom you usually maintain a good relationship, there would be no such gossip. To check some of your own behavior first. Find out the shortcomings, improve them, and you will gradually achieve good results.

There is no groundlessness, don't say anything about your family to the outside, don't you make your family ugly, aren't you doing very badly outside?

I recommend installing a surveillance camera to see at a glance who spits dirty water.

Those who are clear are self-purifying, and those who are confused are confused. Don't be angry, it's not worth it, there are some people who are messing around, unreasonable, and cheap, so you don't have to deal with them. If there is a fuss, it is a big deal to go to the industrial and commercial office and let the professionals evaluate it, and the professionals may be able to explain it to them.

You are not obligated.

Some people are born to love you, and some people are destined to come to teach you. What you work hard to manage is what the other party doesn't care about; What you hate is what the other party is accustomed to. Between liking and disliking, it's either a dead screw, or a dead twist.

However, this is life, there is intimate warmth, but also biting cold, but I want to make your life richer and more complete.

Most of the female classmates are joking with you when they call you like this, so you don't have to care. It's just joking with each other.

The next time she calls you that, you say: You don't need to call Auntie, just call Mom.

They all say I look younger than you!

Personally, I think that for such an aunt, it is completely possible to call the police, there is no need to reason with her, and for this kind of person, she should also be restricted from taking public transportation.

Quality is cultivated, domineering at home is at home, and there are rules outside, which must be followed.

I think this Northeast aunt is very unqualified, and blatantly disrupts the normal order, and has brought a very bad impact on life, seriously corrupting the social atmosphere, and this aunt should be punished accordingly.

I think it is very uncivilized for this Northeast aunt to scold on the high-speed rail. Even if you encounter a problem when you are away from home, you should seek a staff to solve it, and scolding will not solve any problem.

I think this Northeast aunt's scolding behavior is incorrect, especially without quality, and she doesn't know how to respect people at all.

This is a problem of the quality of the Northeast aunt, the Northeast people themselves are short-tempered, and it is easy to scold when they disagree, but the Northeast aunt also has to control her temper outside, and don't accidentally hurt innocent others.

I don't think this kind of person can get used to it, if you get used to it, it will only get worse in the future, then other newcomers will naturally suffer, and in such a situation, you should still call 110 to seek help from the police。This incident happened in Nanchong, Sichuan, when a couple was taking wedding photos in a square, but an old man who was nearly 70 years old said congratulations, while blocking the cameraman's shot, wanting to take the opportunity to ask for money.

This picture is really a bit too scenic, you can see that the newcomer also avoided the aunt at first, but this aunt has always been with him, and has been blocking the camera. And this aunt is quite arrogant, seeing passers-by pointing and scolding each other, she didn't realize her mistake at all. The bride couldn't bear it anymore in the face of this aunt, and asked why did the aunt give you money?

As a result, the aunt actually went back angrily, if you give me dozens of yuan, you will die, don't think about taking pictures if you don't give money, don't even think about taking pictures tomorrow. I was in a good mood and wanted to take beautiful wedding photos, but now I am not in the mood at all, which is really sad.

Obviously, he has shamelessly asked people for money, and he is still so arrogant. If it were me, I would have called 110 to deal with it immediately, because such a person can't get used to this aunt, and if I taste the sweetness this time, then I will definitely continue to do such things in the future, so there will be more couples who will encounter similar situations when taking wedding photos. But if 110 can handle it, I believe that his mother will be able to realize his mistake, but the ending of this matter is quite happy, and in the end, the old lady who is close to seventy is suspected of harassing others and begging, and was administratively detained in accordance with the law.

The reason why this old lady wanted to do this was because she had seen other old ladies ask for money in this way, so she began to imitate it on the street. Some people think that older people may not understand the law when they are old, but I think that even if the law is different, it should not be so unqualified and moral. Such an old man should be punished to a certain extent, and he should not take advantage of the loopholes of the law just because he is old.

And I believe that many people should have encountered similar problems, that is, when they got married, they were stopped by a very old man and old lady, and they were not allowed to leave without giving cigarettes or money. Such things are frequently ** on the Internet, in fact, when encountering such a thing, you should also look for 110's help. If you want to break the bank and avoid disasters, it will only make these old people even worse, and old age is not a reason to escape the law.

Alarm. I will not give her money, giving money will only encourage unhealthy trends, and the law should be allowed to punish her.

I will communicate with each other. If the communication fails, you can only call the police to solve it, because the purpose of this kind of person is not pure, so calling the police is the best solution.

I will give a little money appropriately, after all, I don't want to have conflicts with other people on the big day.

Seeing that a person is not pleasing to the eye, and wants to hit him, this kind of thought flashes by, don't be impulsive, you will lose if you are serious, after all, it is not right to beat someone, and there are more people in the world who are not pleasing to the eye, and you can't beat him if you want to control yourself, it's very simple, don't look at him and stay away from him. As the saying goes, out of sight and out of mind, if you really can't avoid it, then the specific problem is analyzed specifically, and there is always a good way to solve it.

Towards society, we will come into contact with all kinds of people, face all kinds of things, it is inevitable to encounter a few wonders, how you look at how to feel unpleasant, there are many reasons here, it may be that your three views do not agree, the way he treats people in the world you are not used to, and then there is that he looks too ugly and disgusting to you, or his voice is too harsh, or he studies better than you, his work is better than you, etc., these are the most common contradictions between people, think about it carefully, it's not a big deal, as an adult, When encountering problems, you must first learn to analyze rationally and try to find the best way to solve the problem, just like a sketch line says: "Impulse is the devil", you must learn to control your own emotions.

Uh, you want to hit him when you see him if he doesn't like it, this doesn't work, people don't mess with you, that person's behavior has nothing to do with you, you're not his person, even if you're his person, you can't hit someone casually, you have to spend money to see him if he hurts someone, think about it, it's not cost-effective, I really see that he doesn't like it, I scold him in my heart, don't really scold him, scolding people is also uncivilized, no matter what you can say, So you just secretly scold a few words in your heart to vent it, if you really can't yell at the open place, or don't hit the wall a few times, but it is estimated that you will regret hitting the wall, because your hands hurt, maybe it will lead to bleeding if you use it too much, in fact, you can also find a friend and relatives to talk about it, talking is the best way to decompress, and it won't hurt, just say what you don't like to say, your mood will be much better, you can also see that person ** bad to bring it up with him, Good people will naturally correct it, if it doesn't have much to do with you or you rarely meet this person, he will also shake in front of your eyes for such a time, you don't need to want to hit him, if you really go up to beat him, people will mistake you for a nervous disorder, so you can't be impulsive, you must keep a calm heart, silently say in your heart "It's none of my business, it's not my business", hehe, this is a joke I saw in the circle of friends that my husband made me angry, don't say, My husband chose it himself, no way, it will be much better, I think silent meditation is also a good way to regulate my emotions!

This kind of thing I can only say that we should try to be as generous as possible, because after all, we can't hit people on the grounds of "seeing you are unhappy", which is not good. My high school table mate is such a person who owes beating, I will introduce him below, and then I restrained myself from the urge to hit him, I told myself, there is no need to deal with this kind of person, I choose to ignore him, treat him as air, he can do whatever he wants, what kind of person is I at the same table?

I was at the same table, typical of conceit, very poor ability, and terrible learning, but he just had self-confidence beyond ordinary people, commonly known as honey self-confidence. He was the best in a bad school in junior high school, so that school was used to his super conceited character of pretending to be big or small. His low emotional intelligence is reflected in many things, and I will pick one side to talk about - love and always go against each other.

When he was in junior high school, he was a student with excellent academic performance in the class, so he had a sense of superiority, he often told us about his glorious deeds, he was in class, when the teacher made a mistake, he rushed to the podium and snatched the chalk in the teacher's hand, and walked down in style after correction, he was proud every time he talked about it, and we all felt that "the code of the mentally retarded". Maybe it was this incident that made him feel very handsome to go against the teacher, he basically didn't listen to the class, he was writing his own exercises, and then he thought he was very handsome, and the teacher asked him if he had listened to it and so on, and he talked back, and then the person next to him laughed, it's over, he thought he was more handsome, and he talked back to himself, and then smiled chicly, ah, if I were the teacher, I would kick him out, how can I have low emotional intelligence like this. His English is particularly poor, the kind that didn't pass the whole year, crazy brushing questions before the college entrance examination, the teacher in order to enlighten him, called him to the office to talk, two English teachers told him "words can't, brushing questions has no effect, memorize more words", I'm not happy at the same table, "You slap your face, I'm here this time.

The aspect has improved. Scores, are I brushing the question effect well", alas, the teacher can't help it if he wants to save him, he came back and proudly told me everything, and then felt very handsome, in fact, that time he raised his score because the test was the easiest of the year, and his score didn't even reach the average score, alas, I can't help it when I talk back to the teacher, and I still think it's very handsome.

This is the kind of person who wants to beat him every day, and he still tells you from time to time, "Come and beat me" Alas, if it was a child, I would definitely beat him flat, but now it seems that he is just a joke.

Just kidding, this thing is actually very difficult to tell, you yourself sometimes can't figure out why you can be so angry, that person may not have said anything to you, just an expression, an action, make you look uncomfortable horizontally and vertically, and that restless nameless fire will rise. I've had this experience many times, and I've done it, so I really don't know how to fix it, but after the fight, believe me, you will regret it more than anyone else, not just the punishment you need to face, but you will wonder if you are violent, if you are mentally ill. This is a real feeling, I was also confused at first, I couldn't control myself, but after the experience, I realized that this kind of behavior is just a temporary refreshment, and the impression left on others is indelible, and the doubt about myself will be more intense.

Therefore, as a person who has been in this area, I can only tell you that you should not do this through my own actual experience, if you look at a person who is not pleasing to the eye, maybe people look at you also unpleasant, what should you do? The best way is to keep your distance, and another way is to try to make yourself sleek, and when you are really mature, not so naïve, you will naturally not have the idea of looking at people unpleasantly, to put it bluntly, that kind of thinking is the manifestation that you are not afraid of heaven and earth, and it is also a manifestation that you are too angular, and when you are in contact with more people, understand how big the world is, and realize your own insignificance, you will remain humble from the heart, and even from unpleasant to want to understand a person, you will be curious about what he does, What is his education, what is his character, how did he do what he is now, compared with himself, who is stronger and who is weaker? In a year or two, especially after graduation, this feeling will become stronger and stronger.